What did my marriage mean?

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Cloud 9
Senior Member

since 2004-11-05

Posts 980
Ca

0 posted 2005-02-23 11:20 AM

M-Make promises and doesn't keep them.
Y-Yelling at each other in front of the kids.

M-Make sure not to leave marks.
A-Arrange to have her as back up.
R-Respect-NO SUCH WORD EXISTS
R-Responsibility means nothing with 4 kids and 4 women later.
I-Is this marriage really a joke?
A-Ability to lower her self esteem.
G-Going to the doctor to be diagmosed with depression. ("ding, ding" big flag)
E-Eventually she is going to hit back and she does.....

Its amazing how one word means SO much to one person and means nothing to another.

To all you women out there who there who has been through this and have now found the man of thier dreams.....I envy you and hope one day I will find someone and be just as happy as you.

Earth Angel
Member Empyrean

since 2002-08-27

Posts 40215
Realms of Light

1 posted 2005-02-23 11:30 AM

Your poem packed a powerful punch to my solar plexus. I could identify with most of your descriptions, but fortunately not all of them. My heart goes out to you. I truly have compassion for what you have been going through ~ and you really makd this reader sit up and take notice.

I thank God every day for finally bringing my soul mate and I together. I have never been happier in my entire life. I wish this for you as well. You deserve to truly be on Cloud 9!

Sending you a warm, comforting, understanding hug ~ and shoulder,

EA

P.S. Yes, there truly is life after death!

SEA

Moderator

Member Seraphic

since 2000-01-18

Posts 22676
with you

2 posted 2005-02-23 12:45 PM

sounds like you know my ex...

no one should have to go through this. I'm sorry you are.

Cloud 9
Senior Member

since 2004-11-05

Posts 980
Ca

3 posted 2005-02-23 01:06 PM

Thanks to the two of you.

do they just pull these guys from physical ed and teach them how to be like this. My dad was the same way with my mom. Just when you think you will never marry someone like their father........I did.

I have lots of poems at home, I will bring them in.

Susan
Member Ascendant

since 2004-03-27

Posts 5104
walking the surreal

4 posted 2005-02-23 03:13 PM

My heart goes out to you- and yes, there are a number of good men out there - may you find healing and love for yourself - then the man of your dreams -

Susan

If I wander far enough, long enough, will I finally know . . .

lgina
Member

since 2004-07-20

Posts 52

5 posted 2005-02-23 08:04 PM

I lived this as the child of divorcing parents. Great word images. THis is a power piece on the road th healing.

Bloom,

Foxyoasis
Senior Member

since 2003-06-10

Posts 974
Atlantic Beach,Fla

6 posted 2005-02-23 08:15 PM

yes that is horrible i was married once and the whole thing anymore is a joke. I don't know what happens

well i did enjoy your poem hand in there *hugs*

Fool me once shame on you.....Fool me twice shame on me.....

A Romantic Heart
Member Ascendant

since 1999-09-03

Posts 5496
Forever In Your Heart

7 posted 2005-02-24 07:40 AM

Love will come again for you, just believe in yourself and your dreams! love yourself...

I share your hurt and pain in this!

~ARh

We attract hearts by the qualities we display, we retain them by the qualities we possess.~Jean Baptiste Antoine Suard

LeeJ
Member Patricius

since 2003-06-19

Posts 13296

8 posted 2005-02-24 08:26 AM

sometimes love changes...matures...and two people no longer have anything in common, it's no one's fault, just sadly, to know and teach us love must be mutual and allowing...

Hugs

passing shadows
Member Empyrean

since 1999-08-26

Posts 45577
displaced

9 posted 2005-02-24 08:46 AM

been there, done it...won't ever do it again

hugs to you

Cloud 9
Senior Member

since 2004-11-05

Posts 980
Ca

10 posted 2005-02-24 11:20 AM

Thanks for all your support. Its nice to have friends that are supportive. I love the (as everyone says) "blue pages." I have my family saying...."I told you so", that just isn't something I need to hear.

Thanks for letting me vent.

JamesMichael
Member Empyrean

since 1999-11-16

Posts 33336
Kapolei, Hawaii, USA

11 posted 2005-06-04 01:29 AM

Nice...James

aRiEsAnGeL
Member

since 2004-03-04

Posts 53
Florida

12 posted 2005-06-04 01:51 PM

i am so sorry you have to feel this way.I hope that the guy i am with right now(been with for almost 3 years)is the man of my dreams.I also hope you find the man of your dreams.Love and hugs to you!

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