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Earth Angel
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0 posted 2004-06-24 01:10 AM



+*+*+*+*+*+
Other people's rudeness,
Reflects right off of me.
It bounces into outer space,
In to a cosmic sea.

I refuse to let their words,
Put a damper on my day,
So I smile and excuse myself,
And then I walk away.

One can talk politely
And still speak one's mind.
For nothing's ever gained,
By being so unkind.

Life's too short, to spend the time,
With they who are not nice.
I shrug them off, and bite my tongue,
~ My peace is worth the price!
+*+*+*+*+*+

[This message has been edited by Earth Angel (06-24-2004 08:45 AM).]

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peppermint35
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1 posted 2004-06-24 01:59 AM


Now this was great! and good advice as well.  Hope I can remember to "bite my tongue" as well.

Pepper
"Somewhere, somehow, it should be possible to touch someone and never let go again.  To hold someone, not for a moment but forever." Unknown

Earth Angel
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2 posted 2004-06-24 02:05 AM


Hi, peppermint! Now aren't you just a breath of fresh air this summer's night! Good to hear from you again!

Peace, Love & Light!
EA

iliana
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3 posted 2004-06-24 02:51 AM


"Life's too short, to spend the time,
With they who are not nice.
I shrug them off, and bite my tongue,
~ My peace is worth the price!"

Aa      men!! (that's suppose to be music!)  You are so wise!  *hugs*....jo
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passing shadows
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4 posted 2004-06-24 02:51 AM


oh! I NEED this on the wall at my job! REALLY!

I see over a thousand people a day in my work...constant non-stop folks...I am the rule-enforcer...

they make me crazy sometimes

HopeS
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5 posted 2004-06-24 03:31 AM


Truly good advice !!!

Hope

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6 posted 2004-06-24 07:01 AM


Linda how true this is!!
Love ya,

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7 posted 2004-06-24 07:48 AM


i would like to dedicate this excellent piece of poetry and sound advice to that F**ckng world lit prof who embarassed me infront of class without bothering to hear me out. Amen!!!



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8 posted 2004-06-24 09:22 AM


everyone needs this on their wall

The fear I see when I look in your eyes makes you believe I'm one of a kind

gemjop
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9 posted 2004-06-24 09:39 AM


You know, i've been thinking about that a lot lately, other peoples hatred and rudeness, I sometimes let myself get too angry and wound up by it, and even waste more time trying to make them just, I don't know, stop. Maybe I should just walk away. Something to think about. Thanks Linda.
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10 posted 2004-06-24 10:00 AM


iliana ~

I enjoyed your musical reply. Now if I could have heard your angelic voice along with it ~ it would have been absolutely perfect!

Did you pluck the tune on your harp strings?

~ Have a fabulous day! ~ & keep your cool!

Huggums,
Linda

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11 posted 2004-06-24 10:03 AM


p s ~

Goond morning, Dixie! It sounds as tho' you hear a lot of flack at your work. Feel free to put my poem up on the wall there, Dear Rule Enforcer!

Stay calm, think rationally! ~ which may be a tall order for someone who is a shoot-from-the-hip spitfire! ~ at least some of the time! lol


Linda

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12 posted 2004-06-24 10:06 AM


Hope ~

Thank you, Dear One of the Graces! It is good advice that I actually follow! ~ well, at least most of the time. I sometimes put my two cents in when someone else is being victimized!

~ May your day be full of faith, hope & charity!


Linda

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13 posted 2004-06-24 10:07 AM


Ethel Mae ~

You look fabulous on your white unicorn mount. Now I know why you haven't been around here as much lately!

Loveya!
Linda Lou

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14 posted 2004-06-24 10:10 AM


anawanda ~

I have had a few experiences like that ~ and they were humiliating! It can be difficult to not allow another's bad day impinge on our good one!

Big hug,
EA

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15 posted 2004-06-24 10:11 AM


Hot Flakes ~

Thank you for that highly complimentary remark!

~ Have a happy summer's day!

EA

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16 posted 2004-06-24 10:17 AM


gemdrop ~

I enjoy peace and harmony and I leave situations that upset that balance in my life. When I was younger, I'd get caught up in other's dramas and would get so upset and discombobulated that I wouldn't make much sense! My brain ceases to function when I'm angry. Besides, they would start to sound irrational and passions would rise and the whole confrontation would escalate. Nope, I now keep my cool, smile and walk away. Who needs all that flack in their life!

Sorry, I started to ramble on and on ~ as I have been known to do from time to time! lol

Loveya,
LL

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17 posted 2004-06-24 03:46 PM


LOL... I was called VERY rude earlier this week... by 3 munchkins who thought traipsing around shedding grass clippings over the carpet I'd just vacuumed was SUCH a fun thing to do... and come to think of it, they DID let my "cease and desist" words bounce right off of them! LOL

Enjoyed this! *S*

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18 posted 2004-06-24 04:35 PM


Now Toerag's always rude,
And sometimes not too nice
But it's all in jest,
It's a part of my disguise

When people say unkind things,
or are rude or even worse,
I always salvage my feelings,
by just considering the source.

"I appreciate your rudeness" I say,
"honestly, I really do,
Considering how the unkind words,
only came from you."

But to put it in perspective,
what I really meant,
Is an insult from a source of ignorance,
is really just a compliment!"

Earth Angel
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19 posted 2004-06-24 04:53 PM


Dear Belle from the south ~

I got a chuckle out of your reply! I can picture the whole scenario! lol

I always enjoy it when you drop by for a little postie visit!

Warm hug, huge smile,
Lindq


Earth Angel
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20 posted 2004-06-24 04:56 PM


Toe ~

Well, was not that simply a perfect addition to my post! You just proved me right ~ and in grand fashion! Why don't you post it so more Pipsters will get to read it!

I'm high-fiving you ~ with my foot! lol

Loves 'n Laughs,
EA

SimplyGold
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21 posted 2004-06-24 06:17 PM


EA,

This is a gem, as usual. Written from the pen of an angel.

SG

Susan
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22 posted 2004-06-24 06:52 PM


Some heavenly wisdom here.  Touch me please, that I too may shrug off the barbs so easily.  Thanks for the smile.

  Susan

Happiness isn't something that happens to you, it's created from within you.  Joy is a state of mind.

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23 posted 2004-06-24 08:29 PM


I avoid nasty folks like the plague. If I get upset then I'm ill for the rest of the day and they go about their business without a care.Not worth the gray hairs.
Besides...............
I don't have the money right now to buy a bottle of Clairol.
Hugs BonBon

Earth Angel
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24 posted 2004-06-24 08:53 PM


SG ~

As I replied to one of your replies, it is great to see you back! You've been missed!

~ and I look forward to reading some gems from your pen!

Huggums,
EA

Earth Angel
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25 posted 2004-06-24 09:01 PM


Susan ~

At times, I must admit, I do find it difficult to shrug off some of those barbs. I tend to be rather sensitive, however, I also have a strong sense of survival so I choose to remove myself from distasteful and very unpleasant situations before they drag me down. I try not to get drawn into other people's dramas. Self-preservation and a calm approach to life is what keeps me sane and out of trouble! lol


Warm hugs,
Linda

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26 posted 2004-06-24 09:13 PM


BonBon ~

Translation ~ GoodGood ! ~ the name suits you! You cute little cheery cherub!

Pay no heed to the unhappy and disgruntled people who want make you feel as miserable as they do! But if you weaken and let them have control over you, I'll deliver some Clairol to you personally so that you can colour your newly gray hair!

Warm, friendly hugs,
EA

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27 posted 2004-06-24 09:16 PM


I really liked your peotic outlook on rudeness.  Thanks for posting this.
             miscellanea

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28 posted 2004-06-24 09:18 PM


Earth Angel,
   I really like the poetic wisdom in this.
              miscellanea

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29 posted 2004-06-24 09:23 PM


miscellanea ~

Hi, there! Welcome to Passions! ~ The poetic home of kindred spirits! Thank you for your responses! I look forward to reading some of your poetry as well!

Warm, welcoming hugs,
Earth Angel

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30 posted 2004-06-25 12:49 PM


Earth Angel -- hehehe  -- no harp; a little guitar, though.  PS, I kept my cool well today.  *hugs* X 1,000,000 .....jo
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31 posted 2004-06-25 04:56 AM


Thank you Linda. I'm sure the other security officers that work in the shack will appreciate your words of calm and self-assurance.
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32 posted 2004-06-25 05:44 AM


Kindness costs nothing Linda..and this poem shows just what to do to if you dont want people to spoil your day..a very positve and good poem..thank you..

Goldenrose.

''Death where is thy sting? Love where is thy glory?'' William Shakespeare.

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33 posted 2004-06-25 05:53 AM


Earth Angel,

   Thanks for your poetic thoughts on this.  Sometimes I don't know how to respond when I see rudeness.   Your advice and Toerage's is very good.  I really liked it.
              miscellanea

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34 posted 2004-06-25 07:36 AM


iliana ~

"Cool" is cool! ~ and sending hugs x 1,000,000 rightbackatchya!

Enjoy your day! Remember that you are at the helm of your own ship! Sail away nice 'n easy!

Lovin' hugs,
Linda

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35 posted 2004-06-25 07:43 AM


Dixie ~

Well I am both pleased and honoured. It is such a thrill for me when my poetry can reach out and touch people. Thank you.

Stay cool and calm ~ and then go run around the block a couple of times! lol

And oh, don't forget, counting to 10 really helps one to react rationally and to cool down a bit! Come to think of it, if you counted to 100, the offenders might get so bored staring at you, that they're the ones that end up walking away and leaving you alone! lol

Have a peaceful and harmonious day!

Linda

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36 posted 2004-06-25 07:48 AM


Goldenrose ~

D'accord! I agree! Some wars could even have been prevented if world leaders hadn't reacted to insulting or aggressive remarks, by shooting from the hip!

Love, Peace & Harmony,

Linda

Earth Angel
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37 posted 2004-06-25 07:50 AM


miscellanea ~

Good to see you again! You really did appreciate my poem and its message! That is highly gratifying to me as a writer of poetry! Thank you, miscellanea!

Warm hugs 'n smiles,
EA


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