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JamesMichael
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since 1999-11-16

Posts 33336
Kapolei, Hawaii, USA

0 posted 2002-01-27 02:29 PM

Reflections

Wonder why
it's so easy
for a woman
to say...
goodbye?

I always
seem to cry
when I say
goodbye.

JamesLee
January27
2002
Just
Refecting
OnPast
Relationships

Silver Streak
Member Elite

since 2002-01-02

Posts 3625
FL, USA

1 posted 2002-01-27 02:33 PM

Depends on why. Isn't saying goodbye always sad when you don't want to. It has nothing to do with being a woman or a man! When a person wants to leave the scene, it's often still sad, but sometimes it is the lessor of two sad evils.

-Silver Streak

Sharing God's Love through perfectlovepoetry.com

Copyright: 2002 Newell Elsworth Usher

Enchantress
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since 2001-08-14

Posts 35113
Canada eh.

2 posted 2002-01-27 03:07 PM

James....it is never easy to say goodbye, whether it is a man or a woman....

~Warm hugs, Nancy~

~Time has cast a spell on you,
So you won't ever forget me~

RosePetal

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since 2001-08-26

Posts 2985
South Florida

3 posted 2002-01-27 04:43 PM

ah goodbyes are so hard to do, for me they are at least! This reminded me of the song "goodbye" by jagged edge. give it a listen sometime.

Irish Rose
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since 2000-04-06

Posts 10263

4 posted 2002-01-27 04:50 PM

you have a kind heart, nothing wrong with tears.
Takes me forever to get over goodbye, I never really do.
Don't know about other women, only me

Kathleen--(Kay)
A true friend does not love you for who you are, but in spite of who you are." -- Caroline Tran

Magnus

Member Laureate

since 2001-10-10

Posts 14135
South Carolina, USA

5 posted 2002-01-27 07:54 PM

James...you old romantic dog you...join the
crowd...I do toooooooo...boooohooooo...like
a baby...sometimes can't help it...

strbbux
Member Elite

since 2001-12-19

Posts 3859

6 posted 2002-01-27 08:47 PM

It takes a kind loving tender heart to cry James. That makes a man a great man in my opinion..so nice, I loved this. floria

Floria

"Alas for those that never sing,
But die with all their music in them"
(Oliver Wendell Holmes)

Mistletoe Angel

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since 2000-12-17

Posts 32816
Portland, Oregon

7 posted 2002-01-28 04:40 PM

(big hugggsssssss) Oh James, I know just how you feel, I believe goodbye is the most saddest word of all to have to say! (sigh) May love forever shine in your heart and welcome you with golden joy, we all love you so much! You have such a beautiful heart, sweet James, thank you for sharing!

May love and light always shine upon you!

Love,
Noah Eaton

Greeneyes

Member Rara Avis

since 2000-09-09

Posts 9903
In Your Poetic Mind

8 posted 2002-01-28 04:47 PM

James~

Goodbyes are always so hard to do....nice thoughts here....

Lauren~

Step through the
barrier of my mind,
enter my soul,
feel my desire,
let my eyes guide you
into the shadows
of my heart

rosepetals25

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since 2000-05-31

Posts 3076
PA

9 posted 2002-01-28 05:17 PM

James,

It's not always easy to say good-bye.
Nice write.. I enjoyed.

Hugs,
Tara

"My heart is like an open book, for the whole world to read"
- Motley Crue, Home Sweet Home

BluesSerenade
Member Patricius

since 2001-10-23

Posts 10549
By the Seaside

10 posted 2002-01-28 05:57 PM

Those two words are so final and are not easy to say or hear.
To be fair, they don't only apply to the female gender.

It's a hard pill to swallow for sure!

JamesMichael
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since 1999-11-16

Posts 33336
Kapolei, Hawaii, USA

11 posted 2002-01-28 07:37 PM

Thank you Silver Streak, Nancy, Rose Petal, Irish Rose, Magnus,Floria, Noah, Lauren, Tara and Blues Serenade...
I suppose it does seem like I am picking on women in this reflection...yet I am only sharing my experiences...
I am in a relationship right now with a woman that I hope will find it hard to leave me...we will see...and then I won't be writing about this any more...I will be writing of her beauty...James

Startime
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since 2000-10-03

Posts 5918
Canada

12 posted 2002-01-28 07:42 PM

*sigh* me too...I don't like goodbyes...they always make me cry....**big hugs**

my heart goes out to you if you have received a goodbye, dear man.

Love I leave with you whether it is in your life now or yet the essense of your dreams.

catalinamoon

Member Rara Avis

since 2000-06-03

Posts 9543
The Shores of Alone

13 posted 2002-01-29 12:35 PM

James I have often wondered the same about men. So there you have it. Some people are colder than others, and I guess the gender makes no difference.I hope this one lasts forever for you.
Sandra

Bill Charles
Member Patricius

since 2000-07-11

Posts 10619
highways, & byways, for now

14 posted 2002-01-29 12:49 PM

James - I'm not that sure if a woman can say goodbye without feeling it also. I don't know, but at times it seems that way..

BC

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