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sad brown eyes
Junior Member

since 2001-12-14

Posts 19
Connecticut U.S

0 posted 2002-01-25 01:04 PM

Im tired of the competition.
Always trying to be the best one.
All those other girls i dont know what they want.
He says their just friends and they dont matter to him but, then why do i feel like i dont fit in?
Im always tryn to be the best.
Im tired and i want to rest.
I feel unhappy.
Like i dont make him happy.
Sometimes im fine sometimes, i want to cry.
Why?
If i dont like the way i feel then why imi still with him?
Who knows.
I guess cuz,i love him.

HopelessRomanticGuy
Member

since 2001-08-17

Posts 495
LI, New York

1 posted 2002-01-25 02:16 PM

Sadly, I think I made one of my now-ex-girlfriend feel the same way. I had lots of female friends and it made her feel less important at times, especially after I moved. The sittuation was reversed when I was in my last relationship, however, with my girlfriend having lots of guy friends that she acted like 'more than friends' with, yet she sweared she did not care for them. So i know how you feel, it's not pleasant, but I was, as you are, willing to go through it. If you decide to tell him how it makes you feel, be prepared for the worst, it happened to me.

After Love comes Pain, then Love, Then Pain, then Love, then Pain..... does anyone else see a pattern here? Oh well, can't say it's not worth it.

xShUgArHiGhx

Member Elite

since 2000-09-26

Posts 3150
tRyIn tO fIt iN2 mY oWn ShoEs

2 posted 2002-01-26 11:38 PM

I've felt this way so many times in my life and i dont know why..with my current boyfriend i always feel like i have to compete to be the best so that way he'll stay with me but if you really think about it..if he's with you then your the one he wants and if he leaves u for another than he didnt deserve you so why waste all your time and energy competing...hmm...now i gotta go think..

yOu GeT wAt u PaId 4 bUt i JuS hAd nO..iNtEnTion oF liVin tHis waY --Counting crows

Acies

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Member Rara Avis

since 2000-06-07

Posts 7665
Twilight Zone

3 posted 2002-02-12 01:16 PM

you both should talk and compromise
i guess that's the one thing you need to do
you also have to remember that trust is also needed in a relationship
hoping for the best
thanks for the read

là où est mon amour?
donde está mi amour?
wo ist meine Liebe?
Nelly Furtado é a menina a mais bonita no mundo largo do todo.

DawnG

Senior Member

since 2000-06-23

Posts 1494
United States

4 posted 2002-02-12 01:35 PM

I hope things work out for you and your boyfriend.

Dawn

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