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GeorgiaPaver Junior Member
since 2002-12-01
Posts 15Savannah, GA |
I recently hurt my girlfriend again, and shes not so sure im going to change. Ive been under the roof of an abusive father and suffering manic depression. I'm changed for the good. What should I do and say to make her see she can trust me again? This would help alot |
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Poet deVine
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Member Seraphic
since 1999-05-26
Posts 22612Hurricane Alley |
Trust is something that should be earned. I think you're just going to have to give it time and show your girlfriend that she can trust you. It may take a while, but if you love her and are sincerely trying to change, she'll see it. Take it one day at a time.  |
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Ron
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Member Rara Avis
since 1999-05-19
Posts 8669Michigan, US |
It's easy for a person to say they've changed, but much more difficult to actually do it. When the problem is a medical one, it's pretty much impossible to do it alone. Wanting an open wound to close doesn't make it suddenly happen, and clinical depression is no different. Get help. That will be the first step in proving you really WANT to change. |
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garysgirl  
since 2002-09-29
Posts 19237Florida, USA |
I agree with Sharon and Ron........trust has to be earned, and also, if you have a medical problem, you really need to get that problem under control. What stood out to me in your words was that you said that you hurt your girlfriend AGAIN....... ????? ~Ethel~ [This message has been edited by garysgirl (12-15-2002 10:32 PM).] |
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