Getting it off my chest!!!!!!

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ESP
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since 2000-01-25

Posts 2556
Floating gently on a cloud....

0 posted 2002-11-12 09:33 PM

Hello anybody who reads this. I'm Liz the reject. lol. Nah, I'm ok really. Well I think so anyway. lol. Guess what, like probably a zillion other people at this moment, I am having guy-trouble. I have known this guy for about a month. We have been flirting and chatting a lot. I have grown very fond of him. I have these feelings for him, so I told him that. In an email cos I am kinda shy...
And he won't tell me how he feels. Either about the way I feel for him or about the way he feels about me. Maybe he doesnt want anything with me and doesnt want to hurt me by saying it to my face. But I wish he would just say one way or another, it is really hurtful this way. And the thing is, I don't want it to wreck what we already share, cos he is a real sweetheart and if I can't be anything else, I want to be there for him as a friend. I was thinking of maybe initiating a proper meet-up this weekend to talk about it all and figure it all out. I want to suggest it but what do I do if he says no? Then what? Heeeeeeeeeellllllppppp!!! Lol. Apart from that, Uni is great. But I wanna go home cos I havent been since Easter holidays. Boo-Hoo. I miss my dogs, at least they love me without a doubt without a question. lol. Hey, and my mum and dad for that matter. lol. Well, I have gone on for long enough. Thanks for reading/listening whoever does, I just really needed to get this off my chest!!
Cheers! Luv, Lizxx

Wind

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since 2002-10-12

Posts 2981

1 posted 2002-11-12 10:14 PM

Hi, I'm Liz, and I'm a reject too! Welcome to my world! I am weird, smart, and feel used by my friends, but i don't care because I can write!

"Sticks and stones will break my bones,
But words will break my heart"

Erin
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since 2000-06-15

Posts 2527
~Chicago~

2 posted 2002-11-13 12:18 PM

I have no idea what to say. I just know im in a position like u are in. But the guy was my best friend. We ended up kicking it a couple of times now he is avoiding me and it hurts but what can i do. Give it time let him come around.

~if you want something very badly set it free, if it comes back to you its yours forever, if it doesnt it was never yours to begin with~

majnu

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since 2002-10-13

Posts 1088
SF Bay Area

3 posted 2002-11-14 01:28 AM

re from a guys perspective.

i was on a major rebound last year after being cheated on, my best female friends who I thought of as a sister gave me a very unsisterly like kiss while trying to comfort me.

if you want to make sure to keep him as at least a friend be VERY careful how you probe potential romance.

-majnu
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Timid thoughts be not afraid. I am a Poet.

[This message has been edited by Nan (11-14-2002 08:05 AM).]

Riley

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since 2002-07-18

Posts 1038
in the pouring rain

4 posted 2002-11-28 11:29 PM

LOL @ Wind.........darn guys...and I am 13 hehe, gives me something to look forward to

I may not be a liz but i am a reject go me
Riley

Morning mist clings to my face, and my soul opens up to you......

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