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JamesMichael
Member Empyrean

since 1999-11-16

Posts 33336
Kapolei, Hawaii, USA

0 posted 2004-07-18 06:15 PM

Finding My Place In This World

I have suspicions that
the woman I value, admire,
desire above all the others,
the one I want to be with,
doesn't share the same
feelings as me.

I made it clear that
I desire only her
but she hasn't made her
intentions clear to me.

My intentions are sincere
but now I find myself
wallowing in her insincerity.

I know what to do.
I'll tell her we're through,
that should put an end
to her passivity.

Then I'll laugh, cry
and scream because its not as
easy as it seems to let go
of the woman of your dreams.

JamesLee
July1
2004

[This message has been edited by JamesMichael (07-20-2004 12:00 AM).]

Susan
Member Ascendant

since 2004-03-27

Posts 5104
walking the surreal

1 posted 2004-07-18 08:57 PM

No, it is far from easy. Luckily, I believe there is not just one true love and sometimes "No" is the answer we are destined to hear as the "Yes" we are meant for is waiting just around the corner. My heart to you--

Susan

Happiness isn't something that happens to you, it's created from within you. Joy is a state of mind.

JamesMichael
Member Empyrean

since 1999-11-16

Posts 33336
Kapolei, Hawaii, USA

2 posted 2004-07-20 12:02 PM

Thanks for the nice response Susan...at this point I'm mostly just writing down my feelings on this...but we did come to an understanding on some of the things mentioned here...as long as we keep talking things will be good...James

iliana
Member Patricius

since 2003-12-05

Posts 13434
USA

3 posted 2004-07-20 10:30 PM

Hang in there, JamesLee. Consistency may win out! .....jo

JamesMichael
Member Empyrean

since 1999-11-16

Posts 33336
Kapolei, Hawaii, USA

4 posted 2004-07-21 02:45 AM

Thanks iliana...she told me that I wouldn't find another woman as special as her...James

passing shadows
Member Empyrean

since 1999-08-26

Posts 45577
displaced

5 posted 2004-07-21 04:44 AM

hang in there

LeeJ
Member Patricius

since 2003-06-19

Posts 13296

6 posted 2004-07-21 08:07 AM

no James, it will not be easy, but before you let her go, perhaps you should face the unknown and give it possiblity, don't run, but stay and talk with her, give her a choice as well...b/c you never really know what another is thinking unless you ask...
Allow her happiness to, it is not a rejection, but simply allowing both of you the respect and maturity of choice...
in which case, if she does not feel the same way, then how is anything lost...to continue would be disasterous and a lie to both.

Earth Angel
Member Empyrean

since 2002-08-27

Posts 40215
Realms of Light

7 posted 2004-07-21 08:37 AM

"I know what to do.
I'll tell her we're through,
that should put an end
to her passivity."

~ I do believe honesty is the best policy, so if you were to break off with her in the hope that that will end her passivity, then you would be acting in an insincere manner yourself. ~ and end all chance of winning her heart. Patience can have its rewards! ~ and knowing you as I do through your poetry, you have a very good chance of claiming her heart!

EA

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