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kaile
since 2000-02-06
Posts 5146singapore 
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Dedicated to the memory of Miss Ginger Michelle Chadwick Assignment #1--Words Don’t Always Mean What They Say We were used to being pampered Kings and Queens, no thanks to indulgent parents. The early school years were arduous for us, for we had to face peers who weren't necessarily adoring the ground we walked on. In fact, some were masters of the same tricks we perfected~how a charming smile became our greatest tool at our disposal, how the throwing of tantrums would make people fulfil our whims. It was hence inevitable that personalities clashed. "I don't wanna friend you anymore," so we threatened whenever we couldn't get our way, sometimes huffing and puffing, other times shedding angry tears but adamant nonetheless that our peers were idiots. But young children's hearts aren't made to contain anger and all feuds and thoughts of seeking revenge would be promptly forgotten the next day. We would all happily get along, until the next argument arose. During my teenage years, I came to realise that I was rather quick-thinking and possessed a sharp tongue. I thought I should spice up our lives a little by utilising my assets. Hey, life's just a game and why take it so seriously? It's all in the name of fun and laughter, right? "I'm sorry. I was just joking" became my trade slogan but I was often criticised for being sarcastic and slammed with the sentiment: If you know you are going to apologise for the remarks you make, why utter them in the first place? The well-orchestrated laughs I thought I would induce never exactly occurred and I was only amusing myself most of the time. It took me years though before I could see their point--that "sorry" is a sacred word and no decent human would abuse it Sometimes when I refuse to follow my mum's advice, she would exasperatingly lament to my dad about how stubborn and unfilial I am and how I won't bother to stand by her when she becomes frail and in need of my care. I used to be hurt by her callous remarks and would bury myself forcibly in a book I'm reading, determined not to let them fall on my ears. And I definitely wouldn't give her the privilege of seeing how affected I was. I've lived long enough to realise that many things in life aren't constant but your parents will always love you, no matter what. My mum is only expressing her affection in her own way. And these words do mean what they say. [This message has been edited by kaile (03-27-2003 02:49 AM).] |
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Sunshine
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Member Empyrean
since 1999-06-25
Posts 63354Listening to every heart |
Kaile, I saw what you left in the Reflections Discussion forum - and came to read this. I am so proud of you! |
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Larry C
since 2001-09-10
Posts 10286United States |
kaile, Aha...here it is! Perfect. You have touched my heart so with a tribute to my daughter. I'm rarely speechless and am so close to being so now. What a thoughtful write. And oh so true. How I hope this makes the book.  If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again. |
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garysgirl 
since 2002-09-29
Posts 19237Florida, USA |
Kaile, this is precious...the poem and the thoughts behind it. You are a very kind and tender-hearted person. I certainly hope that this gets into the book. You have my vote. Hugs, Ethel |
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Enchantress Member Empyrean
since 2001-08-14
Posts 35113Canada eh. |
kaile..I am speechless... and that does not happen often. Fantastic write from a very kind hearted person. ~Hugs & a vote~ ~Somewhere in my heart I'm always |
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Mistletoe Angel
since 2000-12-17
Posts 32816Portland, Oregon |
 (big hugggssssssss) God Bless You, sweet friend, this brought me to tears as I know Ginger will always be blessed to have you as her friend as her love will always go on just as she will always love all her family! (wipes tears) I send extra special friendship hugs your way, sweet friend, this was very thoughtful and compassionate of you to write this, we all love you so much! You have such a beautiful heart, sweet Kaile, thank you for sharing! May love and light always shine upon you! Love, Noah Eaton "Underneath your clothes there's an endless story..." |
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SPIRIT Senior Member
since 2002-12-29
Posts 1745California Desert |
Excellent write. Happy to vote on this. [This message has been edited by SPIRIT (03-26-2003 11:22 PM).] |
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kaile
since 2000-02-06
Posts 5146singapore |
geez, i really don't deserve such fine praise..and besides, the pleasure's mine as well...i'm experiencing an emotional high both as a writer and as a person... thanks for your reads and your support |
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Janet Marie Member Laureate
since 2000-01-22
Posts 18554 |
But young children's hearts aren't made to contain anger and all feuds and thoughts of seeking revenge would be promptly forgotten the next day. ============================== Wise beyond your years.... this is a wonderful gifting of wisdom and words poet kaile ... and a MUST for the book. "and when we get to the pearly gates ... |
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Cpat Hair
since 2001-06-05
Posts 11793 |
I'm impressed with the wisdom...and the intent of this.. you are indeed special. |
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Sunshine
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Member Empyrean
since 1999-06-25
Posts 63354Listening to every heart |
bump |
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Midnitesun
since 2001-05-18
Posts 28647Gaia |
OK my good buddy, now you've actually made me cry again today! But for all the right reasons. This is beautiful, and I certainly hope your parents can read this one. It would be such a wonderful addition to Reflections. |
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christian Member
since 2002-12-18
Posts 331 |
prose at its finest, there's just nothing else to it but that. tinged with wisdom and intuition. cool kaile, i enjoyed it. |
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suthern
since 1999-07-29
Posts 20723Louisiana |
Even without the dedication, I would have voted for this gladly... it's excellent!! |
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regards2you Member Elite
since 2002-10-01
Posts 3940California |
Kaile, This is wonderful. I haven't read whatever you wrote in Reflections Discussion, which I'll go find in a moment. This prose is from your heart to ours. Wise and insightful. Seeing your growth and maturity in a few paragraphs is testament to your ability to write well and to your kind nature and sensitivity to others. The honesty alone, in this write is worth multiple votes, and I'd do that were it possible. Enjoyed this greatly, Hugs, Pat ..without surrender, be on good terms with all persons.. |
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kaile
since 2000-02-06
Posts 5146singapore |
hmm, if you guys know me in real life, "wise" will be the last word you will associate with me...i haven't really experienced major ups and downs as yet and still have plenty of growing up to do... i thank you though for thinking that this is a fitting tribute...i was a bit concerned that it isn't.... |
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LngJhnAg Member Elite
since 1999-07-23
Posts 3508Boot+Kitty=Poetry in motion |
Kaile - This is so insightful. There are parts of this I see in myself. Has your mum read this? I wouldn't show it to her until Mother's Day. This essay reads as well as the parable of the Prodigal Son. Beautiful because of the reconciliation it portrays, both with your mum and with yourself. Obviously, this deserves a vote. |
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Dark Angel Member Patricius
since 1999-08-04
Posts 10095 |
This is indeed a must for the book. Excellent! Maree  |
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Mysteria
since 2001-03-07
Posts 18328British Columbia, Canada |
What a precious piece you have written here young lady, and I have to tell you if you were my daughter I would sure be mighty proud of you. Bless your heart! |
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BluesSerenade Member Patricius
since 2001-10-23
Posts 10549By the Seaside |
I'm telling you, some day my kids will learn~ Life is too short~ Good stuff kaile~ |
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Earth Angel Member Empyrean
since 2002-08-27
Posts 40215Realms of Light |
Kaile, this compassionate and insightful write has deepened my affection for you even more... Warm hugs, Dear One, Linda |
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Bohemianaus Member
since 2003-01-05
Posts 69Australia (South Gippsland) |
This is so true. Got my vote. Nice write. I forgot to sign this, lol - Namaste Boh [This message has been edited by Bohemianaus (04-03-2003 01:50 PM).] |
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Larry C
since 2001-09-10
Posts 10286United States |
Even healthy bumps are contagious!  If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again. |
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ecrivan Member Elite
since 2001-12-10
Posts 3923my own state |
Much in the way of wisdom prevails from the books we read and from the lives we live...you have a worthy piece of prose to be included here  |
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waldopepper Member
since 2003-03-18
Posts 157Tennessee, USA |
Very wise reflections my friend. Your point is well made and full of truth. |
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Aimster Member Elite
since 2000-02-19
Posts 4297Charlotte, NC |
kaile, beautiful writing deep from your heart! i started crying halfway through reading this...reminded me a bit of myself. I sure hope this makes the book! this is the stuff Passions is made about! Again lovely lovely writing!! take care Amy "love is like a butterfly-- |
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Sudhir Iyer Member Ascendant
since 2000-04-26
Posts 6943Mumbai, India : now in Belgium |
Excellent write, this one... regards, sudhir |
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Larry C
since 2001-09-10
Posts 10286United States |
bumpin' up If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again. |
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