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JamesMichael
Member Empyrean

since 1999-11-16

Posts 33336
Kapolei, Hawaii, USA

0 posted 2002-09-22 10:54 PM

Aha

I don't intend to be in the clutches
of a controlling manipulating woman
that feels like all the cards have
to be dealed her way and tries to
shame me when I don't agree with
everything she has to say.
I know you want your way
but I want my way too.
I wasn't put on this earth just
to jump when you want me to.
I noticed you can be really sweet
as long as everything comes to you
but when things start to balance out
your niceness starts to come unglued.
I'm willing to do my share but
I can't do everything even
if you want me to.
This is not my idea
of a good relationship.
Too many problems are
crying out to be improved.

JamesLee
Sept212
2002

the_loner_23
Member Ascendant

since 2002-06-08

Posts 5479
Jacksonville, Florida, USA

1 posted 2002-09-22 10:55 PM

Strong words. Very good write

Cold hands means a warm heart

Mistletoe Angel

Member Empyrean

since 2000-12-17

Posts 32816
Portland, Oregon

2 posted 2002-09-22 10:59 PM

(smiles) Oh James, this is wonderful, sweet friend, yes, every relationship needs balance and needs to be so both can share needs and when one need cannot be met right away together there is a compromise! (big hugggsssss) Wishing he best for you both, sweet friend, we all love you so much! You have such a beautiful heart, sweet James, thank you for sharing!

May love and light always shine upon you!

Love,
Noah Eaton

"Underneath your clothes there's an endless story..."

Shakira

[This message has been edited by Mistletoe Angel (09-22-2002 10:59 PM).]

Madame Chipmunk
Member Rara Avis

since 2001-12-05

Posts 8296
Michigan

3 posted 2002-09-22 11:08 PM

It sounds like you've seen the red flags and had that AHA! moment...
A good write

~ lots of chipmunk hugs

Lyra

copyright2002 Lyra Nesius

"poetry is life distilled" Gwendolyn Brooks

JamesMichael
Member Empyrean

since 1999-11-16

Posts 33336
Kapolei, Hawaii, USA

4 posted 2002-09-24 05:43 PM

Thank you the loner, Noah and Madame for the nice responses...James

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