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Midnitesun
since 2001-05-18
Posts 28647Gaia 
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Hello! Just wanting everyone to know things are going well for me right now, with Chemo and additional nutrition counseling to help me 'heal' and fight the liver cancer. I sincerely hope each of you have a wonderful holiday season. Thank you, for all your healing wishes!!!! xxxx, Kacy |
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Mysteria
since 2001-03-07
Posts 18328British Columbia, Canada |
Well talk about a GREAT Christmas present! Great news Kacy, but then I expected the karma you project would only bring good things your way. Merry, Merry Christmas to you and Sarah, and remember, Carpe' Diem okay? |
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latearrival Member Ascendant
since 2003-03-21
Posts 5499Florida |
Oh, What wonderful news you send.I am standing beside you and praying to who ever is your healer for your return to good health. "late" |
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sandgrain Member Elite
since 1999-09-21
Posts 3662Sycamore, IL, USA |
As Mysteria said, what a wonderful gift! May this be your greatest Christmas ever! God bless, Rae |
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SEA
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Member Seraphic
since 2000-01-18
Posts 22676with you |
 I'm SO glad things are going good...I think about you a lot and send positive energy to you  |
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OwlSA Member Rara Avis
since 2005-11-07
Posts 9347Durban, South Africa |
Kacy, I am so pleased to hear that you are several steps on your way to recovery! Hang in there! We are all there with you. Just lean on us all whenever you are tired or not feeling well, and absorb strength and harmony from us, for your next few steps when you are ready for them. Smiles and gentle hugs - Owl |
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serenity blaze Member Empyrean
since 2000-02-02
Posts 27738 |
I always knew you could kick my ass.  You'd look good in tights and mud, too. *shaking my head* You're my stronglady!  |
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Midnitesun
since 2001-05-18
Posts 28647Gaia |
LOL, Karen, I'm not up for that just yet... but maybe soon!  Thanks everyone, for hangin in here with me.  celebrating LIFE |
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1slick_lady Member Ascendant
since 2000-12-22
Posts 6088standing on a shadow's lace |
that is wonderful news |
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Oklahoma Rose Senior Member
since 2008-02-28
Posts 1586Oklahoma USA |
Kacy, I am so glad to hear that. I hope you continue doing food. And, have a very Merry Christmas. I think about you alot. |
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kaile
since 2000-02-06
Posts 5146singapore |
relieved to hear this! you know that we are all rooting for you |
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Larry C
since 2001-09-10
Posts 10286United States |
Karen, I wanted that job! Kacy, Amazing! You, I mean. I must mention how much I like the attitude. I'm dying to know how your daughter is, btw. |
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Alison
since 2008-01-27
Posts 9318Lumpy oatmeal makes me crazy! |
Kacy, I hold you close in my thoughts. With your attitude, I have high hopes for your full recovery. Know that I think of you and I wish you a beautiful Christmas. With love, Alison |
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Midnitesun
since 2001-05-18
Posts 28647Gaia |
Hi to all. Larry, daughter Sara is doing fine, will start a job locally the end of Dec, and is a great helper at home, preparing meals and shopping, helps keep my mood elevated just by being here with me. We are expecting a big snow storm today and again Sun, so looks like a white Christmas is on our menu! |
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OwlSA Member Rara Avis
since 2005-11-07
Posts 9347Durban, South Africa |
Just popping in to read the new messages, especially yours, Kacy. Please thank Sara from me, for being Sara - but being YOUR daughter, I am not suprised what an angel she is. I am delighted that she is starting a new job locally. I know that you are both wise enough to have made a plan for while she is at work. - Owl |
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Midnitesun
since 2001-05-18
Posts 28647Gaia |
Hello Diana! Yes, I am lucky to be surrounded with loving and caring people. I addition, I have reconnected with my younger sister and her children, and they are bombarding me with love messages! LOL, I can't imagine handling this health challenge without so many supportive friends and family. Thank you, again and again, for caring. MUAH! |
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passing shadows Member Empyrean
since 1999-08-26
Posts 45577displaced |
ah Kacy, I am glad for these updates and so happy you are seeming to be doing better. I am sorry that I can't be on here much due to my life the way it is now. I have always prayed for your good health and happiness, you know. The road is long but you never walk alone. |
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nakdthoughts Member Laureate
since 2000-10-29
Posts 19200Between the Lines |
Kacy, wishing you a wonderful holiday season with your daughter ...and yes we had a light snowfall today, also. M |
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OwlSA Member Rara Avis
since 2005-11-07
Posts 9347Durban, South Africa |
Kacy, I am so glad you reconnected with your younger sister and her children and that you are being showered with love. Thanks for thanking me for caring, but in all honesty, WHO could possibly NOT care for our Kacy? Thank YOU for being somebody who is SO caring and wonderful, and whom it is a pleasure to care for! MUAH XXX MUAH - Owl |
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Margherita Member Seraphic
since 2003-02-08
Posts 22236Eternity |
Dear Kacy, it pleases me to hear how well you cope with these health problems. You are truly powerfully contributing to your recovery with your attitude and by storing all the love and kindness that surrounds you. Giving grace for your wellbeing. With love and big hugs. Margherita  "Love is the One who masters all things; |
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Earth Angel Member Empyrean
since 2002-08-27
Posts 40215Realms of Light |
Kacy, you're an inspiration to us all! You are a remarkable woman! ~ One who walks her talk and with her head held high! You're amazing!!! May the spirit of Christmas be with you each and every day! Sending blessings of love to you and your wonderful daughter! She learned from the best! Linda |
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WTBAKELAR
since 2008-09-09
Posts 1089Utah, USA |
Dear Margherita, I have been wondering where you have been, I pray that you will have a swift recovery and a happy holiday. May god bless you and yours. Hope to hear from you soon. Love always, W. Tracey. |
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Martie
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Member Empyrean
since 1999-09-21
Posts 28049California |
Hi Kacy....I'm happy to hear that the treatment you are on is helping, but believe that it is your attitude that is really the healing force. Hugs and admiration sent. |
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Gentle Spirit Member Patricius
since 2000-10-09
Posts 13989 |
Love, healing thoughts and prayers on wing Kacy. You are one of the stronget women I know hon, and are in my thoughts often. Happy holidays to you and yours. Peace n luv, ~D |
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Nan
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Member Seraphic
since 1999-05-20
Posts 21191Cape Cod Massachusetts USA |
Merry Christmas, Kacy - God Bless  |
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Marge Tindal
since 1999-11-06
Posts 42384Florida's Foreverly Shores |
God Bless and be with you, Kacy~ I hold you in earnest vigil-of-prayer~ *Huglets* ~*Marge*~ ~*The sound of a kiss is not as strong as that of a cannon, but it's echo endures much longer*~ |
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suthern
since 1999-07-29
Posts 20723Louisiana |
Merry Christmas, Kacy... Stay Strong! |
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OwlSA Member Rara Avis
since 2005-11-07
Posts 9347Durban, South Africa |
Wishing you and Sara a wonderful, peaceful, relaxing, as painfree (in every sense of the word) as possible Christmas, dearest Kacy Lots of love and prayers - Owl |
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Jaime Fradera Senior Member
since 2000-11-25
Posts 843Where no tyranny is tolerable |
Luck! |
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Sunshine
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Member Empyrean
since 1999-06-25
Posts 63354Listening to every heart |
Kacy, I missed this...so I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers for a continued well of good health! |
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Midnitesun
since 2001-05-18
Posts 28647Gaia |
Thank you Martie, Tracie, Owl, Marge,Jaime and Karilea...and all the others who have visited this thread with well wishes. Yesterday was my long Chemo day, 10AM-530PM. One of the drugs leaves my fingertips numb and tingling, extremely cold sensitive. Since the thermometer is again barely 18F today, so I'm staying indoors...which is awful since I love to be outside. I'm able to be at the computer for about 15 minutes at a time before my fingers become pressure sensitive. In addition, there is the nausea and the fact the immune system takes a hit, requiring additional supplementation of drugs and vitamins. So far, my blood tests every Monday show I am 'holding my own' and we should do additional tests next month to determine if the current Chemo combo is slowing down the liver tumor growth. The goal of course, is to put it into remission. There is no cure, and the reality is it always returns according to statistics. Transplants are not an option. But there is a 'supplemental alternative therapy component' I will begin soon, that in some cases has successfully put the tumors completely out of commission, though it takes a year or more for any results. The old phrase 'time is of the essence' is critical when it comes to diagnosis and treatment. I sincerely hope that all who read this make sure they follow the recommendations to have a Colonoscopy done before age 55. I just turned 63, had no symptoms until July, full diagnosis end of October...stage 4....that means the colon cancer has metastasized to other organs. What this means is, the colon polyps probably began to turn malignant 4-5 years ago. After removing the huge mass and radical intestinal re-sectioning the end of October, and 7-8 weeks recovery, Chemo began the week before Christmas. My Chemo schedule is every Tuesday for up to 8 weeks, then a two week interval for additional tests before another round of Chemo. Well, I apologize for being so blunt, but my intent is to 'needle' everyone into getting the diagnostics done on a timely basis. You don't want to have to endure what I am enduring, and now sadly, our dear poet Marge is suffering liver cancer as well as lung issues. Not a poetic scenario.... |
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serenity blaze Member Empyrean
since 2000-02-02
Posts 27738 |
I thought that I should let you know that you did indeed succeed in your "needling". I had a colonscopy last week, as well as my endoscopy. (I'd postponed it from over a year ago.) Sheesh. Your indomitable spirit has always made me strive to do better, and now it is inspiring me to GET better. I love you Kacy. thank you |
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OwlSA Member Rara Avis
since 2005-11-07
Posts 9347Durban, South Africa |
Thank you dearest Kacy, for this special update. I was refraining from emailing you until a good few days after yesterday's chemo, because, in spite of my supplications for you not to reply when you are not at your strongest, you always do. You are a wonderful inspiration, to us all and great encouragement for Marge too. Thank you so very, very much for being you. I have not the slightest doubt that you and Marge are going to make it. Your indomitable spirits shine like bright stars. However, I know that it is a dreadful ordeal for both of you, but we are all with you every step of the way. And, of course! In the midst of your woes, you are thinking of EVERYONE ELSE! That is another of the million reasons why you WILL recover. Lots and lots of love Owl |
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Duncan Member Ascendant
since 2001-08-07
Posts 5455 |
Checkin' in on ya, Kacy. Stay strong, stay you... |
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Kit McCallum
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Member Laureate
since 2000-04-30
Posts 14774Ontario, Canada |
I'm thinking of you Kacy, and sending big [[[hugs]]] your way. I'm sorry to hear you are going through so much. It's good advice that you've given above. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Best wishes and {{{hugs}}} /Kit |
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Midnitesun
since 2001-05-18
Posts 28647Gaia |
Love you too, Karen, and so glad that you had the tests done! Diana, hugs to you. Duncan, what a treat to have you visit. Love ya cowboy, and yes, I'm still me...the quietly sassy one. Kit, thank you so much for those healing hugs and wishes. |
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Oklahoma Rose Senior Member
since 2008-02-28
Posts 1586Oklahoma USA |
Thinking of you, Kacy. And, sending you a warm, comforting I wish for you the very best. And, I wish the same for Marge, too.People who have medical insurance are able to get those things done, if they so choose. But, for those of us who do have it, they are just out of luck. |
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Midnitesun
since 2001-05-18
Posts 28647Gaia |
Hello, Sue. Thanks for the well wishes. At the time of my diagnosis (late Oct) I didn't have insurance to cover much of anything but a handful of blood tests. I signed up for Medicaid the day before the surgery, and had an efficient rep who rushed the paperwork through for me. They made it retroactive to Oct 1, so most of the testing and the surgery will be covered, as well as chemo...(so far as I know anyway) I've only received one bill for just over $600, and the surgeries, tests, chemo may already be in the tens of thousands. I spent a full week in the hospital recovering from the tumor removal and colon re-section surgery, plus had a one day surgery to install a medi-port device under my collar bone for a direct chemo access that bypasses going through the veins in the arm. LOL, it looks like I have a giant bottle cap imbedded above my left breast...not very attractive. Chemo began just before Christmas, and will be an ongoing 'adventure' for the next few months. I cannot imagine what my scenario would be if they hadn't processed the Medicaid so quickly. As my income the last 9 months has just been collecting early Social Security benefits, I qualified for full Medicaid benefits. Medicaire wouldn't have kicked in for another 2-3 years for me. This country definitely needs an overhaul of the health care delivery system. I am counting on President Obama and his dynamic team to turn things around for all the millions who are uninsured or under-insured, to see that everyone in this country has adequate health care coverage. |
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sewasham Senior Member
since 2006-09-11
Posts 714Oklahoma, USA |
Hang in there Kacy! Glad to hear you are holding your own. Lots of prayers your way. Take care. Steve |
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Mysteria
since 2001-03-07
Posts 18328British Columbia, Canada |
Geez Kacy, what an intensive program you are on kiddo. I know that you know it is all in the attitude, and that lady you have, so it will be smooth sailing. Positive energy can only bring positive results. Hang in there, there's a bit of a drive to do yet. I can not even "think" about bills in the amounts you speak of. I think the only bill I have had in a zadzillion years was for $15.00 for a flu shot, and I actually got that back! Here's hoping the health care down there improves. I know Michael says our health care costs are hidden in our taxes, etc. but to be honest, I don't care where they hide them as long as I don't see a bill. |
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sewasham Senior Member
since 2006-09-11
Posts 714Oklahoma, USA |
Thoughts and prayers for you today Kacy. Take care. Steve |
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passing shadows Member Empyrean
since 1999-08-26
Posts 45577displaced |
Kacy, my prayers are with you always and you never walk alone. as I sit in tears right now for just now hearing the news of our Marge... I wonder why I survived my accident...why Marge was taken all too soon...why you are now in this time of trial... I look at the card you sent me in my time of trial...and just pray as hard as I can |
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iliana Member Patricius
since 2003-12-05
Posts 13434USA |
Kacy, hang in there. Keep that positive spirit going. My positive thoughts are continuing to flow your way. Love you...jo |
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Earth Angel Member Empyrean
since 2002-08-27
Posts 40215Realms of Light |
Kacy, I have a tremendous amount of affection and respect for you. I continue to pray for your well-being and have been concerned about your medical expenses, as I knew you did not have insurance. I was VERY relieved to learn that you managed to get full Medicaid benefits ~ and so quickly at the 11th hour!!! I do believe you have some angels helping you! ~ and deservedly so! Just know, that you have MANY rooting for you! You are not alone in your battle. Thanks for keeping us up-dated. I pop in quite often to see how you are fairing! In spite of all that you are experiencing, you sound strong and positive. With an attitude like yours, you CAN win the war!  Sending my love and a warm, healing ,Linda |
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Chanson Senior Member
since 2000-08-19
Posts 1559Up Creek w/Out Paddle |
I may not be the most vocal of poets lately but I visit almost daily to read all the poetic offerings ... My thoughts and prayers are with you, Kacy... |
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Midnitesun
since 2001-05-18
Posts 28647Gaia |
I am humbled by the warmth and caring, the healing thoughts that constantly circulate within this poetic family of friends. Your continued kindnesses lift my spirits daily. I've no words adequate to express my deep thankfulness for having a chance to interact with each of you. My heart is heavy by our loss of another, dearest Marge. May her spirit dance forever among the stars and moonbeams, as her words will here on the blue pages of Passion. |
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Sunshine
Administrator
Member Empyrean
since 1999-06-25
Posts 63354Listening to every heart |
I'm going to have to ditto serenity about the "needling"...this is one procedure I haven't been through, and I'm "of age" to start it in the near future. I AM proactive on our other womanly procedures...sigh...but now is as good a time to needle the men, too...on what THEY need to do to keep themselves in good health, and/or catch the buggers before it's too late! I'll also ditto some of the above, Kacy, when you sound so strong and active and positive about all of this. Damn, girl, but you're in my thoughts and prayers to get well soon. There IS a chance, isn't there, that this can go into remission? |
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OwlSA Member Rara Avis
since 2005-11-07
Posts 9347Durban, South Africa |
Kacy, I am so relieved to hear that your medical aid went through so well. Your 4th miracle, if I haven't lost count. But then you are our miracle, yourself, and one of God's many beautiful and inspiring gifts to Pipsters. Praying for continued miracles for you. Love Owl |
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Robert E. Jordan Member Rara Avis
since 2008-01-25
Posts 8541Philadelphia, Pennsylvania |
Kacy, Good luck to you with your treatment. I just noticed this post or I would have written sooner. Cancer is a mess. My daughter is having trouble with breast cancer. She's had both breasts removed, and she's having an operation today to remove her last lymph node in that area. She's doing well, but it's a fight. I've aready done the colonospcy thingy for myself. Good luck with your treatments Hon. Love Bobby [This message has been edited by Robert E. Jordan (01-30-2009 09:50 PM).] |
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sandgrain Member Elite
since 1999-09-21
Posts 3662Sycamore, IL, USA |
I, too, come in here daily to see how everything is going. Kacy, it's nice to see you're biting the bullet and coping with all this chemo, etc. Life is precious and cancer is a dirty, sneaky thief. It's far too prevelent in our society and at best the news still means so much painful treatment to hold hope. Thank you for being such a strong caring person. My prayers are with you. God bless, Rae |
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Midnitesun
since 2001-05-18
Posts 28647Gaia |
Thanks, Rae, for being here. I know you understand. Bobby, I am so sorry to hear of your daughter's cancer. I will light a healing sage stick for her. Sunshine, that's good news that you will have the testing done. It will put your mind at ease if all is A-OK, just knowing what's going on in that alley is important. (LOL) Chanson, thank you dear, for the visit and well wishes. Each heartfelt wish has a positive effect on me. Jo, again, thanking you for your caring. I cherish the healing bead necklace you made for me, and keep it close. It is quite powerful!!! |
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OwlSA Member Rara Avis
since 2005-11-07
Posts 9347Durban, South Africa |
Kacy, I hope you are holding out well and have recovered as well as possible from the after-effects of Tuesday's chemo and ready for next Tuesday. Love and hugs Owl |
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Midnitesun
since 2001-05-18
Posts 28647Gaia |
Hi, Diana. Actually, I am on chemo 'vacation' next week. LOL, it's time for a short break between sessions. Unfortunately, it will take 4-6 months of this drill before the diagnostic 'marker' tests are valid that will indicate whether or not my chemo cocktail combo is making serious headway against the liver tumors. But I keep my eyes on the future, and am making plans for 2012 ...the year of the end of the Mayan calendar. More thoughts on this later...for now, just think about all the global environmental and economic changes. Those with open minds will hopefully research and think about the worldwide CROP CIRCLE phenomenon. Most of these circles are REAL, not hoaxes made by a couple of idiotic bar-room drunks, and are a worldwide phenomenon that has been recorded since the 1970, especially prevalent in and around Stonehenge and other ancient sites. But they also show up in Canada, Europe, and China. For those unfamiliar with the circles (outside lame government/media disclaimers and a seriously bad movie) please follow the research. (WHEW, I had to get that out!!) I am feeling better today, thank you, and will continue to do what is necessary to boost my natural immune system. With all the healing energy being generated by Pipsters worldwide, there is bound to be some positive effect on this body! |
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latearrival Member Ascendant
since 2003-03-21
Posts 5499Florida |
Kacy, I have been following your progress.So far it sounds pretty good.I know your spirit is doing a lot to keep it smooth sailing and am with all the rest wishing for a complete recovery. Love to you, latearrival. |
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OwlSA Member Rara Avis
since 2005-11-07
Posts 9347Durban, South Africa |
Thank you for that update, Kacy. I am sure that you are relieved to have a chemo vacation this coming Tuesday. Is it just one Tuesday? Thank you for staying so strong spiritually because I believe that that will help your body to recover even more than the good work of the doctors and nurses and medications and medical happenings, although those are essential as well, but without your spiritual strength, the other things wouldn't be nearly as effective. It must be so much harder to walk your path than any of us can imagine, but we are with you every step of the way. Gentle hugs and ever-continuous full-blast, powerpunch prayers for your continuing strong spirit and ever-increasing health Owl |
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Alison
since 2008-01-27
Posts 9318Lumpy oatmeal makes me crazy! |
Kacy, You are often in my thoughts. I have been quiet but thinking of you when I am outdoors. I know you love the outdoors. I think of you and continue to send positive thoughts to you. You are a strong person and I am so happy I got to meet you here in PiP. Love, Alison |
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OwlSA Member Rara Avis
since 2005-11-07
Posts 9347Durban, South Africa |
Kacy, I hope you are doing well especially as last week was your break between sessions of chemo. I am presuming that you will having it this Tuesday. Is that correct? Love and huggles Diana |
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Midnitesun
since 2001-05-18
Posts 28647Gaia |
Yes, Diana, the full long chemo session is Tuesday, basically from 9:30-5, then 4-5 days of feeling like crap afterwards. But it's the regimen I hope will throw this beast into remission. Meanwhile? I bought some seeds, am planning my garden, designing a butterfly garden, a bird sanctuary, and a meditation space. Alison, thank you for visiting the great outdoors for me. I really miss seeing Denali, the Aurora, and all the critters that roam freely in the interior. Latearrival...you are never late Your visits are a welcome treat. |
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OwlSA Member Rara Avis
since 2005-11-07
Posts 9347Durban, South Africa |
Thank you for the update, Kacy and for the time span of your session. Every Tuesday that you have chemo, I have been thinking of you and praying for you from your time 9am (so 30 minutes early), but didn't realise that it went on for THAT long. I thought it was 4 or 5 hours (even that is dreadfully long). However, I am asleep most nights long before you finish, so I will just double the powerpunch in my prayers for the time that I am awake! Smiles. I am delighted that you are still working on all those wonderful plans for your garden - they sound very exciting - I wish I was there to help you and to enjoy it with you! Lots of love and huggles Owl |
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Margherita Member Seraphic
since 2003-02-08
Posts 22236Eternity |
quote: That's wonderful, dear Kacy!! Holding you close in my heartprayers, for tomorrow especially and the following days. Joining hands with you and giving thanks for the remission. Love and hugs. Margherita |
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Earth Angel Member Empyrean
since 2002-08-27
Posts 40215Realms of Light |
"I hope will throw this beast into remission." ~ Kacy, yes, let us pray that the chemo will do so! "Meanwhile? I bought some seeds, am planning my garden, designing a butterfly garden, a bird sanctuary, and a meditation space." ~ Now that's what I call added insurance! Sending a warm hug of healing love, Linda |
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Sunshine
Administrator
Member Empyrean
since 1999-06-25
Posts 63354Listening to every heart |
quote: Good girl!  |
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sewasham Senior Member
since 2006-09-11
Posts 714Oklahoma, USA |
You'll beat this thing so hang in there. Thoughts and prayers. Steve |
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Midnitesun
since 2001-05-18
Posts 28647Gaia |
Thanks, friends! It was a long day, but now I get to read at Pips for some evening refreshment. Your healing thoughts and prayers are powerful medicine that helps me stay positive. |
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OwlSA Member Rara Avis
since 2005-11-07
Posts 9347Durban, South Africa |
Owl |
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garysgirl
since 2002-09-29
Posts 19237Florida, USA |
Dear Kacy, my healing thoughts and prayers are with you. With love and hugs, Ethel Ethels Love Poetry My SpiritIsUp Poetry Shelf Powered by CGISpy.com |
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Oklahoma Rose Senior Member
since 2008-02-28
Posts 1586Oklahoma USA |
Kacy, my friend, I wish the very best for you. And, I hope and pray for a miracle for you. I hope you are feeling okay. |
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inkedgoddess Member Rara Avis
since 2002-11-19
Posts 7392Ohio |
wishing you good thoughts |
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Larry C
since 2001-09-10
Posts 10286United States |
Hang in there sis! This too shall pass, I swear. |
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