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SEA 
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Member Seraphic
since 2000-01-18
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What do you find sexy about a woman........please don't list movie stars.....or other kinds of stars.....I mean what is it about a woman that you like, is it the body......the eyes......loose morals........flexability.......the entire package...........what are the things you find sexy ? Give it up...........  |
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Acies
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Member Rara Avis
since 2000-06-07
Posts 7665Twilight Zone |
Morals is very important...i don't like the loose ones They have to show sophistication (basically, how they carry themselves too) "So long as men can breathe or eyes can see, So long lives this, and this give life to thee." W.S. |
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Rex Allen McCoy Member Elite
since 2000-01-30
Posts 2863Sippin a Timmy's in London |
A pleasant smile and personality ... with a good sense of humour Without these ... nothing else seems to matter |
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Krawdad Member Elite
since 2001-01-03
Posts 2597 |
Now ya see . . . there's the rub . . . the gals think the guys have an answer for this. You think we know, we really know? I've been trying to figure it out for . . . well . . . never mind how long, it's not going to make any difference how long, cuz I've about given up. But I know this much . . . if there isn't that 'almost definable' something in the eyes and the smile, then the rest doesn't really matter. |
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Brad Member Ascendant
since 1999-08-20
Posts 5705Jejudo, South Korea |
Ah, c'mon guys!! What makes you look? I think it's fairly well known in these parts what I'm attracted to -- legs, legs, legs!!! I was entranced with my wife because of the way she held a coffee cup. Brad |
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SEA
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Member Seraphic
since 2000-01-18
Posts 22676with you |
geez you guys.......ok.......well what do you find ends up attracting you to a woman? Brad, the coffee cup thing is too adorable........  SEA |
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Christopher
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Member Rara Avis
since 1999-08-02
Posts 8296Purgatorial Incarceration |
She has to be willing to put out... an air of sophistication.  |
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Elizabeth Cor Senior Member
since 2000-10-13
Posts 879Over the river and through the woods |
I can't pin point WHAT, but I can say WHY... if that makes sense. *ahem*... My friend Hadas... she dresses as if she's a flag lol... bright colors, clashing patterns, gorgeous layers... she's small and fleshy, and has an interesting face, which becomes beautiful and overtly sexy in the way she moves: open, cheerful, ALIVE... and oh, the instant she opens her mouth: enchantment vibrates off of her. She touches you and leans on your shoulder as you're speaking, tossing her hair over her own. And when she’s describing something, she uses her whole body. She has adorable feet. Hadas laughs with her mouth wide and doesn't care if the whole country hears it. When children come near, she anoints them with a wink or fingertip as they pass. I remember a woman beautiful in all respects: Greek facial structure, long straight black hair, a loose dress and bare feet playing with a dozen small children unknown to her until she passed them on the street mall. The way her hands tucked her hair behind her ear, the smile she released full of grace and tenderness. The length of her leg showing in shadow under the skirt, the tilt of her chin, her rich tan… Sometimes long hair and thick curves, sometimes a tiny waist and svelte thighs, sometimes angelic skin and clear eyes, an innocence, or a radiance of sexuality… How can you define “sexy” in one sitting? It changes second to second and from one person to the next; sexy is worn different on each individual… some people are sexy in a classic way, some look better trashy (no, really) … and the affect can be carnal lust or a brand of fascination… Not to mention LEGS, and certainly the handling of coffee cups (holding it with both hands and sipping it like a child might drink soup? omg, I’m gone lol…) |
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Brad Member Ascendant
since 1999-08-20
Posts 5705Jejudo, South Korea |
And gazing through a window at a winter landscape, a half-smile on her lips. You can see the steam rise as well. Brad |
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fractal007 Senior Member
since 2000-06-01
Posts 1958 |
I recall reading that DNA plays a very important role in determining what is and is not "sexy" about a member of the opposite sex, from the point of view of the beholder. I think I've been spending too much time in life kicking right wing patriarchal ass in debates, instead of settling down in life with a girlfriend. So if I never have any sort of relationship with a woman, then I will at least have been able to contribute to the freedom of the entire female gender of the human race. However, if there are things which I define as "sexy" I would probably say that the entire body was sexy, but sometimes certain portions attract my eye greater than others. This is perhaps due to my genetic makeup telling me about potential "mates" that would do best in propogating my DNA. Of course, this is mostly assuming that the Selfish Gene theory of evolution is true. However, I've never really been all that attracted by a woman's legs. I cannot say why... Sorry about this rather unemotional view of this topic. I've never really "opened up" about this type of thing before, and so usually stick to what it says in the biology textbooks. Besides, I often have a tendancy to regard sex appeal as being a major danger, which can lead to erotomanic delusions and other nasty mind virii. There are too many sex perverts and various other nasty people out there. I do not wish to join their ranks. "If history is to change, let it change. If the world is to be destroyed, so be it. If my fate is to die, I must simply laugh" -- Magus |
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Alicat Member Elite
since 1999-05-23
Posts 4094Coastal Texas |
Well, there's a couple of distinctions here. As for observationally sexy, it would have to be neck to n'ankle dresses, to the wrist, with layers of slips and petticoats, secretive creaks and rustles with every silken step.....um....'scuse me while I sweat.... Ok, now that I've had a smoke and some coffee, and calmed down a bit, I'll address intimate sexy, which, to me, are the observed thingies from up close. Eyes are a gimme, as are laugh lines and little crows feet near the eye, but not too many worry lines on the forehead. A smooth gait and supple posture. Long fingers. A slightly deep sultry voice. A bod that can achieve physical and stamina rates, and would be able to keep up or surpass me in running, biking, swimming, camping, hiking, and meandering. Being eloquent, well read and well versed is a definate plus. To sum up, these are but a few of the things I find sexy in a female from close observation. Alicat |
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serenity blaze Member Empyrean
since 2000-02-02
Posts 27738 |
Fractal--"There are too many sex perverts and various other nasty people out there. I do not wish to join their ranks." Hmmm....I don't think we are accepting new members right now anyway!  |
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Sven
since 1999-11-23
Posts 14937East Lansing, MI USA |
the eyes. . . they say so much. . . Can I just say that for myself I find the intellect very sexy??? I mean, yeah sure outer stuff is nice, and yes, it's what attracts me first. . . but after that, if there's nothing to go along with it. . . well. . . You have to have something to talk about. . . ----------------------------------------------------------- To the world, you may only be one person. But to one person, you may be the world. |
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Elizabeth Cor Senior Member
since 2000-10-13
Posts 879Over the river and through the woods |
ROTFL @ Karen... gee, I was thinking the same thing...  And Ali... thanks. [This message has been edited by Elizabeth Cor (edited 03-01-2001).] |
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Dopey Dope
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Member Patricius
since 2000-08-30
Posts 11132San Juan, Puerto Rico |
Looks: I seem to be attracted so SKIN. Not the color but the softness. I have a thing for smooth, soft skin. If you're not too careful ladies you'll catch me just softly carressing your skin. Not to make you feel all nice and tingly, but for my fingers to simply have a smooth, soft surface to rub against. haha. Ok.....I also like BUTT....Ghetto booties is how they are referred as. Not HUGE not small......It's there......WHAM....a butt! haha..........uh.......eyes.....she needs the GLOW....i call it a glow cuz that's what it is....it's in their eyes, no matter what color or anything....if there's no glow I can't be with her. Personality: fun, sense of humor, smart, witty, sarcastic, loving, kind to nature, and great in bed. haha serenity, do you match up?  I was born myself, raised myself, and will continue to be myself. The world will just have to adjust. I'm in love with my shadow I admire it daily |
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serenity blaze Member Empyrean
since 2000-02-02
Posts 27738 |
D. Dope? OF COURSE I have skin...keeps all the other stuff in place! |
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Skyfyre Senior Member
since 1999-08-15
Posts 1906Sitting in Michael's Lap |
I'm pretty sure no one is going to believe this, which is why I'm posting it anyway. In addition to all the "normal" stuff mentioned above ... my dear Michael has a thing for ... armpits. Yep, that's what I said. Armpits. Apparently I have some darn sexy armpits ... LOL. A dubious honor at best, I would have to say. But he still claims that my best feature is my mouth (course that could have something to do with some of its more ... er ... 'unorthodox' functions, no...?) hehe  Linda |
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SEA
Moderator
Member Seraphic
since 2000-01-18
Posts 22676with you |
armpits.........I love it.......LOL that is so cute.......my hubby says it's my touch......then it's the eyes........then everything else....... SEA |
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Bill Charles Member Patricius
since 2000-07-11
Posts 10619highways, & byways, for now |
SEA - h'mmmm, a good one to answer. I like the eyes, yes the eyes. They let me see to her soul. And the softness of her spirit, along with the tenderness of her voice. BC |
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Sven
since 1999-11-23
Posts 14937East Lansing, MI USA |
right on Bill!!! The right voice will just make some of us weak!!! ------------------------------------------------------------- To the world, you may only be one person. But to one person, you may be the world. |
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wayoutwalt Member Elite
since 1999-06-22
Posts 4870TEXAS (it's all big) |
i'm sure somebody's already said it but i love it when they love poetry o yuh! |
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Dopey Dope
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Member Patricius
since 2000-08-30
Posts 11132San Juan, Puerto Rico |
*winks at serenity* wonderful......I'm legal in 20 days haha! I was born myself, raised myself, and will continue to be myself. The world will just have to adjust. I'm in love with my shadow I admire it daily |
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Ron
Administrator
Member Rara Avis
since 1999-05-19
Posts 8669Michigan, US |
Dopey, I can remember back to when I was your age, and the criteria was fairly simple. If she was breathing, she was sexy. Teenage hormones don't allow for much selectivity beyond that. I'd like to say age brings more discernment, but I have to admit the first thing I still check is whether they're breathing or not. Everything after that is just a bonus. |
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Dopey Dope
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Member Patricius
since 2000-08-30
Posts 11132San Juan, Puerto Rico |
Hahaha wel yea Ron I'll have to agree with you. Breathing is definately a turn on! I'll also agree with you on the fact that a lot of teenage guys aren't selective. I, on the other hand, have standards that can hardly ever be met. C'est la vie. I'm an idealist living in an idealist world, looking for an idealist kind of girl. I was born myself, raised myself, and will continue to be myself. The world will just have to adjust. I'm in love with my shadow I admire it daily |
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SEA
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Member Seraphic
since 2000-01-18
Posts 22676with you |
Ron........ making me laugh so hard.......God bless teenage boys.....they were so much fun......I met my husband when he was 17.......... I was 14.......now those were the days...... yes, I could see how breathing would be nessesary.......LOL SEA |
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Acies
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Member Rara Avis
since 2000-06-07
Posts 7665Twilight Zone |
oh, and they have to have self respect and an ambition in life besides the guy going to work and her staying home buming "So long as men can breathe or eyes can see, So long lives this, and this give life to thee." W.S. |
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