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An Unforgettable Thanksgiving
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An Unforgettable Thanksgiving |
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Lynn Member
since 1999-09-20
Posts 316Jasper, Alabama U.S.A. |
My Grandfather passed away last night, after suffering nearly a month in the hospital. If anyone would, please keep our family in mind as you pray. An Unforgettable Thanksgiving We picked out his clothes today. Dark blue khakis and a button down shirt. This is what he would have wanted. No suit and tie. Just his every day attire. He endured a month of suffering, Lying in a hospital bed. He was strong to have held on as long as he did. But we knew he had to go. November 22 was the day. The day he was born. The day he passed away. Sixty-eight years of hard-living. He'll surely be missed. My Thanksgiving will be different. There will be no family dinner, Around a well set table. Instead there will be tearful eyes, Around an open casket. An unforgettable Thanksgiving Is what I will have this year. But I now realize all the things I have to give thanks for. Even though he won't be here. I'm Thankful for my memories. I'm Thankful that he's watching over me. And I know he'll be waiting up at Heaven's Gate, just for me, To greet me with a "Hi-Dy Lucy" like always. And as I see him for one last time, on this Thanksgiving day, I'll thank God that he was my grandfather, and that I was his grand-daughter. Then say, "I love you" for the last time. For this will be an unforgettable Thanksgiving. And no matter what, he'll always be here. ------------------ If time cannot heal your pain, you can always cry on my shoulder. ~Jenn~ [This message has been edited by Lynn (edited 11-23-1999).] |
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Denise
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Member Seraphic
since 1999-08-22
Posts 22648 |
Lynn, I'm so sorry for your pain. Please extend my sympathies to your entire family. You have written a lovely tribute for your grandfather. Perhaps you or another person could read it at his service. I think he would have liked that. Again, Lynn, my deepest deepest sympathies. ------------------ Denise |
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Lynn Member
since 1999-09-20
Posts 316Jasper, Alabama U.S.A. |
Denise...Thank you so much. My mother asked me if I could possibly write something for the service and I'm not quite sure if this is what she wanted. She's asleep now, and I have to wait until morning to show it to her. I'm working on another one right now just in case. I felt so honored in being the one to choose his clothing. He was a good ole' country man, and never in his life wore a suit and tie, so I didn't see it fit that he wears one now. Thanks again. ------------------ If time cannot heal your pain, you can always cry on my shoulder. ~Jenn~ |
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Denise
Moderator
Member Seraphic
since 1999-08-22
Posts 22648 |
You're welcome, Lynn. God bless you and your family. I'm sure your Mom will love it. ------------------ Denise |
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Sally S. Senior Member
since 1999-06-07
Posts 847Ohio |
I'm truly sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you, Lynn. This is a lovely tribute. I commend you for having the ability to write down your feelings at such a sad time. You and your family will be in my prayers, rest assured. Take care and God bless, Sally |
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Lynn Member
since 1999-09-20
Posts 316Jasper, Alabama U.S.A. |
Sally...Thank you. The best poetry I have ever writen, in my opinion, are in the times I am most saddened or depressed. It just seems easier because I can express my feelings with more emotion. ------------------ If time cannot heal your pain, you can always cry on my shoulder. ~Jenn~ |
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suthern
since 1999-07-29
Posts 20723Louisiana |
Lynn, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family... This is a beautiful tribute to your grandfather... |
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hoot_owl_rn Member Patricius
since 1999-07-05
Posts 10750Glen Hope, PA USA |
Lynn, tears fall from my eyes as I read your wonderful tribute. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. On this time of Thanksgiving, even though you deal with your loss, remember also to give thanks for all the wonderful times you had with him. Hugs  Ruth |
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Toerag Member Ascendant
since 1999-07-29
Posts 5622Ala bam a |
Yes dear Lynn, I would think this will be a Thanksgiving to remember for you. And it's kinda strange how many different things we can be thankful for. Thankful for the end of suffering, for memories, for having a gentleman such as this touch your heart in your lifetime, and his memory will touch your heart throughout your lifetime.....Isn't it wonderful to have that memory to fall back on.....One's soul really never dies, it will touch your heart continuously throughout your life....and perhaps, when the sadness of this temporary goodbye is over, you'll think of the good times he brought to you....and you'll again smile.......have the greatest Thanksgiving possible gal..... |
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Lynn Member
since 1999-09-20
Posts 316Jasper, Alabama U.S.A. |
Thank you all for your comforting responses. It makes me happy to know that you all care. Thanks so much. ------------------ If time cannot heal your pain, you can always cry on my shoulder. ~Jenn~ |
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Balladeer
Administrator
Member Empyrean
since 1999-06-05
Posts 25505Ft. Lauderdale, Fl USA |
Add me to the list, Lynn. He would certainly be proud of this tribute, I'm sure. My thoughts go with you and your family in this trying time, Lynn. |
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Nan
Administrator
Member Seraphic
since 1999-05-20
Posts 21191Cape Cod Massachusetts USA |
God Bless.... |
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Lynn Member
since 1999-09-20
Posts 316Jasper, Alabama U.S.A. |
Thank you Balladeer. I'm sure thankful for everyone here. With out all of you, I'm not sure of what I would do. ------------------ If time cannot heal your pain, you can always cry on my shoulder. ~Jenn~ |
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Ohme Senior Member
since 1999-07-17
Posts 816Texas |
Lynn, This is a beautifu poem about your Grandfather. I agree. Let it be read at his service. My Daughter wrote a poem about her great grandmother when she died and yes it brings tears but also happy memories. God bless you and your family. ------------------ Yesterday is history, tomorrow just a mystery. And if today is good to me how could I ask for more? |
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Lynn Member
since 1999-09-20
Posts 316Jasper, Alabama U.S.A. |
Thanks Nan & Ohme! I surely appreciate you taking time to read & comment on this. Have a safe and happy Thanksgiving. God bless.... ------------------ If time cannot heal your pain, you can always cry on my shoulder. ~Jenn~ |
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H. Arlequin Member
since 1999-08-23
Posts 210 |
HA applauds! |
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poetFemmeFatale Member Elite
since 1999-07-25
Posts 2646Arkansas |
Yes, as HootOwl said, I sit here with tears falling...this was really beautiful. I'm sure he would be honored if you read something for him at the service, although, I'm not sure I could....Be strong! ------------------ ~~ Lift your head high - spread your "words" and fly - - poetFemmeFatale |
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Marge Tindal
since 1999-11-06
Posts 42384Florida's Foreverly Shores |
Lynn - Bless you as you and your family lay your grandfather to rest. With the loving words you wrote, I'm sure he would be proud. God keep you in the comfort of his love. ~Marge~ ------------------ ~*The pen of the poet never runs out of ink, as long as we breathe.*~ [email protected] |
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Lynn Member
since 1999-09-20
Posts 316Jasper, Alabama U.S.A. |
Thank all of you very much. I just got back from his funeral 5 minutes ago. I didn't even look at him before they closed the casket. Instead, I stayed beside myh brother's side. He just couldn't bare it. We were the closet grandchildren to him. Thanks again. ------------------ If time cannot heal your pain, you can always cry on my shoulder. ~Jenn~ |
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