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HAN
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Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!! Im sorry just needed to get that off my chest. i thought he liked me, turns out he doesn't. I had known him for just over a year, don't live very close to eachother so rarely see hi, but ithought we connected. we got on so well or so i thought. what is wrong with me? why does no one like me? im nearly 20 and no one wants to be with me. Sorry to ramble on, ignore me. just needed to get it out of my system, it would normally be him i turn to at this point but i can't. thanx Han xx |
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ESP Member Elite
since 2000-01-25
Posts 2556Floating gently on a cloud.... |
I hear you, Han! I'm turning 21 in June and way better versed in the art of being rejected than in actually being with someone etc MSN me if you like, [email protected] and we can exchange sob stories! You aren't alone with the rejection issue by any means, happens to us all... Take care, Liz x PS: That "what is wrong with me"...I've asked that to the people here more times than I'd like to remember in similar context to yours...I'll tell you my latest philosophy if you want, but won't bore you with it unless you actually want to be!! "Time has told me not to ask for more, one day our ocean will find its shore" ~Nick Drake |
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HAN
Unregistered
New MemberPosts 5 |
Thank you very Much ESP. Feel better in a way to know that someone understands. I just don't know right now how to make myself feel better, feel sorry for myself and i hate that. it was always him who talked to me and made me feel better when i was down. i suppose ialways clung on to him waiting for him to realise he felt the same. Hope your ok? Thank you Han xx |
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ESP Member Elite
since 2000-01-25
Posts 2556Floating gently on a cloud.... |
Many people will understand how you are feeling though I guess we all hurt in our own individual ways. I know what you mean about not liking to feel sorry for yourself...I always feel guilty if I catch myself wallowing in self-pity. As it happens, I have recently been dumped so I am up and down at the moment...but mostly fine, due to general refusal to be floored by him. Personally, I think men are bastards. Jokes. But all too often they complicate your life and hurt you. Then again I guess they would say the same about women. Conclusion: The human race sucks! I also know what you mean about clinging to the hope of someone eventually realising they reciprocate your feelings. It's hard when it doesn't happen...and before you ask, it didn't happen!! Oh well... Talk to you soon, Liz xx "Time has told me not to ask for more, one day our ocean will find its shore" ~Nick Drake |
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HAN
Unregistered
New MemberPosts 5 |
Thank you for all your kind words. Was that you Philosphy? i don't mind being bored with it makes me happy. And just to let you know that i plan on holding out for my guy, even though i doubt he will ever realise just how much he means to me. ok happy thoughts, ignore me im at a low, normally much better company:P Han xx |
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ESP Member Elite
since 2000-01-25
Posts 2556Floating gently on a cloud.... |
Nah my philosophy is...uh...yeah Ill get back to you on that one! Don't you have msn/icq/whatever else? It's ok to hold out for him in one sense, but not at the expense of everything else. In a way it's a method of getting through the hurt of being alone because you can believe you are destined for him, but not too literally. If someone else comes along, give them a chance...cos hey you never know how long he'll take to come round, if he ever does! May as well have some company/experiences etc in between. Shouldn't feel guilty for that. Anyway I shall stop rambling. Unfortunately I still can't remember what I was going to say was my philosophy...  Yeah, Im useless! Have you registered yet? Do you write poetry? Welcome to Passions... I wrote a bit of poetry but these days I tend to stick to discussion forums mostly cos I dont have time to write poetry but still like to visit here. Specially if I feel like ranting/feel like seeing what others are ranting about! Seeya, Liz xx "Time has told me not to ask for more, one day our ocean will find its shore" ~Nick Drake |
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Juju Member Elite
since 2003-12-29
Posts 3429In your dreams |
Heh I am 18. I havn't gone out yet. Could be worse Juju |
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ESP Member Elite
since 2000-01-25
Posts 2556Floating gently on a cloud.... |
I haven't technically gone out either, Juju And I am turning 21...when I say technically, my experience revolves around being led on and dumped as soon as I start to believe it's happening. If that makes any sense lolLife is weird... Men are weird... Women are weird... I am very weird... Take care, Liz x "Time has told me not to ask for more, one day our ocean will find its shore" ~Nick Drake |
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HAN
Unregistered
New MemberPosts 5 |
Hello All, thanks for the advice, i used to write alot but now i find i'm just too busy, but i still like reading all of yours. some very good stuff really enjoy it. most of my writng tended to come from rants and when i was low. decided i didn't like what i wrote then, so stopped. do plan on taking it up again when i'm not so busy and feeling happier with myself. maybe this summer who knows. ESP - like reading what other ppl rant about too, makes me feel like i'm not alone. comforting in a way. How did everyone else start writing, was it just a thing you found enjoyable/easy so carried on? just wondering... thank you Han xx |
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Juju Member Elite
since 2003-12-29
Posts 3429In your dreams |
Haven't been kissed planned to go out on a date not that I am ugly I scare them I am not creepy just a little on the hyper side |
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Bec Member
since 2001-02-23
Posts 475Canberra |
You're only 20, there is plenty more time to fall in love. I'm 23 and while I have had one major long term relationship in my life, I don't think that was my only chance at happiness. I do remember feeling the same way when my relationship ended, but now I'm happy just to wait and see how my life turns out. It will come, just don't force things. Hope that helps. B "I'm not crazy I'm just a little unwell"~ Matchbox 20 |
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