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sw3
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0 posted 2008-07-02 12:24 PM


Why is it one day you feel so alone and the next you feel liked.
why is it that one day your friend will make up a lie about you and make your life miserable but the next they want to be with you.
Why is it that they keep on calling you and apologizing but they will go back and hurt you again.

well i guess thats what back stabbers are...........



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nakdthoughts
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1 posted 2008-07-02 09:01 AM


I  think you need to change your definition of "friend". Obviously that person does not know its meaning.


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2 posted 2008-07-02 12:06 PM


yep, that is not what I call a friend....stop letting them mess with your heart...you deserve better...no matter what.
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3 posted 2008-07-03 12:53 PM


yeaaa my friend flipped out on my cos i didnt invite her to my party and she started calling me names.. i figured she wasnt a reall friend.. neither is yours.. you need to kick them to the curb
sandgrain
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4 posted 2008-08-04 03:21 PM


Until you show others you deserve to be treated with respect, they will continue to mess with you.

Tell that person you're sorry but you wouldn't treat your friend that way, nor are you about to take such treatment from them while they call you a friend.

God bless,

Rae

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5 posted 2008-08-16 01:39 AM




Hunnie_girl,

              I was reading through some of the back threads and I saw yours in the back stabbers thread.  It was clear to me that you really felt hurt by your friend's behavior.  I'm sorry you felt so hurt.  But I wasn't sure I understood why you were so puzzled by her anger at you.  I'm convinced I must be missing something here, because the way you explain it sounds that she might well have expected you to invite her to your party, and that she was right to have been bothered, as a friend, that you didn't.

     I'm sure I must be missing something here, but I don't even know where to begin asking where it is.  I'm sure that you must be making sense when you're talking about this, but I'm not clear how.  I'm certain that it makes sense to you, of course.  Have you been able to patch things up between the two of you?  I do hope so.  Life can be such a yo-yo sometimes.

     Best wishes,  Bob K.

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