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ska babe
Member

since 2005-11-08

Posts 58
nowwhere, IN

0 posted 2006-02-09 02:57 PM

i have noticed something, i am going out with this guy i know he likes me he just doesnt know how to show it.like i always have to make the first move. even with handing hands i always have to grab his hand.and idk what to do i want to talk to him i just dont know what to say.and like if i am alone and he is with his friends or even if hes not he wont come up to me i have to go up to him. it just makes me mad. should i be mad thought, cuz i am his first is it just b/c he doesnt know what to do?how do i fix it???

"I am the one who has to die when it's my time to die, so I'm gonna live life the way I wanna"- Jimi Hendrix

Not A Poet
Member Elite

since 1999-11-03

Posts 3885
Oklahoma, USA

1 posted 2006-02-09 08:15 PM

Probably don't have to "fix it." If he is really interested (and worthwhile, BTW) he'll learn darn quickly what you like and want

sandgrain
Member Elite

since 1999-09-21

Posts 3662
Sycamore, IL, USA

2 posted 2006-02-10 10:45 AM

A smiling remark may help, like, "I so hoped you'd reach for my hand, but guess I'm impatient so hope you don't mind my reaching for yours.  It feels so good to be clasped in your warmth."  Or, "Do you find it strange that I move close to you?  I wondered because it seems it's always me doing it, never you."

Hopefully, that type thing should open the door to discussing your feelings for each other.  Some people are far more 'touchy- feely' than others.

   Rae

Mysteria

Member Laureate

since 2001-03-07

Posts 18328
British Columbia, Canada

3 posted 2006-02-10 11:38 AM

In my day, you chased them until they caught you and the fun was in the chase.

As a matter of fact, I still do that!

Even while we speak, envious time has passed: pluck the day, putting as little trust as possible in tomorrow!

Carpe Diem' - Horace

Silent Prisoner
Junior Member

since 2006-02-15

Posts 39
Around Somewhere

4 posted 2006-02-15 06:39 PM

I agree with Mysteria, I may be new, but sometimes chasing the boy is just all apart of the fun. It may not help but at least you won't have to hurt yourself thinking about what you're doing wrong.

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