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JamesMichael
Member Empyrean

since 1999-11-16

Posts 33336
Kapolei, Hawaii, USA

0 posted 2003-01-15 04:32 AM

A Process of Progress

Asking for another chance
doesn't quite do it for me.
Asking for another chance
shows desire but only the
correct actions indicate sincerity.
If you could identify some of the reasons
why I am not happy with our relationship
and if you thought my happiness was important
that would be some progress.
If you cared about the reasons
why I'm unhappy and if you understood
my desire and need for happiness
that would be some progress.
If you could reconsider your
policy of issuing ultimatums
and instead took the time
to consider my thoughts, desires
and feelings that would be
some progress.
Then we could focus our thoughts on
your ability or unability to effect
the necessary changes.
Anything other than this would
be wasting my time more or less
and I will continue to doubt your
sincerity until you embrace a process
of progress.

JamesLee
January12
2003

Kethry
Member Rara Avis

since 2000-07-29

Posts 9082
Victoria Australia

1 posted 2003-01-15 06:45 AM

sounds like you are hitting your head against a wall but don't it feel good whe you stop.

Write on
Kethry

Here in the midst of my lonely abyss, a single joy I find...your presence in my mind. Unknown

inkedgoddess
Member Rara Avis

since 2002-11-19

Posts 7392
Ohio

2 posted 2003-01-15 06:56 AM

sounds like a standoff, that has to go one way or the other,
well presented james

winston
Member

since 2002-12-19

Posts 204
NW of Eden

3 posted 2003-01-15 09:04 AM

I like this James. Well thought.
As far as I know there's no such word as "unability", but there is "inability".
Thanks.

"am a tourist not a terrorist, don't shoot, cause we are all on a journey to God" Michak

Seymour Tabin
Member Empyrean

since 1999-07-07

Posts 31720
Tamarac Fla

4 posted 2003-01-15 09:11 AM

James,
Progress to me always seemed a circle.
You always seem to wind up where you started. LOL enjoyed.

garysgirl

Member Laureate

since 2002-09-29

Posts 19237
Florida, USA

5 posted 2003-01-15 09:29 AM

James, if not given another chanc, how can a person prove that she/he understands?
Written very well, friend...

"Love makes the world go around"
~~with love and hugs from Ethel~~

Mistletoe Angel

Member Empyrean

since 2000-12-17

Posts 32816
Portland, Oregon

6 posted 2003-01-15 11:35 PM

(big huggsssssssss) Let the final chance be the verdict to this case and if your needs cannot be sympathized with, objection...overruled! (sigh) God Bless You, sweet friend, I send angel hugs out to you, we all love you so much! You have such a beautiful heart, sweet James, thank you for sharing!

May love and light always shine upon you!

Love,
Noah Eaton

"Underneath your clothes there's an endless story..."

Shakira

JamesMichael
Member Empyrean

since 1999-11-16

Posts 33336
Kapolei, Hawaii, USA

7 posted 2003-01-16 11:31 PM

thank you Kethry, inked, winston, Seymour, Gary and Noah for responding...
This is written in frustration after many chances...and its always the same...not my job to change anyone...it took her some thirty odd years to get the way she is and I know she won't change overnight...and I'm running out of years hoping for some positive moves...James

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