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Larry C

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0 posted 2002-09-01 11:47 PM

Missed Opportunities
By Larry Chadwick
For Ginger Michelle & Papa too

You know what I miss most?
The chance to hear that laugh.
And I really miss the opportunity,
To walk down that wooded path.

You know what I miss most?
That call we made most every day.
And I really miss the opportunity,
To always hear what you had to say.

You know what I miss most?
Being with you on Instant Messenger.
And I really miss the opportunity,
Of that special time we’d share.

You know what I miss most?
The snail mail that you’d send.
And I really miss the opportunity,
Of reading your letters that had no end.

You know what I miss most?
Knowing that every day for me you prayed.
And I really miss the opportunity,
Of doing the same for you each day.

You know what I miss most?
The chance just to spend time with you.
And I really miss the opportunity,
To experience the affection I always got from you.

But you know what I really miss the most?
What I really miss the most is you.

September 1, 2002 (I’ll see you there.)

If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again.

Midnitesun

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1 posted 2002-09-01 11:54 PM

Larry C

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2 posted 2002-09-01 11:57 PM

Me too.

If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again.

SmartChick
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On A Journey To The Unknown

3 posted 2002-09-01 11:59 PM

Larry, this is so sad. I hope you are ok.

Larry C

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4 posted 2002-09-02 12:02 PM

Sue,
I heard someone use that line today: "You know what I miss most?". And his answers were quite trivial, I thought. So I got to thinking. And by the time I was done writing also crying. But it's okay. Wouldn't it be awful if I didn't miss them?

If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again.

Paul Wilson

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5 posted 2002-09-02 12:02 PM

Larry...Such heartfelt words and feelings you have put into this piece. My heart goes out to you...Paul

BluesSerenade
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6 posted 2002-09-02 12:21 PM

Larry~
Your words are so fine tuned, I've missed the deep meaning and undying love within them.
You are a thought in my mind...always.

Duncan
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7 posted 2002-09-02 12:40 PM

It is the little things, the moments of just being together whether for real, by mail or on IM. I understand this so well, Larry. You certainly made me feel it.

Kellie_Cantrell
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8 posted 2002-09-02 01:43 AM

...You can still spend time with them...
...When you talk with God...

Midnitesun

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9 posted 2002-09-02 01:48 AM

There is nothing more human, than to feel your pain, and understand, and accept that which we cannot control.... Life and Death are entertwined forever. The best I can hope for is that our souls are also forever connected, for I cannot think of a better ending, than to be forever connected with the people whose hearts are so filled with LOVE, as is yours.

Sunshine

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10 posted 2002-09-02 07:55 AM

Oh, Larry.

Thank you...

passing shadows
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11 posted 2002-09-02 09:02 AM

it's something I can't even imagine...Larry, this is a very touching poem, and it brought tears, to just think of my own daughter, just to think of what you are going through still. I pray for you.

Bill Charles
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12 posted 2002-09-02 12:44 PM

Larry - thank you for making a most beautiful poem about missed opportunities...

BC

Magnus

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13 posted 2002-09-02 12:49 PM

Larry,

I believe we all look back and reflect on
what we miss or missed or missed out on
because we didn't do something with that
special person we miss...

I do believe you gave a lot to her...and I
believe she gave a lot to you... Yes,
you should miss her....and it is wonderful
that you do...that says a lot...about you..
and about her...

catalinamoon

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14 posted 2002-09-02 06:24 PM

I understand, Larry. I miss the chance to tell my Dad I love him, cause we were somewhat estranged when he died.
Beautiful piece.
Hugs
Sandra

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15 posted 2002-09-02 07:00 PM

Larry...
I know...

Lyra

copyright2002 Lyra Nesius

"poetry is life distilled" Gwendolyn Brooks

Mistletoe Angel

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16 posted 2002-09-02 08:08 PM

(big hugggsssss of sympathy and compassion)

Love,
Noah Eaton

"Underneath your clothes there's an endless story..."

Shakira

Larry C

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17 posted 2002-09-03 01:28 AM

Paul,
Thank you for your gentle understanding. It truly is appreciated.

Lori,
I have missed you so much. Thank you for thinking of me. I hope all is well. Email me.

Duncan,
How right you are. Thanks.

Kellie,
And I do.

Thanks.

Kacy,
You have it right. What a day that will be. And thanks...always.

If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again.

Larry C

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18 posted 2002-09-03 01:34 AM

Karilea,
It certainly got my tears going. Thanks dear friend.

passing shadows,
And from experience, may I say, you have a pretty good idea of what I feel. And thank you so much for your kindness.

Bill,
Thanks for your support. Sorry I haven't stopped in lately. Just give me a little more time. Thanks.

Barry,
My poem is about the things I used to do and no longer am able to do with my daughter and father. We truthfully missed few opportunities while they were here. Sorry if I didn't communicate that so well. Thanks for your support and understanding dear friend.

Sandra,
That would be especially difficult. We did all those things and I miss the opportunity to do them again. Courage and peace to you sweet friend.

If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again.

Larry C

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19 posted 2002-09-03 01:35 AM

Lyra,
Sweet friend...you know better than I.

Noah,
Thanks for the hugs and support. You are a true friend.

If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again.

Greeneyes

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20 posted 2002-09-03 09:10 AM

luv you dear friend

....this makes my heart ache....as I know it does yours.....I am an email away if you need to vent.....

Lauren~

The ocean looks like a thousand diamonds strewn across a blue blanket
I lean against the wind pretend I am weightless and in this moment I am happy

Seymour Tabin
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21 posted 2002-09-03 09:20 AM

Larry C,
A beautiful write and a great read.

ecrivan
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22 posted 2002-09-03 10:40 AM

it would be awful not to miss them Larry..neat write from the heart

Martie

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23 posted 2002-09-03 10:44 AM

Larry

I feel this...and understand.

Denise

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24 posted 2002-09-03 03:55 PM

(((HUGS)))

Magicmystery
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25 posted 2002-09-03 11:20 PM

Walking in the woods, kicking up the leaves, you seem to be alone because you hear no other footsteps than your own. But know that she is near... Her footsteps are just so light that they are not easily noticed. You are not alone, you are loved, and the grief you feel transends the veil, indeed it is felt here around the world. We cry here with you, for you, and all that you miss.

With love and healing thoughts from
Alterego(Sheila) and Magicmystery (Sherry)

Larry C

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26 posted 2002-09-04 01:19 AM

Lauren,
Thank you dear friend. I'm not angry just lonely. But won't forget the offer.

Sy,
Thank you Sy, thank you.

Martin,
You are so kind...thanks.

Martie,
I know you do and you have my sympathies too.

Denise,
I love hugs. Thank you.

If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again.

Larry C

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27 posted 2002-09-04 01:20 AM

Sheila & Sherry,
My dad died August 6, so this is a two for one. And you are absolutely right, either way. Thank you.

If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again.

JamesMichael
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28 posted 2002-09-04 04:15 AM

Hugs Larry...you really expressed your feelings well...James

Larry C

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29 posted 2002-09-05 12:05 PM

James,
Thank you for your kindness.

If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again.

Muys
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30 posted 2002-09-06 03:20 PM

I cry with you Larry.
:Muys

Larry C

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31 posted 2002-09-07 12:25 PM

Muys,
What a kind and tender hearted friend you are! Thank you so much.

If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again.

Muys
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32 posted 2002-09-07 12:21 PM

I know what you feel

Muys

Ariana
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33 posted 2002-09-07 10:06 PM

Larry
I have read and re-read all of the replies, and from reading these you can see just how many friends you really have. Just reach out and we are always there for you.

Ariana

Larry C

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34 posted 2002-09-08 02:09 AM

Muys,
I thought you might have experience enough to understand. So sorry.

And thank you.

Ariana,
Me too. And I am overwhelmed and strengthened. Thank you so much.

If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again.

Dark Angel
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35 posted 2002-09-08 06:54 PM

This is really beautiful... hugs

Maree

Larry C

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36 posted 2002-09-08 09:39 PM

Maree,
You know, the best people live in Australia!

And thank you for your kindness. It is genuinely appreciated.

If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again.

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