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Why is it?

Christioned
Member

since 2004-01-15

Posts 93
Huddling in the dark

0 posted 2004-01-18 09:25 PM

Why is it that everytime you try to hang around with old friends that you haven't talked to forever your old friends start to treat you like your from a leaper colony? Urrrrrgggg. That bugs me so much. They say they are your friends then when you mess up or go talk to some one who's differant your treated weird. That makes me so mad. However, I feel a lot better for venting.

Alicat
Member Elite

since 1999-05-23

Posts 4094
Coastal Texas

1 posted 2004-01-18 09:33 PM

Good deal. That's what this particular forum is for, and I'm glad you utilized it.

When 'friends' do that, it's time to take inventory. Are they doing that, or are you seeing that based on your own perceptions of guilt or anger over being absent or messing up? Or have they grown and you haven't, or vice versa? At times, it's not so much that you've grown apart, but more that some haven't grown at all.

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