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ESP Member Elite
since 2000-01-25
Posts 2556Floating gently on a cloud.... |
Hey you lot, Was wondering...WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME??????? No one ever gets feelings for me or fancies me. EVER!! N like for once I thought this one guy did...and sort of a bit of stuff happened n all...and then I asked him tonight if he had feelings beyond friendship for me and he said no. Its so unfair!! I'm 20 and a half years old. No one has ever kissed me or even wanted to. No one has ever asked me out. Why??????? Ok I just felt the need to moan, cause now Im going to go to sleep and not feel much like waking up tomorrow. I havent even cried yet cos it hasnt really sunk in. Can just feel the weight on my chest getting heavier tho. Is there anyone who understands how I feel? If so I would really appreciate a few wise words...or jus some sympathy lol :'( Nite nite. "I'm not ugly, just aesthetically challenged..." |
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Local Rebel Member Ascendant
since 1999-12-21
Posts 5767Southern Abstentia |
Not knowing any more about the matter or you than I do ESP I wouldn't even begin to offer any answers to the 'what's wrong with me?' stuff -- but I will say that probably everyone who has ever frequented this site can relate to your feelings at some level or another. We've all been rejected before -- that's not anything new. In fact, it's almost a rite of passage in an informal sort of way. Change requires effort though. And it's uncomfortable. You might start here.... http://www.loveadvice.com/ARTICLES/ATTRCTMN.HTM Dr. Tracey Cabot is kind of Dr. Laura without the moralizing... lots of good stuff at her site. There there,,,, it will all be better  [This message has been edited by Local Rebel (11-02-2003 08:15 PM).] |
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Ringo 
since 2003-02-20
Posts 3684Saluting with misty eyes |
ESP- I can completely understand what it is you are going through, as can a few of my friends on here (and I'm sure most of the others I don't really know), and- without asking them first- I am almost positive that they have all gotten through it. And I honestly feel you will also. The one day that you have given up and figured there is no one out there for you, he is going to step into your life, and knock you completely off your socks. I happen to have a member of my extended family that was a virgin until she was 30. .. not because there was anything wrong with her, but just because that right one hadn't been smart enough to find her until then. Don't try so hard, and paray on it... I'm positive you'll get the answers you need. We are all equal but we’re individually different |
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Member Rara Avis
since 1999-05-19
Posts 8669Michigan, US |
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