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SEA

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Member Seraphic

since 2000-01-18

Posts 22676
with you

0 posted 2001-04-19 04:28 PM

His birthday is on Saturday
I can't seem to forget
I want to forget
Wish desperately
That I could
I wish that I could forget
What his fist against my face
Felt like
Or his military boot
Kicking the back of my head
I wish I could forget
His anger
His rage
His hatred
That always seemed to find me
I wish this month was over
So I could go on pretending
That it never happened
That I am still whole
And unchanged

~SEA~

Sunshine

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since 1999-06-25

Posts 63354
Listening to every heart

1 posted 2001-04-19 04:30 PM

I never help one wish time away...
but for you, today I blow on that candle.

Interloper

Member Rara Avis

since 2000-11-06

Posts 8369
Deep in the heart

2 posted 2001-04-19 04:31 PM

Don't forget ... forgive. That is harder than forgetting and, as a result, much more fulfilling and satisfying.

Live for love. Without love, you don't live.

Janet Marie
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since 2000-01-22

Posts 18554

3 posted 2001-04-19 04:35 PM

I wish this month was over
So I could go on pretending
That it never happened
That I am still whole
And unchanged
=======================

so give your self the present baby ...
this poem is a good start ...
now take a copy of it... or some personal reminder ...set it on fire or throw it in the ocean you love so much.
set your self free...

and although you may have been changed ...
you became whole again when you got out of the situation and didnt make the same mistake twice.
hugs Sea-girle

me

I love your imperfections ... I love your everything ...
Your broken heart ... your broken wings.

shadydaze
Member

since 2000-10-02

Posts 85

4 posted 2001-04-19 04:44 PM

the love
and affection
unfound.
the pain
and the strife
abound.
the fear
and the worry
unending.
the smiles
and the laughter
pretending.

great writing. i see clearly your point. sorry for your pain, i hope you can forget
(and forgive). great read.

PoeticKnight
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since 2000-01-20

Posts 1144
New Orleans, LA

5 posted 2001-04-19 05:05 PM

I hate that I have to share my birthday month with someone like that.

SEA

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Member Seraphic

since 2000-01-18

Posts 22676
with you

6 posted 2001-04-19 05:07 PM

Sunshine, thank you...I keep getting these jolts of terror.....and trying to act normal( and I use normal loosely) saying he still scares me is hard.....

Interloper~ sweetie, if you knew what I went through for two years of my life, you wouldn't think I should forgive.....I never will be able to forgive.....I leave that to God....

Janet~ I'll have to find a way to do just that.......that's a mistake I'll never allow to be repeated...thank you

Shadydaze~ thank you

PK~it's ok, so does my brother.....

~SEA

Greeneyes

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since 2000-09-09

Posts 9903
In Your Poetic Mind

7 posted 2001-04-19 07:51 PM

Letting go as you have done here, will hopefully help SEA, Peace to you....

Greeneyes~
***

"Within you I lose myself
Without you I find myself
Wanting to be lost again."
-Unknown

Marge Tindal

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since 1999-11-06

Posts 42384
Florida's Foreverly Shores

8 posted 2001-04-19 11:34 PM

SEA~
I read this at work today ... and wasn't worth a pea-winkle durn after that ...

You are a survivor, sweet lady.

He is a loser ... and he'd better rehearse his plea to his Maker ...
Some things just may be unforgivable at a higher level too !

*Hugs* to you for this write -
*Hugs* to you for moving beyond his reach -
*Hugs* to you for being safe now.
Love you~
~*Marge*~

~*The pen of the poet never runs out of ink, as long as we breathe.*~
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1slick_lady
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since 2000-12-22

Posts 6088
standing on a shadow's lace

9 posted 2001-04-20 12:37 PM

sea............you may never be able to forget & you NEVER have to forgive.........supporting you in your strength & healing.....hugs to you......helen

"...the rest is silence" (Hamlet) Shakespeare

[This message has been edited by 1slick_lady (edited 04-20-2001).]

Waseem Cheema
Member

since 2001-03-16

Posts 369
Pakistan

10 posted 2001-04-20 12:44 PM

SEA you must wish him. May be he will become angry....Lolo

I love to nice poetry.

Paula Finn
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since 2000-06-17

Posts 5546
missouri

11 posted 2001-04-20 01:28 AM

Sea...some things are unforgiveable...as well as unforgettable...I know baby Ive been there too...I still remember the fear of never knowing when the next attack would come...what might set him off...never knowing if it was gonna be a kiss or a fist that met me at the door...healing doesnt always start with forgiveness...I love you baby girl and Im here for you

Auguste

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since 2000-02-16

Posts 3953
By the sea

12 posted 2001-04-20 02:11 AM

SEA,

I can't imagine how a man could ever strike a woman. I wish you healing and peace.

Michael

Proust-
"Love is space and time measured by the heart"

SEA

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Member Seraphic

since 2000-01-18

Posts 22676
with you

13 posted 2001-04-20 09:25 AM

You guys....your love and support is making me cry this morning......thank you for it.....I haven't said anything to anyone around here.....I think they think I should be "over it" by now....and mostly I am.....just some reminders won't fade. I'll be fine in a few days.....I love you guys....thank you so much. You'll never know how much it means to me.

Hugs and love right back to you! And Paula.....I know exactly what you mean.I'm so sorry you were there too.

SEA

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