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serenity blaze Member Empyrean
since 2000-02-02
Posts 27738
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I'm pretty sure I'm bi-sexual. |
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Larry C
since 2001-09-10
Posts 10286United States |
So, I still love you!  |
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serenity blaze Member Empyrean
since 2000-02-02
Posts 27738 |
And I will always love YOU!  |
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SEA 
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Member Seraphic
since 2000-01-18
Posts 22676with you |
so what was it that made you decide you were bi?  |
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serenity blaze Member Empyrean
since 2000-02-02
Posts 27738 |
It wasn't exactly a decision... more like an acknowledgement of my unabashed appreciation. It's not exactly preference either, so I can't say that I am one way or the other. Maybe I should finish up my thoughts on this in a dicussion forum...? I dunno. but say, like with you? You have got the most gorgeous, widest, brown eyes, and I expect they sparkle like quartz, with flecks of yellow light. You also have shown great compassion, fortitude, and generosity. Just so you know that it's not just that you've got great "lights".  (I'm just going by your Pip-pic, but truly, just lovely, Sue.) And I'm a hand-holder, cuddle-hungry sorta being too. Women are very good at that. I'm not saying men aren't, but with women, there's less rude bumping that is not always what I want. So yep, I think it's pretty obvious that my dual-option-mode has always been apparent. To everyone else. I love the combination of strength and vulnerability apparent in so many women. I very much love and admire men who also display those qualities. I happen to think it takes a great deal of strength to be open regarding that vulnerability. I just thought I'd announce it. Because I happen to think it's okay. If it's not okay, then my apologies if I've broken a forum guideline--and I'm also okay with my announcement being moved--but only if I thought I'd made someone truly squeamish. It wasn't a bid for deliberate shock. I just wanted to do this for me, and for other folks, who might feel like they are all alone. So, now ya'll know I mean it when I say: Love to all. And oh I do love you all. It's just not always in an intimate way. |
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serenity blaze Member Empyrean
since 2000-02-02
Posts 27738 |
Came back to add-- I am married--to a man. I did take vows and have kept them. So I can't say that I have tested my theory in um, full "swing"? *wince* Not since my marriage, and not before, according to the best of my recollection.  |
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passing shadows Member Empyrean
since 1999-08-26
Posts 45577displaced |
that's pretty awesome! I say do what makes you happy If people judge you for that then you don't need 'em anyhow |
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serenity blaze Member Empyrean
since 2000-02-02
Posts 27738 |
cutie! *laughing*  |
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SEA
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Member Seraphic
since 2000-01-18
Posts 22676with you |
I don't know how that could be "not ok" and that was really sweet thank you! I think you are one amazing woman too |
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ThisDiamond Member Rara Avis
since 2002-02-22
Posts 9353Michigan, USA |
Yeah...like that would change how we love you! You are a riot Karen. |
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Susan Caldwell Member Rara Avis
since 2002-12-27
Posts 8348Florida |
 I appreciate more women, more often, then I ever have men... "too bad ignorance isn't painful" |
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Gentle Spirit Member Patricius
since 2000-10-09
Posts 13989 |
And to that I add, whatever turns you on is fantastic and all that matters. And I gotta agree with SusanC's statement. I personally love you just the way you are, no matter what way that might be. Hugs darlin' |
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icebox Member Elite
since 2003-05-03
Posts 4383in the shadows |
From what I can remember, I also appreciated women more than men...uh...ummm...oh wait a minute...no, that's not the same...my mistake. Well...bon route! |
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Mysteria
since 2001-03-07
Posts 18328British Columbia, Canada |
You mean everyone isn't bi? |
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serenity blaze Member Empyrean
since 2000-02-02
Posts 27738 |
I have to amend this. I am a practicing celibate with bi-sexual inclinations. And that one sentence explains soooooooo much about me.  |
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Sunshine
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Member Empyrean
since 1999-06-25
Posts 63354Listening to every heart |
LOL... Smiling at you! And with you! |
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passing shadows Member Empyrean
since 1999-08-26
Posts 45577displaced |
LOL at Sharon! |
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time prophet Member
since 2003-07-30
Posts 371In New Zealand Amongst the Ancient Trees |
You are "a practicing celibate" ( I assume this means your husband complains of headaches a lot), "with bi-sexual inclinations", if the assumption is correct who wouldn't wonder what the grass was like on the other side of the fence. You are who you are, and from what I have seen here, that is simply one wonderful human being, what else does one need to know. |
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Earth Angel Member Empyrean
since 2002-08-27
Posts 40215Realms of Light |
My dear Karen, you never cease to surprise and amaze! Love your impish forthrightness! But of course someone with your sense of adventure and love of exploration would contemplate enjoying the fruits of the fairer sex.  Besides, with all that love that you have inside of you, this just broadens your opportunities to share that seething passion that is welling up inside of you! ~ Ooops! I'm getting carried away! Seriously speaking, Serenity, I suppose (I love alliteration) that if you were to ever find yourself in that situation, you would make the best of it! Be proud of who you are ~ or think you are! I'm with you, girlfriend! ~ in a platonic way! lol Linda The very earthy one |
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Bob K Member Elite
since 2007-11-03
Posts 4208 |
Dear Serenity, I hope it comes as a great joy to you, one more knot untied. Happily, Bob Kaven |
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Martie
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Member Empyrean
since 1999-09-21
Posts 28049California |
Karen dear...whomever is lucky enough to be loved by you, is blessed. Be who you are...I think you're wonderful! |
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hoot_owl_rn Member Patricius
since 1999-07-05
Posts 10750Glen Hope, PA USA |
I'm so proud of you to admit this on the forums and just want to say that you are one step ahead of most as most truly don't know what or who they are. Embrace this part of your sexuality as well as every other wonderful part of you that makes you the special person that you are. We love you now as much as ever Ruth |
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Margherita Member Seraphic
since 2003-02-08
Posts 22236Eternity |
Um ... aren't we all ... at least to a certain extent? Your "outing" made me smile and did not surprise me excessively I love to hold hands too. I used to walk hand in hand with my best friend (some time ago !) but my husband criticized that innocent attitude because he thought we gave a certain impression. We were both unaware then and barely knew that there were women who loved women ... It just felt good and normal to us.You are a fantastic woman, dear Karen! Love and hugs. Margherita |
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serenity blaze Member Empyrean
since 2000-02-02
Posts 27738 |
*laughing* I feel like I'm being congratulated on being...admittedly confused. But seriously, I do come from a long, lovely line of strong women, and for the past seven (eight?) years, I have seen the absolute loveliest line of the same here at Pip. I look at the women of Pip and think: "Ron's bloody well brilliant."  |
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sandgrain Member Elite
since 1999-09-21
Posts 3662Sycamore, IL, USA |
Oh my, what next? Karen, your mega fasceted personality, shines like a diamond, while existing in the rough. Rae |
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serenity blaze Member Empyrean
since 2000-02-02
Posts 27738 |
Rae? I have to amend this yet again. I am a menopausal practicing celibate with bi-sexual inclinations. |
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sandgrain Member Elite
since 1999-09-21
Posts 3662Sycamore, IL, USA |
Oh, Karen, I laughed so hard when I saw this. You are one of a kind, for sure, however you choose to define it. Rae |
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iliana Member Patricius
since 2003-12-05
Posts 13434USA |
Sweet Pea, you crack me up!!!!! Miss you.....jo |
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serenity blaze Member Empyrean
since 2000-02-02
Posts 27738 |
Um, about this "practicing celibate" thing? Is there a graduate course, and WHEN DO I GET MY DIPLOMA?  just askin'... |
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Sunshine
Administrator
Member Empyrean
since 1999-06-25
Posts 63354Listening to every heart |
I'll find your diploma as soon as I find one for "wife" "lover" "mother" and "friend". |
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Mysteria
since 2001-03-07
Posts 18328British Columbia, Canada |
Um...I think you got George instead of a piece of paper  Oh lord, I even make myself laugh. |
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The Shadow in Blue Member
since 2006-05-18
Posts 493EL, Michigan |
Karen, You are sure a character, but a marvelous one at that. So here's to you and your strength in admitting your "confused", as you put. From the little time I've known you, you have been a simply fabulous gal, no matter how you describe yourself, be it a menopausal practicing celibate with bi-sexual tendencies, or not. Oh... and Seren, I think you can get your diploma at the DMV between the times of 5-6, but be forewarned there is ALWAYS a crowd. (j/k) -Jillian S., Esquire Sidenote-Group hug anyone? JNS "I celebrate myself, and sing myself, And what I assume you shall assume, For every atom belonging to me as good belongs to you."-WW |
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Midnitesun
since 2001-05-18
Posts 28647Gaia |
Serene one? You rock! It's normal to love women...we are brilliant, wonderful and sexy even when cleaning the dishes or toilet! |
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serenity blaze Member Empyrean
since 2000-02-02
Posts 27738 |
Kacy does dishes and cleans the toilet! GF---laughing--now you are really turning me on! |
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