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Larry C
since 2001-09-10
Posts 10286United States 
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May 18 at 4:45 p.m. my precious daughter Ginger Michelle died at the age of 28. She suffered massive bleeding in her brain from an aneurysm and then had a heart attack. It was too much. I flew to Seattle and spent over an hour with her last night in the hospital room where she died. The staff generously broke policy and did this in anticipation of my arrival. I donated her corneas, heart valves and tissue for burn victims. Now I have the heart breaking task of arranging her funeral. I wrote six poems on the flight here and don't know when I'll get them posted. Please pray for me and my family. I need your love and support in this devastating time. [This message has been edited by Larry C (05-19-2002 01:06 PM).] |
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Janet Marie Member Laureate
since 2000-01-22
Posts 18554 |
Larry...there are no words for this..... yes our kind friend, you have our prayers and thoughts. I am so very sorry. heart-hugs to you and your family in this time of extreme loss and grief. |
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Sunshine
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Member Empyrean
since 1999-06-25
Posts 63354Listening to every heart |
Larry, I am so sorry. If there is anything we can do from here, please, let us know. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers... |
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Poet deVine
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Member Seraphic
since 1999-05-26
Posts 22612Hurricane Alley |
Oh Larry. My heart goes out to you in your grief. Please know you are in my prayers. |
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nakdthoughts Member Laureate
since 2000-10-29
Posts 19200Between the Lines |
hugs and prayers Larry M |
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Nan
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Member Seraphic
since 1999-05-20
Posts 21191Cape Cod Massachusetts USA |
There are truly no words that can properly express the feelings of this day... Please know that my prayers are with you - God Bless Ginger Michelle, and you and your family as well...  |
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Greeneyes 
since 2000-09-09
Posts 9903In Your Poetic Mind |
OHHHHHH Larry~ There are no words....just know I am praying for you...love ya hon.... LC~ I would rather have one breath of his hair, |
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Marsha
since 2000-07-10
Posts 7423Maidstone Kent England |
Larry you are in my prayers and thoughts, take care, you did an amazing thing to donate the organs as a gift of life. My heart goes out to you and your family, may HIS strength aid and assist you  Love as always Mushy  To give light to them that sit in darkness..... to guide our feet into the way of peace Luke 2:79 |
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Enchantress Member Empyrean
since 2001-08-14
Posts 35113Canada eh. |
Larry, I am so deeply sorry for yours and Nancy Lee's loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers at this very sad time. "Warm summer sun, shine kindly here; Warm southern wind, blow softly here; Green sod above, lie light, lie light - Good night, dear heart, good night, good night. --Mark Twain" |
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Martie
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Member Empyrean
since 1999-09-21
Posts 28049California |
Dear Larry I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers at this time. Heart hugs! |
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Mysteria
since 2001-03-07
Posts 18328British Columbia, Canada |
I wish to send you my sincerest condolences in the loss of your daughter. There can be no greater tradegy than loosing your child and I hope you will lean on all of us here to give you strength through this sadness. I know if she was anything like her wonderful Father, she will be a constant source of inspiration to you and also in your poetry Larry, and this will keep her memory alive. I send all of you in the family my love, and should there be anything, anything at all that I may do to help, please let me know. [This message has been edited by Mysteria (05-19-2002 11:57 AM).] |
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Balladeer
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Member Empyrean
since 1999-06-05
Posts 25505Ft. Lauderdale, Fl USA |
I can't think of anything to say that doesn;t sound trite...this is too devastating for me to imagine..my thoughts are with you and your family, Larry |
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Tracey Member Elite
since 2001-08-29
Posts 2808where insanity meets breeding |
Larry, I have tears right now for this devastating tragedy. There are really no words to comfort for this kind of pain. My mother died of a brain aneurysm nearly 6 years ago and I still feel the loss greatly. I too, donated all possible organs, and they kept her on life support until I could get there. But, the loss of a mother, doesn’t even compare to the loss of a child. I’ll have to send you an e-mail a little later, as the tears are coming a little to strongly right now, for your loss and recalling my own. My deepest, deepest sympathies and prayers are with you and you family right now. This should never have to happen …a parent should never have to say goodbye to a child like this. If there ever was the biggest cyber hug…I’m sending it to you right now. |
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HopeS Member Elite
since 2000-12-22
Posts 4596Perth Western Australia |
Larry I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers at this time, hugs! Hope |
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Honeybee Member Ascendant
since 1999-12-26
Posts 5372Ontario, CANADA |
Larry, my friend, I am truly sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers and if ever you need anything, email me or find me on msn. I'm here for you!  I'm just so sorry. |
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doreen peri Member Elite
since 1999-05-25
Posts 3812Virginia |
mygod my half of heart is crying......bleeding.... i have no words (((((((((((((((( larry )))))))))))))))))))) i am here praying for you and your family...  embarrassed.... because there are no words..... |
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2dalimit Member Elite
since 2000-02-08
Posts 2228Mississippi coast |
My sincere sympathy. Melton |
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kaile
since 2000-02-06
Posts 5146singapore |
i'm so sorry HUGS |
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Midnitesun
since 2001-05-18
Posts 28647Gaia |
The tears are flowing. Larry, this is devastating news. If there is any way I can help, you know I'm here. The whole family will be in my thoughts today. |
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Munda Member Elite
since 1999-10-08
Posts 3544The Hague, The Netherlands |
Larry - Words fail me... Hugs and strength to you and your family. God bless. |
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Logan Senior Member
since 2001-05-28
Posts 1641Arkansas |
Larry, words can't express, only know that you and your family are in all our hearts at this time for you. Best thoughts to you..Logan |
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Magicmystery Senior Member
since 2002-02-13
Posts 821Windsor, Ontario, Canada |
Larry, a loss as devastating as this.... I cannot imagine. I am sooo sorry. You and your family will be in our prayers. May God comfort you and hold you in His loving arms and know that your daugher is right now with her Creator and at peace.  With our deepest sympathy, Sherry and Wilfred Gardner Cherish the good memories past and look forward to the adventure called Tomorrow. |
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catalinamoon
since 2000-06-03
Posts 9543The Shores of Alone |
Oh Larry, how unbelievably awful. I am so very sorry this has happened. I wll pray for you and your family. Hugs Sandra |
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Gentle Spirit Member Patricius
since 2000-10-09
Posts 13989 |
Larry, I have no words.... My thoughts and prayers are with you and those you love, if you need anything at all....even if just a ear to listen.... I am here dear sweet man.  With warmest regard, ~D~ Like a red brick, |
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Seymour Tabin Member Empyrean
since 1999-07-07
Posts 31720Tamarac Fla |
Larry, This was a shock to me.My sorry will do little good, but my prayers may help. |
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Titia Geertman Member Ascendant
since 2001-05-07
Posts 5182Netherlands |
Dear Larry, The loss of a child Leaves a question we never found the answer to With all my heart I wish you and your family the strength to move forward Please know that we are here when you need a shoulder to lean on Warm hugs to you Titia A rose is a rose is a rose...I guess... |
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Madame Chipmunk Member Rara Avis
since 2001-12-05
Posts 8296Michigan |
I'm so glad that you posted this thread, Larry... The poets on this website are the kindest and most caring people I have ever met. I just don't know what to tell you...but I will be here if you need to talk about it. As you, know....I have been through a similar tragedy and sometimes talking to someone who has been there, helps...as does having a shoulder to cry on. I know that you can't do it right now because you are faced with the ugliest task in the world...making funeral arrangements for your own child... but, dearest Larry, I do hope that you will come back to us soon...there is a lot of comfort waiting for you here. How generous of you to donate her organs, and to think of others at such an awful time. My prayers will always be with you. ~special big and sad hugs Lyra Lyra |
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Duncan Member Ascendant
since 2001-08-07
Posts 5455 |
Larry I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you. |
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Nightshade
since 2001-08-31
Posts 13962just out of reach |
Dear Larry - my sister Enchantress told me of your great loss when she telephoned me to-day. Words can never express how sorry I am for you and yours. Prayers are on wing. Sincerely, Chris |
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Severn Member Rara Avis
since 1999-07-17
Posts 7704 |
... nothing adequate to say, except I'm shocked and sorrowed for you and your family, Larry... K |
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Larry C
since 2001-09-10
Posts 10286United States |
To all of you collectively: My heart can't write individually to you for it hurts too much. Thank you to each of you it means more than you can ever imagine. Delayed Diagnosis [This message has been edited by Larry C (05-19-2002 07:19 PM).] |
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SmartChick Member Rara Avis
since 2001-09-23
Posts 7081On A Journey To The Unknown |
Oh Larry, I am so so sorry about the loss of your daughter. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you and your family. |
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Marge Tindal
since 1999-11-06
Posts 42384Florida's Foreverly Shores |
Larry~ Tears fall from the eyes of many of your friends here~ Please know that we have comforting hands and hearts to hold yours too~ *Hugs* ~*Marge*~ ~*The pen of the poet never runs out of ink, as long as we breathe.*~ |
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Denise
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Member Seraphic
since 1999-08-22
Posts 22648 |
Larry, Words cannot begin to express the aching in my heart for you and your loved ones. I can't think of a greater agony in life than the loss of a child. Such tragedy is beyond comprehension. May it be some comfort to know that many are with you in your time of grief, my friend. I wish that I could take your pain away. My thoughts and prayers will be with you through these dark days. Love, Denise |
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bsquirrel
since 2000-01-03
Posts 7855 |
May you and yours find the solace you need. And for that which you can't, that's what we're here for. Mike She said burn ... together. |
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Suetang Member Ascendant
since 2001-03-07
Posts 5187Melbourne, Australia |
Hello Larry For once words fail me after hearing of this tragedy. You are often in my thoughts and will continue to be more than ever now. How wonderful that the memory of your daughter will live on and her priceless organs will give a new lease of life to others. Her death was certainly not in vain and you must feel so proud that she has given these precious gifts to others. I dediced many years ago to donate my organs and it makes me more determined than ever after reading of the selflessness of your daughter. I am sure she will live on in your heart for more than one reason. Take care my friend, I'll be thinking of you. Love Sue Suetang |
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Mistletoe Angel
since 2000-12-17
Posts 32816Portland, Oregon |
(tears fall down my cheeks) Oh Larry, my heart too goes out to you, sweet friend, my heart grieves over your loss and know we are always here for you and we do care! (BIG HUGGGSSSSSSS) You will always be in my thoughts and prayers, sweet friend, God Bless You! Love, Noah Eaton "Underneath your clothes there's an endless story..." |
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NapalmsConstantlyConfused
since 2001-05-15
Posts 529 |
it would be false if i were to tell you i know how you feel. i don't. no-one can. but i know how i felt when my daughter died, and i cannot imagine a deeper pain. i empathize as far as i am able, my friend, and i wish you strength in this time of sorrow. may the Lord bless your efforts; may he lighten your load, ease your way, and guard your path. be strong; remember the words of Marcus Aurelius: quote: you will make it through this, and we will all be here for you. let us lift you up, even if only in spirit. -Dave |
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Muys Member
since 2002-04-06
Posts 389The Netherlands |
Dear famely My heart is with you Will you accept my pray's Love Muys |
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rwood Member Elite
since 2000-02-29
Posts 3793Tennessee |
Dear Larry... Sooo deeply sorry..prayers for healing and for soothing my friend.. hugs and love to all.. Sincerely, Reg |
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suthern
since 1999-07-29
Posts 20723Louisiana |
I'm so very sorry, Larry. I know words are inadequate... but you and your family have my deepest sympathy and my prayers. |
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SEA
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Member Seraphic
since 2000-01-18
Posts 22676with you |
my heart and prayers go to you..... |
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Kit McCallum
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Member Laureate
since 2000-04-30
Posts 14774Ontario, Canada |
Oh Larry ... I am so sorry to learn of this tragic news. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family ... |
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NewEnglandlazurlu Member Rara Avis
since 2002-01-04
Posts 7470A Mountain Paradise |
Larry, there are no words I can offer that will help take away the pain you and your family are feeling. I have a daughter this age and I cannot image what you must endure. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. By His grace and all of our prayers, I hope it will bring you strength. God bless you, Hugs, Marti " My wrinkles are badges of courage and reveal that I am a Mother." |
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Victoria
since 2000-08-12
Posts 5869 |
Oh Larry..my heart aches for you as the same thing happened to my best friends son...he was the same age as your daughter..my thoughts and prayers are with you..hugs |
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Bridget Shenachie Senior Member
since 2002-01-23
Posts 1056Kansas USA |
Larry, May God be with you and your family during this time of grief. I am so sorry for your loss. Shenachie |
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Sven
since 1999-11-23
Posts 14937East Lansing, MI USA |
consider it done my friend. . . peace to you. . . ----------------------------------------------------------- To the world, you may only be one person. But to one person, you may be the world. |
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Larry C
since 2001-09-10
Posts 10286United States |
Thank you more than I am able to express at this time. It is unimagineable to me that I could gain so much strength and courage from this site. |
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EagleOne Member Elite
since 2000-03-07
Posts 2829Between a laugh and a tear... |
My heart cries out! My thoughts are with you and your family, take care! |
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skyshine
since 2002-02-07
Posts 3058Beneath the northern stars |
This is a shock....you'll be in my prayers, Larry. You look inside my wild mind |
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Mother_Earth Senior Member
since 2000-11-20
Posts 13701/2 year Texas & 1/2 year Michigan |
Larry C, no words can ease your pain. My prayers are with you and your family in your sorrow. And a big thank you for donating part of her so others may have more life. She will live on and on.... ME |
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Elizabeth Santos Member Rara Avis
since 1999-11-08
Posts 9269Pennsylvania |
Larry, No words do I have to express the sorrow I feel for you and your family at this time. Please accept my sincere condolences as I continue to include you all in my prayers. May you be well and find strength to endure this tragedy together My love to you Liz |
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hoot_owl_rn Member Patricius
since 1999-07-05
Posts 10750Glen Hope, PA USA |
Larry, I know I'm gone from the pages for days/weeks at a time, but that doesn't mean that everyone here isn't like family to me. I often read much more than I reply to due to time constrants and health problems. I've read everyone of your posts for Ginger and each brough tears to my eyes. No one should have to live longer than their child. God bless you and your family and see you through this unimaginable time. Ruth I thought this might bring some small comfort to you, it remains one of my favorites To Remember Me The day will come when my body will lie upon a white sheet neatly tucked under four corners of a mattress located in a hospital busily occupied with the living and the dying. At a certain moment a doctor will determine that my brain has ceased to function and that, for all intents and purposes, my life has stopped. When that happens, do not attempt to instill artificial life into my body by the use of a machine. And don't call this my death bed. Let it be called the Bed of Life, and let my body be taken from it to help others lead fuller lives. Give my sight to the man who has never seen a sunrise, a baby's face or the love in the eyes of a woman. Give my heart to a person whose own heart has caused nothing but endless days of pain. Give my blood to the teenager who was pulled from the wrekage of his car, so that he might live to see his grandchildren play. Give my kidneys to one who depends on a machine to exist from week to week. Take my bones, every muscle, every fiber and nerve in my body and find a way to make a crippled child walk. Explore every corner of my brain. Take my cells, if necessary, and let them grow so that someday, a speechless boy will shout at the crack of a bat and a deaf girl will hear the soud of rain against her window. Burn what is left of me and scatter the ashes to the winds to help the flowers grow. If you must bury something, let it be my faults, my weaknesses and all prejudice against my fellow man. Give my sins to the devil. Give my sould to God. If, by chance, you wish to remember me, do it with a kind deed or word to someone who needs you. If you do all I have askes, I will live forever. ~Robert N. Test |
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PhaerieChild Senior Member
since 1999-08-30
Posts 1787Aloha, Oregon |
I have been an avid fan of yours for awhile and while I don't reply, it doesn't mean I don't read. I was gone during this awful time for you and I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter. I can't even express how deeply this touches me. I have you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. Sincerely felt condolences to you and your family. Shawna There's the man I chose. There's my territory.....Shakira |
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