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Oh No Love Connection.. HELP!!!
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Ladycat 
since 1999-07-05
Posts 782At the edge and a doorway,TX 
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Ok, here is the thing gang. There is this guy that watches Luke from time to time and we have been getting rather close since DW and I have separated. He is a saint to say the least and I can call on him last minute to do anything that I want. He is going to end up going to college at the same place that I am and has VOLUNTEERED to watch Luke anytime that I want. He is the same age that I am and he loves luke like if that was his son. I don't understand it. He has gone out on a few dates with me and they were fun. Last night though things got a little close and we were talking, I was crying, he was holding me and the next thing I know we were kissing. OH NO!!! No like that is a bad thing, but we had the uncomfortable pause afterwards. The pause that says what the heck do we do now. I pulled away and left. I called him once I got home and we talked a little, but there is still that uncomfortable pause that is there on the phone. How do we get over this? I don't know where I'm going or what I'm doing... Could someone please offer me some advice? Love, Lady Live in my world just once and you'll find yourself enraptured. |
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BloomingRose Member Elite
since 2000-08-09
Posts 3092Florida |
experiance speaking here... Take your time. No need to stress, what's meant to be, will be. Remember this...if it's worth having, it's worth the wait. Deb |
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Parker Member Elite
since 2000-01-06
Posts 3129ON |
I would say take your time and keep on talking. If you can... Determine if the interest is on both sides. If its not an emotional and solid connection on both sides and maybe just physical to one of you, then you both need to know this to salvage the frindship. So take your time or just jump right in... you'll know real soon and hopefully there are no rock hidden under the water....  Parker |
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Rex Member
since 2000-06-29
Posts 482Houston, Texas |
The pause you mention is not unnatural in a new relationship. Just let nature take its course and "que sera sera". |
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serenity blaze Member Empyrean
since 2000-02-02
Posts 27738 |
yep. take your time. And just keep being honest about your feelings...hugs and luck to you... |
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Dopey Dope
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Member Patricius
since 2000-08-30
Posts 11132San Juan, Puerto Rico |
Wow......a toughy.......i'm just going to stick with the Good luck's....  I was born myself, raised myself, and will continue to be myself. The world will just have to adjust. I hate your socks. I'd like to burn them! |
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