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Allysa 
since 1999-11-09
Posts 1952In an upside-down garden 
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Once upon a time there were two friends, we'll call them A and B. A and B met a girl at a dance, we'll call the girl C. They hung out and talked about music and C became one of the guys. A month later, C noticed that she had feelings for A. A relized this and told C that there was nothing, that nothing would ever happen... blah blah blah. Later on, A realized that he like C. A, B, and C hung out a lot, but then A and C started to hang out more and A did not want to hang out with B anymore because he was preoccupied with C. He no longer talked to B, though B tried many times to converse with him. A and C became involved in a relationship. C and B conversed regualarly online, and one day, A and C got into an argument. B was there to tell C that it was ok.... and took C to go get coffee. It was then, that B began to like C. C and A have a semi-okay relaitonship, but they fight a lot and C feels like an object to A, and it's evil. The other day, A, B, C, and another girl, we'll call her D were hanging out at D's house. A and C kissed and apparently B got very sad about this. C cares (etc) about both A and B and it very torn... B is very hurt because he doesn't understand because C hangs out with him all the time and reads him bed time stories... A is going to Germany for 10 days to stay with some girl that C does not know and C does not like this... B would never treat C the way A has treated C in the past. Let's weigh our options... A - posessive, defensive, sweet, caring, loveable.... etc. B - teddy bear like. Now, if you were C, based on this information, which one would you pick? "Wie ein Quadrat in einem Kreis, eck' ich immer wieder an obwohl ich doch schon lange weiß, daß ich niemals ändern kann." ~Wizo |
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Cpat Hair
since 2001-06-05
Posts 11793 |
Lord..a multiple choice essay test.... ( smiling) Advise is cheap.. but mine would be that the heart is a complicated thing. Any choices made should take into consideration that once a person has shown a istory of treating another badly..it is unlikely to change. Care...respect..and love... may not have the glamour of a bad boy...but it will last a lot longer and be a source of comfort when the rest of the world is kicking you in the teeth.. chose wisely...and with your hearts eye seeing that you deserve to be treated with all the respect and care anyone sharing your life can show. |
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Christopher
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Member Rara Avis
since 1999-08-02
Posts 8296Purgatorial Incarceration |
dang. Ron's probably right, but I was going to say, "all the above!"  good luck, but remember - life's not about choosing between a couple of people you know at the moment. there are as many people out there you can love as there are raindrops in a spring shower. |
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Cpat Hair
since 2001-06-05
Posts 11793 |
Christopher!!! Bite your tongue!! What in the world do you mean I was probably right??? We aren't supposed to agree on things are we? (chuckling) |
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Salty Senior Member
since 2002-11-23
Posts 669Texas |
I think we should get the rest of the alphabet involved ....and then make our choices. No seriously The heart does usually do the choosing and sometimes it just simply doesn't matter what anyone does better. |
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