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Stacie Soyko
New Member

since 1999-10-14

Posts 2
Brownstown, MI, US

0 posted 1999-10-14 12:35 PM

My problem is this:

Me and my boyfriend had a baby and now we are broken up, because of his family. They hate me for some reason, and I don't know why. I think my exboyfriend wants to get back together but he fears his families raction. His mother has already threatened to kick him out if her gets back together with me. How can i get him back.

Stacie

please help. I am so frustrated with this, any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Maitay
Member

since 1999-07-16

Posts 158
Sisters,OR,USA

1 posted 1999-10-24 06:49 PM

If you reall love him, then you should never let anyone stop you from being apart. He is really teh only one who can decide what he will do, but from teh way you make it sound, he'll pick to be with you... best of luck, oh and congrats on the baby..

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~The price of finding love is to eventually lose it. When I wish on a falling star, I wish not for material goods but to show kindness to others and be content with what the world may offer me~

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Marilyn
Member Elite

since 1999-09-26

Posts 2621
Ontario, Canada

2 posted 1999-10-29 02:01 PM

Stacie.....My advice to you is this..(this is comming from a mother of 3 beautiful children). You and your boyfriend need to sit down and discuss this problem. If you and he are truely in love you can work something out. The first thing that has to happen is to open lines of communication with his family and yours. Step away from the emotions and approach this as an adult. There is a child involved here and both of you are responsible for this new life. His parents are the grand parents of this child and I hope want to see the best for thier blood.

If this does not work then your boyfriend will have to make a decision. He has a responibilty to both you and your child. You and he both need to find your back bone and fight for the welfare of this baby. She/he deserves both a father and a mother in her/his life. Tis time to grow up my dear.

I hope this helped. If you need someone to talk about this with. Feel free to contact me.

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