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Love Angel Junior Member
since 2003-11-04
Posts 25 |
I have a question to ask you all. Ok, I was raped about 10 months ago, and I got pregnant. I had the baby, and just got her out about a week ago. She was in there for 2 months. I was wondering, do you think is right for people to call me a whore and a sllut if it wasn't my fault? i mean i wasn't even concious at the time and i sill got made fun of. Thank you for all your help. |
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WhtDove Member Rara Avis
since 1999-07-22
Posts 9245Illinois |
Is it right? Absolutely not! Raped is not something anyone asks for. I have to applause your decision on keeping the baby though. Though a reminder of a bad time in your life. Your daughter is a miracle from God. I know people can be really cruel. You can't stop what they say, but you can sure prove them wrong by your actions. Be content knowing that you know what happened and God knows what happened and that's all that matters. You raise that daughter with all the love and affection you have and thank God for her. Give her a good life. She is after all a gift from Above. There are support groups out there for rape victims. I would strongly suggest you find one. It always helps when others can relate to what you've been through and be more supportive. Good luck. Raise that daughter with love  <*\\\>< |
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Ringo 
since 2003-02-20
Posts 3684Saluting with misty eyes |
The people's reactions you describe just prove the theory that while the population of the planet is increasing, the overall intelligence remains a constant. While I would NEVER advocate the way in which your daughter was given to you, I would say that nothing happens without a specific reason (in my beliefs anyhow) and you were meant to have a daughter at this time in your life. Although I will tell you from experience that it is one of the hardest things to get over, I will ask that you find the ability to look past the events of the past as not to subconsciously project any uneasy feelings towards the child... and do everything it is within your power to raise her to be an intelligent, caring being who has the strength and ability to stand up for herself and for any injustices that she sees along the way. (of course, I would also suggest making her a Republican, but that is a bit much to ask, I would suppose) BTW... What is your daughter's name?? Some people are like Slinkies . . . not really good for anything, but you still can't help but smile when you see one tumble down the stairs... |
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Marge Tindal
since 1999-11-06
Posts 42384Florida's Foreverly Shores |
LoveAngel~ No matter how your little one got here ... she is a blessing to be nurtured in your love~ Ignorant people never think beyond the end of their tongues ... and should be totally ignored !!! God be with you and your precious baby daughter ...  *Huglets*  ~*Marge*~ ~*When the heart grieves over what it has lost, |
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Denise
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Member Seraphic
since 1999-08-22
Posts 22648 |
No, Love Angel, it's never right for anyone to call someone such names, in your situation or in any situation. Your child is a blessing, no matter the circumstances that brought her to you. Seek out counselling and support and enjoy that little baby! |
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Love Angel Junior Member
since 2003-11-04
Posts 25 |
I want to thank you for all your help and comments. My daughters name is Essence Jade and she is doing great. I am so blessed to have her in my life and I now know why God has put her there. I am really thankful for her. She is almost 5 months old and is doing wonderful. She is already trying to crawl, but has not succeded. Once again, I thank you for your replys Love Angel |
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