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I will never see my sister again
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serenity blaze Member Empyrean
since 2000-02-02
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and that is a reality that is incomprehensible to me. Love your people while you can. Death sucks. I'll plant parslane around her marker, and keep the cross with a pink rose cherished, between towels, until we can have it made permanent, on her headstone. I bought it 'cause it looked liked her--I wish I would have given it to her while she was alive. (But then, we teased each other that way.) Love your people while you can. Death sucks. grieving |
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Sunshine
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since 1999-06-25
Posts 63354Listening to every heart |
If I had a wish that could be granted... I would dissolve your pain... or at least some of it. Because you know very well that there are some pains that ultimately make life sweeter... So for now, I will offer my love, and hugs... |
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Nan
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since 1999-05-20
Posts 21191Cape Cod Massachusetts USA |
I'm right there with you, my friend...  |
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Michelle_loves_Mike
since 2003-12-20
Posts 1189Pennsylvania |
Yes,,death sucks...I can't say I know how you feel,,,loss is felt different by us all,,I can, however, say I miss my dad everyday,,,and its been over 2 years since he passed. |
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Janet Marie Member Laureate
since 2000-01-22
Posts 18554 |
Love your people while you can. -------------------------------- youre my kind of peeeeepul.    |
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Midnitesun
since 2001-05-18
Posts 28647Gaia |
 not the physical sister, anywaybut we all know where she resides permanently |
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Susan Caldwell Member Rara Avis
since 2002-12-27
Posts 8348Florida |
Just a few things: "God grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change.. Courage to change the things I can and Wisdom to know the difference." "I'd like the memory of me to be a happy one, I'd like to leave an afterglow of smiles when day is done I'd like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways, Of happy times and laughing times and bright and sunny days. I'd like the tears of those who grieve, to dry before the sun Of happy memories that I leave behind when day is done." ~unknown and lastly, I love you very much Karen, you are a beautiful woman and I am so glad I have gotten to know you and I value our friendship. "too bad ignorance isn't painful" ~Unknown~ |
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sandgrain Member Elite
since 1999-09-21
Posts 3662Sycamore, IL, USA |
It's difficult to even know what we're feeling at such a sad time. There's remorse, anger, disappointment, disbelief, frustration, despair, hope, etc. all sort of wrapped together. Like when the tears stream, missing her, at the same time you laugh recalling some funny happening. You're in my prayers. Please know faith and time will ease the pain. Believing my losses are alive and happy in heaven, eases my aching heart. |
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Larry C
since 2001-09-10
Posts 10286United States |
Karen, I know that kind of loss can't be fixed but know I care... If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again. |
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nakdthoughts Member Laureate
since 2000-10-29
Posts 19200Between the Lines |
when they say "time heals"..it doesn't...but it does allow you to remember all the cute and touching ways you shared each other's life...and that does make the loss less painful... I talk to my sister..she is always here with me...inside. Hugs Karen..and by the way I made your picture smaller so I could enjoy the smile..will send it back to you. M |
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serenity blaze Member Empyrean
since 2000-02-02
Posts 27738 |
The picture looks great, mo. Thank you... I was wrong when I said I'd never see her again--I see her in smiles, all the time. (and well yes, if I squint a bit, I see her in the mirror a little bit) Thanks all for allowing me my moment. And the e mail from "yearpete" particularly touched my heart--wise and selfless words from someone who knows and understands how tender the pain is still. And I guess I posted this looking for some comfort. And it worked. thank you Much love and gratitude to you all. |
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serenity blaze Member Empyrean
since 2000-02-02
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Sunshine
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since 1999-06-25
Posts 63354Listening to every heart |
I was hoping! Thank you, little one. |
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serenity blaze Member Empyrean
since 2000-02-02
Posts 27738 |
I think she was like, 36, in this pic. But she even made wrinkles look cute, in fact, I just told her so two weeks ago. As the family dusts off their scanners and such, I'm sure I'll have plenty more, and yes, more current ones as well. But she was truly a beauty--inside and out.  |
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Nan
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Member Seraphic
since 1999-05-20
Posts 21191Cape Cod Massachusetts USA |
She's beautiful, Karen... |
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Local Rebel Member Ascendant
since 1999-12-21
Posts 5767Southern Abstentia |
Just like her sister... inside and out. |
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nakdthoughts Member Laureate
since 2000-10-29
Posts 19200Between the Lines |
yes I can see you are sisters...and I know the missing~~ Every now and then when I look in the mirror I see mine also. hugs Karen... M |
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Local Rebel Member Ascendant
since 1999-12-21
Posts 5767Southern Abstentia |
One for you too M... |
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LoveBug
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since 2000-01-08
Posts 4697 |
http://www.bartleby.com/102/16.html I hope this old great poem may give you some peace. *hugs* Love's a lovely lad |
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Martie
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since 1999-09-21
Posts 28049California |
Karen....  |
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Dark Angel Member Patricius
since 1999-08-04
Posts 10095 |
I can see you there in her eyes Karen. She's beautiful.  and i knew in the crystalline knowledge of you ~Buckingham/Nicks |
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Not A Poet Member Elite
since 1999-11-03
Posts 3885Oklahoma, USA |
Truly beautiful. I mourn you loss too. |
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Aenimal Member Rara Avis
since 2002-11-18
Posts 7350the ass-end of space |
hugs |
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Enchantress Member Empyrean
since 2001-08-14
Posts 35113Canada eh. |
She is lovely Karen. I wish I could take away your hurt and pain. Please know that every time I hug Chrislane I'm hugging you too. |
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Nightshade
since 2001-08-31
Posts 13962just out of reach |
Oh, she is beautiful Karen. Celebrate her life and the fact that she was your sister. What a blessing!! |
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1slick_lady Member Ascendant
since 2000-12-22
Posts 6088standing on a shadow's lace |
it is rare to find a true beauty very rare when they are in the same family i AM with you you know.... |
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ESP Member Elite
since 2000-01-25
Posts 2556Floating gently on a cloud.... |
Turn Again to Life If I should die and leave you here a while, be not like others sore undone, who keep long vigil by the silent dust. For my sake turn again to life and smile, nerving thy heart and trembling hand to do something to comfort other hearts than thine. Complete these dear unfinished tasks of mine and I perchance may therein comfort you. Mary Lee Hall. ==================================== This was read at Princess Diana's funeral, I think it is beautiful. I am very sorry for your loss. Lizzie. "Time has told me not to ask for more, one day our ocean will find its shore" ~Nick Drake |
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Duncan Member Ascendant
since 2001-08-07
Posts 5455 |
I have a sister who I've been estranged from for years. Today...is her birthday. I sent her a card, interrupting my previous course of "pretending she didn't exist". And I did so, because of you, K. And Cathy. Just a little thing, but I wanted to tell you. |
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Sunshine
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Member Empyrean
since 1999-06-25
Posts 63354Listening to every heart |
It's the big things, Dunc, that bring the little things about. Cathy is very proud of what you did... as is serenity. |
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gemjop Member Elite
since 2002-11-18
Posts 2587Pencilveinia, USA |
I cannot even begin to imagine how you feel. you're in my thoughts. xx |
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serenity blaze Member Empyrean
since 2000-02-02
Posts 27738 |
oh Dunc...I am speechless. c'mere you. Not that made me happy! I love you bunches for that. and thanks to all for commenting...I am very proud of her indeed, obviously. Love you to you all.  |
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Juju Member Elite
since 2003-12-29
Posts 3429In your dreams |
I am sorry. I have two sisters. So I know this day will come, where something will break uis sisters three. |
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GG Member Elite
since 2002-12-03
Posts 3532Lost in thought |
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