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ska babe
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0 posted 2006-01-28 07:01 PM


for once things seem to be going my way all but one thing, i can't really say who or what it is but all i can say is how can i be strong when all i want to do is go and cry in a conter and listen to music. i know i have to be strong but when i fall its going to hit hard. i know bottleing up my feelings are bad but at this point its the only thing to do.how cani be strong??i want to be....i have to be.

"I am the one who has to die when it's my time to die, so I'm gonna live life the way I wanna"- Jimi Hendrix

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serenity blaze
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1 posted 2006-01-28 07:24 PM


If all you feel like doing right now is go sit in a corner and listen to music, then that is exactly what you should do. Especially if that is what feeds your spirit.

Life is hard.

Somedays all I can do is nothing too. As long as I'm not going backwards, I consider it progress.

May you feel better soon.

Fee
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2 posted 2006-01-29 08:04 AM


You need to let your emotions out, and remember that falling does not make you weak, but helps you to become stronger.

Don't run from your emotions, express them.

Warmest of hugs, Fee

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littlewing
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since 2003-03-02
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3 posted 2006-01-29 11:57 AM


"I'm a slow walker, but I never walk backwards."

~ Abe Lincoln

Sounds like you are doing just what you need to, you are stronger than you realize. ironically, it is in those times of great despair, we find our strength.  Moreso, realize our own strength.

nakdthoughts
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Between the Lines
4 posted 2006-01-29 06:25 PM


by the way, there is nothing wrong with crying~~ it is very cleansing.


M

Kimberly ann
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since 2006-05-29
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5 posted 2006-06-20 09:11 PM


i know wat u mean!!! and like nakdthoughts nothing bad about crying
kimblery

LeeJ
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6 posted 2006-06-21 06:34 AM


hello Kimberly,
I'd like to add to all the other constructive comments left for you, if I may....

don't look for approval to think and feel, be yourself...open the door to life, and let it in, the bad as well as the good...cry, scream, then, let it go, and think of it as another learning experience, and a place you might not like to return to again...

Also, remember, sometimes when we've had it difficult, all our lives, we tend to feel guilty when it's good, like we don't deserve it or something...but we do...and YOU DO, so allow it and feel good...don't get into a self punishment mode, (feeling bad when thing are good and/or when good things happen to you), or you expect things to be bad all the time...you will then "will it on yourself" and sabatoge your own life...accept things as they come, don't predetermine what's going to happen...laugh & think positive, the mind is very powerful and we are who we think we are....love like you've never loved before (especially yourself, when you enjoy yourself and the company you keep, you will then be able to love others....

look for all the positive parts in life you can find, eventually, see the good that comes from the bad....it will become who you are...and darlin, there isn't anything you can't do when you put your mind to it...might take a lot of work, years of work, but no one but you can accomplish your dreams...

don't look to others to take care of you or for happiness, you take carea you and you will never be happy unless you learn your own needs and desires...don't accept a free ride from anyone, work to accomplish...and don't be afraid to get your hands dirty, as there is no job demeaning to character...experience builds character, and any job you do, will take you to the next level...humble you and help you to realize where you belong in life's path...

Love to you, hope you enjoyed the music and the cry...

and hope you realize your place and significance in life...it's a great one, yanno?

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