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Nan
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since 1999-05-20
Posts 21191Cape Cod Massachusetts USA 
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I’ve just spoken to Sharon. She asked me to let you all know what’s been going on this week. This has been a very difficult few days for her. Four days ago – Wednesday 9/10… Her son, Todd, had a very severe auto accident as he was driving to work. Todd has just now been taken out of intensive care and has a private hospital room, so she felt she could begin to share some of the details with you, her Passionate friends. On the freeway, en route to Vancouver, Todd skidded on a wet oil slick and lost control of his little sports car. He spun around and hit a pole on the passenger side of the vehicle, buckling it into an “L” shape that came within inches of killing him. Sharon herself was supposed to have been in the passenger seat, but had thankfully changed her mind at the last moment. Todd has multiple external abrasions that have been stitched up, but his primary injury is to his brain. The front of his brain has actually been bruised on both the left and right sides, affecting his cognitive ability, decision-making, and his personality. This is far more severe than a simple concussion. No two head trauma incidences are alike, so there’s no way of predicting the outcome. His injury may be temporary or permanent… It may result in mild or severe cognitive limitations. It’s too soon to tell. All that Sharon can say at this point is that it’ll involve several months of rehabilitation. Todd is sleeping more than not at this point – Not what the doctors want to see. They want him ambulatory ASAP to stimulate healing. If you can imagine this, Sharon threw a bit of a calculated tantrum in the hospital to ensure Todd’s being treated by the best doctor in the city (who was reportedly unavailable). She won, of course…  Although he’s aware of his family around him, Todd does have difficulty thinking. He can’t make decisions or think clearly. He’s had trouble remembering details and hasn’t been able to assimilate his place in his own family. He definitely wants “Mom” to be there beside him. Sharon is on autopilot, my friends. We all know that Todd is her world. She’s doing what moms do in cases like this. She’s taken up a bedside vigil and certainly hasn’t been able to do much else. She’s not the “prayerful” type, but surely will accept any and all prayers and well wishes that we can muster up. I’d say that’s a pretty Passionate lot, wouldn’t you? Here’s number one… God be with him, Sharon… He'll get well...  Loveya Nancy |
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Poet deVine
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Member Seraphic
since 1999-05-26
Posts 22612Hurricane Alley |
My prayers are added here. I know we all want to let her know how we're feeling but I've avoided emailing her so she won't have to worry about answering until she's ready. I'm just here if she needs me.... I know he's going to be fine. God answers prayers and there a so many being sent to Him about Todd. I'm also praying for his wife, Brenda, and their girls. It's hard for the whole family at this time. Thanks Nan... |
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Denise
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Member Seraphic
since 1999-08-22
Posts 22648 |
They have my paryers and well wishes for a full and speedy recovery for Todd and for rest and peace of mind for Sharon. (((HUGS))) Thanks for sharing this with us, Nan. (((HUGS))) |
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Nightshade 
since 2001-08-31
Posts 13962just out of reach |
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Enchantress Member Empyrean
since 2001-08-14
Posts 35113Canada eh. |
Prayers for Todd and well wishes for Sharon are on the way. We do have a very powerful prayer circle here..as many have seen.. and many prayers have been answered. We must think postively..I know Sharon will be. Take care dear lady..stay close to your son Todd now. Thank you Nan for letting us know.. and please keep us updated. |
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nakdthoughts Member Laureate
since 2000-10-29
Posts 19200Between the Lines |
Sharon, I so wish I could reach you to tell you how much your words to me meant and the prayers and the thoughts on dealing with tragedies...and my sister. I will be thinking of your son and you and I know the strength you have will see you through all of this. There are days when I am really down,but when I am, I will do double the praying for your family and mine...  Maureen |
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Marge Tindal
since 1999-11-06
Posts 42384Florida's Foreverly Shores |
I have most certainly lifted Todd's name in prayer vigil~ Sincerely~ ~*Marge*~ ~*When the heart grieves over what it has lost, |
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KristieSue
since 2003-01-31
Posts 1460PA, US |
It's an awful thing to go through...God Bless their family. My prayers are with them. "Vision without action is a daydream. Action without vision is a nightmare." -Japanese Proverb |
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Dark Angel Member Patricius
since 1999-08-04
Posts 10095 |
Sharon... my prayers and thoughts are with Todd, yourself and your family. Thanks for letting us know Nan. Maree. |
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serenity blaze Member Empyrean
since 2000-02-02
Posts 27738 |
No words will do Sharon. But you know I am praying. Love you lady. |
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Balladeer
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Member Empyrean
since 1999-06-05
Posts 25505Ft. Lauderdale, Fl USA |
Sharon, I wish I were close enough to give you a big hug. Know that I'm doing it in my mind. My prayers are definitely headed your way and I know that you, being you, will accept nothing less than a complete recovery! I'm here for you, my friend  |
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Honeybee Member Ascendant
since 1999-12-26
Posts 5372Ontario, CANADA |
Thank you for informing us Nan. And Sharon  My prayers and thoughts are with you, your son and your family. |
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vlraynes Member Rara Avis
since 2000-07-25
Posts 8229Somewhere... out there... |
Yes...constant prayers and lots of love. |
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Sunshine
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Member Empyrean
since 1999-06-25
Posts 63354Listening to every heart |
Sharon, you know we've been there since day one...there's nothing you can't ask...and miracles to behold. There is a certain strength in numbers, and you've got them. |
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Trillium
since 2001-03-09
Posts 12098Idaho, USA |
Dear Sharon: I didn't know what had happened until today, but I am praying from now on for Todd and for the rest of your family, yourself included. I'm so sorry to learn of what you are going through. You will be in my thoughts every day! My oldest son had to have surgery on Friday and my husband dislocated his knee on Tuesday, so I have not been able to spend much time here. will try to check in every day now. Love Betty Lou Betty Lou Hebert |
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DawnG
since 2000-06-23
Posts 1494United States |
Sharon, You have tried to be there for so many including myself when we needed someone. Please know that now my friend, I am here praying for you and your son, Todd as well as his family. Dawn |
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Krawdad Member Elite
since 2001-01-03
Posts 2597 |
Sharon, So very sorry to hear about this. I wish we could send a delegation to provide support. You know that all of us here are thinking about you and hoping for the best for your son. Be thankful that you can be there for him now. e |
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Miah Senior Member
since 2002-08-26
Posts 1062Pennsylvania |
Sharon, my prayers are with you and your son. Your strength with keep him strong. God bless you both. |
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Earth Angel Member Empyrean
since 2002-08-27
Posts 40215Realms of Light |
I'm praying that when the swelling subsides, Todd will bounce back good as new. My love and well-wishes to Sharon and her family. This must be a very difficult time for them all and I will keep them all in my prayers. Love & Healing Light, Linda |
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Midnitesun
since 2001-05-18
Posts 28647Gaia |
Oh my, I just now read this, and am stunned. I will keep Sharon and Todd, and his wife and two daughters in my thoughts. [This message has been edited by Midnitesun (09-16-2003 10:15 AM).] |
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Martie
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Member Empyrean
since 1999-09-21
Posts 28049California |
Sharon..you know you and your son and family are in my thoughts and I have seen Passion's prayers at work. Thank you, Nan for posting this. |
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MorninGlory Member
since 2003-08-30
Posts 175Oklahoma |
Sharon, you and your family are in my prayers, may God bless all of you by helping Todd recover from his injuries. ~ becky |
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HopeS Member Elite
since 2000-12-22
Posts 4596Perth Western Australia |
know prayers and thoughts are with you and Todd and hope everything gets better say by day hugs Hope |
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Local Rebel Member Ascendant
since 1999-12-21
Posts 5767Southern Abstentia |
mine as well shalom |
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Mysteria
since 2001-03-07
Posts 18328British Columbia, Canada |
 This is my son, his wife, and two girls. I can't thank all of you enough for these kinds words, and tonight I think I needed to see these. Today was the 4th day after his accident, and according to the doctor the very worst in this type of accident, as it was the "peak swelling" day. Todd was in severe pain, and extremely withdrawn today. He is having cognitive troubles and drifts in and out of making sense, and can't seem to stay awake at all, and this is not good. Tomorrow they will try to keep him awake longer somehow, and get him up to the chair or on a walker. Bruising a brain is serious business, and it is going to take some time to get him back to us the way he was I am sure, but I have my entire lifetime to wait, and so does his family and we are positive he will make it back. I am hopeful with this new doctor he will progress much faster. He does have CT scans every day and sometimes twice a day to make sure the swelling is at least the same, or going down, as well as MRI's. I just wish someone would say something really positive, well maybe tomorrow. Next week some of his stitches will come out so less bandages, etc. will be nice. Again, thank you so kindly, and I will see that my daughter-in-love sees these lovely prayers and thoughts too, as she too has a large circle of friends praying for Todd. Kacy - Todd is going to be 100% you just watch! Maureen - You hang in there you hear, and love that sister all you can, even if she says to go away!  [This message has been edited by Mysteria (09-15-2003 02:31 AM).] |
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Trillium
since 2001-03-09
Posts 12098Idaho, USA |
Sharon: What a beautiful family! Thanks so much for posting the picture. It's nice to have faces to fit into the prayers. How are you doing? You have had a recent illness I know and this is such a shock! Prayers are very powerful and there are so many praying now, it will surely bring about the miracle Todd needs. Love Betty Lou Betty Lou Hebert [This message has been edited by Trillium (09-15-2003 01:46 AM).] |
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Mistletoe Angel
since 2000-12-17
Posts 32816Portland, Oregon |
  (tears fall down my cheeks) Oh Sharon, we all send angel healing hugs to you, Todd, and your whole family and his whole family, dearest friend! (wipes tears) I can't even begin to imagine the pain he must be in, but I also have faith deep down with all my heart your loving boy will be healed 100% real soon because God and His angels are guiding Him everyday as they do with you and all your loved ones and like my grandma tells me, "Broken wings will mend in time, and the little bird shall fly again!" This I promise you! (wipes tears) God Bless You, dearest Sharon, you are a true angel of a mother and friend and Todd will be in all our thoughts and prayers as he heals, you deserve extra special angel friendship hugs! (sends extra special angel hugs) We're always here for you if you need a shoulder or someone to talk to, God Bless You! I just saw your picture of Todd's beautiful family too! God Bless Them all! Love, Noah Eaton I don't need no proof when it comes to God and truth I can see the sun set and I perceive ***Live*** [This message has been edited by Mistletoe Angel (09-15-2003 02:46 AM).] |
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Justbleu Member Elite
since 1999-08-31
Posts 3329Oregon, Originally From Alaska :) |
Dear Sharon I will keep You, Todd, and your family in my thoughts and prayers That is a beautiful picture Sharon!!!!! Take Care!!!!!!!!! HUGS, Bridgette |
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Kit McCallum
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Member Laureate
since 2000-04-30
Posts 14774Ontario, Canada |
whenever, however, whatever I can do to help. Prayers on this end for Todd are a constant. Please tell Brenda, Tori and Tasha that they are in my thoughts as well (Bandit too). And what a beautiful picture! Love you bunches my friend. [This message has been edited by Kit McCallum (09-15-2003 06:43 AM).] |
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hoot_owl_rn Member Patricius
since 1999-07-05
Posts 10750Glen Hope, PA USA |
Dear friend, please add my prayers into this lot and know you are in my thoughts hugs |
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Sunshine
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Member Empyrean
since 1999-06-25
Posts 63354Listening to every heart |
Keeping the circle rounded, my dear... |
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Mysteria
since 2001-03-07
Posts 18328British Columbia, Canada |
 ~* THANK YOU AND BLESS YOU ALL *~ Everyone has been simply so supportive and I truly thank you all for your cards, and notes in email. Now our long road will begin as Todd is coming out of the hospital today to my house for his recovery. I live close to a hospital in case I run into trouble so this works for our entire family. My daughter-in-love has her hands full with two little girls coming and going, and will visit whenever she wishes, but Todd actually needs total rest right now, and try that with two little girls who love their Daddy, a possessive dog, and tons of stairs (which he can't climb right now.) I intend to spoil him rotten while I have him here that's for sure! Todd's cognitive skills are not where they should be but I am being trained on how to work with him today by the psychotherapist. The lady from Red Cross comes shortly to give me some pointers, and various aids for his care he will need to function over the next few weeks. Todd's sense of humor is intact and although he has trouble walking and keeping his focus right now, this too will change with time, some help, lots of love, and rest. So...he is coming home and he is alive, that is all we care about. We truly thank GOD for his hand in all of this.  Carpe' DiemThe Canuck, Sharon [This message has been edited by Mysteria (09-16-2003 06:36 PM).] |
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skyshine
since 2002-02-07
Posts 3058Beneath the northern stars |
Todd and everyone will be in my prayers too! He has a beautiful family. I'll pray for him that he will be well soon.  ~Elizabeth Dreams last for so long, even after you're gone... |
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Titia Geertman Member Ascendant
since 2001-05-07
Posts 5182Netherlands |
Oh dear and I didn't see this at all. I've already written to you Sharon, hang in there girl, you're in my thoughts, all of you. Hugs, Titia Like scattered leaves...my words will flow |
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NewEnglandlazurlu Member Rara Avis
since 2002-01-04
Posts 7470A Mountain Paradise |
Sharon, We are adding our prayers and thoughts to everyone else's and know together we will storm Heaven in Todd's name. We are also praying you his wife and the girls and a special one for you sweet friend. Love you lots, Marti and Ron Hear Blessings dropping their blossoms all around you. |
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Sunshine
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Member Empyrean
since 1999-06-25
Posts 63354Listening to every heart |
Let's see...how many days before Todd says, "Mom, quit nagging me, please!!!" Todd is in wonderful hands...God, and Yours. He doesn't dare STRAY.... |
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Trillium
since 2001-03-09
Posts 12098Idaho, USA |
Sharon: Some prayers have already been answered! In time, all the others will be too. You will all, always be in mine, daily! Thanks for letting us know how things are progressing! Love Betty Lou Betty Lou Hebert |
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SEA
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Member Seraphic
since 2000-01-18
Posts 22676with you |
Sharon, thanks for letting me know that all the info on this was here, I didn't know, and only found out with your email....my heart goes to you and yours, but you know that. Prayers have been said, and I will continue with them. My love to you and yours, Susan |
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Richy Member Elite
since 2003-05-03
Posts 3050 |
Oh Sharon, I am so sad to hear of this. My 19 year old son was in an accident in May. Flipping his car twice. Thank God he was OK. It is so promising to see you write, “He is coming home, and he is alive.” Wow, what a tremendously wonderful thing that is to say, for a parent of child. I know, that this is just the beginning of improved health and ever positive progress for your dear son Todd. Your son, and your entire family will constantly be in my thoughts and prayers. And hopefully with the loving support of your family and friends, you will be able to help your son, like I’m sure you always have, during this most difficult time. I am so hopeful, that everything will be OK. God Bless You, And Your Entire Family Sharon. Please keep us posted. With My Deepest Sympathy, Richy |
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Gentle Spirit Member Patricius
since 2000-10-09
Posts 13989 |
Sharon, my prayers have been with you and your family and whether we each individually are big on praying or not, I KNOW prayer helps from my own experiences in the past. We might not always get exactly what we want, but God does take care of his precious children. Ever present, is my faith and prayers for Todds quick recovery. Hugs to you and yours. |
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Margherita Member Seraphic
since 2003-02-08
Posts 22236Eternity |
Dear Sharon, my heart goes out to you and to your son Todd. I hold you in my heartprayers. May Universal Healing Energy flow through Todd's body and restore his health. I trust in God's infinite Love and Healing Power. Your love and determination will do miracles. Sending you much love and light. God bless you and your family. Margherita |
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garysgirl
since 2002-09-29
Posts 19237Florida, USA |
Sharon, I didn't know this was back here, either. When I got my e-mail from you, I decided to look. As I told you in my reply, My thoughts and prayers are with you and Todd and his family. We know that prayer works and the Passions prayer circle is very strong. I'm believing that Todd is going to have complete recovery. With love and hugs for you all, Ethel |
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Mysteria
since 2001-03-07
Posts 18328British Columbia, Canada |
Hi everyone, this is Todd, living as large as one possibly could with Sharon at your hands and feet. LOL Thanks so much for the kind words and I hope they speed me along to a fast recovery. I had to meet with specialists who are trying to match my brains with the kind of questions it would take to have a job like that. Looks like I will be here until next week, then trying to figure out what kind of car to get next, then back to chaos! thanks again all !!!! Todd imagine a Candy Apple Red version of a 300 TwinTurbo Nissan sports car wrapped around a cement and steel pole coming straight across from the passenger side: Aside from my brain being a little shocked, bruised and confused, I only have a few scratches to show for it. My staff took a poll to see what car I should get to replace the 300 TwinTurbo. Mercedes/BMW - 70% SUV/Midside - 14% something safe - 10% something fast!- 10% something else- 6% LOL [This message has been edited by Mysteria (09-17-2003 11:22 PM).] |
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littlewing Member Rara Avis
since 2003-03-02
Posts 9655New York |
Sharon, prayers for you and your son and family . . . God watches out for all of us He surely will not forget one of his angels and hoping you do get your wish Sue xxoo |
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Midnitesun
since 2001-05-18
Posts 28647Gaia |
 TODD! your mom and wife and kids might vote for a Sherman Tank next time. LOL, it's good to see this post from you! Be prepared to get six healthy meals a day from MOM, and she will no doubt ask you to eat 3 times the daily recommended requirement of fresh fruits and veggies. LOL(I think I see Sharon laughing from the kitchen.) [This message has been edited by Midnitesun (09-18-2003 09:40 AM).] |
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Larry C
since 2001-09-10
Posts 10286United States |
Dearest Sharon, In spite of all I have experienced I cannot imagine what you are going through. May God grant healing, courage and hope. And know that you are constantly on my mind. |
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Mysteria
since 2001-03-07
Posts 18328British Columbia, Canada |
Hi everyone! I have a really bad memory due to surgery a number of years ago, so I keep all my passwords in a book by my computer, I see Todd found it and posted to this site and this thread last night. I had showed him this earlier in the evening, and went for a nap (as I thought he had), so I guess he got on this computer while I snoozed. Don't let him fool you - he has one good day, and one really bad one. Yesterday was a good day, and today is not as good, but time will change it all. He won't be driving a vehicle for a long, long time they say due to his cognitive skill level at this particular time, but if he is Kacy, a tank is what I would want I so appreciate all your kind thoughts for him and our entire family. I am changing my password today, to keep him off this site, but am glad he did get to thank you all. This is so hard to deal with, as I knew my son in a totally different light than I see him in now, but time will change things for the better I hope. I am asking to have this thread closed, but trust me I do appreciate all the kindness you all have shown, and have printed out your kind responses for him to see later on. Again, thank you all so much for being you! |
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Sunshine
Administrator
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since 1999-06-25
Posts 63354Listening to every heart |
Closed at Request of Mysteria...  |
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