Also somebody may sort of 'generalise' it for privacy sake or whatever. It is quite obvious what I was whining about. Not just poetry tributes but the general attitude of people always thinking the worst of someone.
Like I am inspired by my father, say I love him, does that mean I want him?
I am inspired by Sven, we are very close, we write poetry about and for each other, we leave caring, understanding responses does that mean we are in love? No!
I am inspired by an author, love his mind etc, do I love him? No!
But if you speak very highly of men or even women in some cases, people presume you have a 'thing' for them.
One last example. I love Xena Warrior Princess (it is not trash there is a lot of deep underthoughts etc if watched properly) and I am quite inspired by a character in the series named Eli. He was like Jesus but earlier in time. I have a wallpaper of him on my computer, I wrote down his quotes, put his sound quotes on the computer, wrote a few poems about him and the fictional Isis, now my husband says and believes I am in love with him. Again? Can't you be inspired by someone, want little reminders without it being construed as a crush? Ok it could be my hubby is insecure that is one account, but it doesn't account for all the others who presume the same thing...
And that is what wearyed me and why I whinged, for people ARE generally to quick to judge, or assume wrong about other people.
It is in our nature to destroy ourselves.... and this example is tinder...
*I believe every time you put your words to paper, you change. Each feeling is set free, and you may follow.....*
~Isis~~Sovereign of the Spirit.