This touches me on a very personal level
and I read so many different types of pain in it. If this is about you, then I would offer, rely on yourself, your strength, and know that you are beautiful. If not about you, then please let this person know that they are beautiful too.
We are here, listening. I have had the displeasure of dealing with many of these issues in my life and in the lives of those I love.
If I am not overstepping my bounds, I would share something with you that I shared with someone very close to me in real life.
From a song, "it's better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for who your not"
If you ever need an ear, I'm just an email away.