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All My Friends Have Gone To God
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All My Friends Have Gone To God |
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Suetang Member Ascendant
since 2001-03-07
Posts 5187Melbourne, Australia 
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 Would you like to see a picture? It was taken so long ago That's me there in the middle Amongst some friends I used to know Now, let's see, where were we? I can't remember what I was saying Sometimes my mind deceives me I'm tired of the games it's playing People seldom come to visit Most days move far too slow As I look through these photographs Of the people I used to know All my friends have gone to God And I am in his waiting room My first class flight to heaven It should be sometime soon Would you like to see a picture? It was taken so long ago That's me there in the middle Amongst some friends I used to know * * * I am a volunteer carer for the elderly and I visit an 84 year old lady in her home and have been doing so for the past year.She has the early stages of dementia and over time I have watched her get progressively worse.During our weekly conversations she often tells me that all her friends have gone to God which really saddens me. Dementia ~ A chronic or persistent medical disorder characterized by loss of memory and forgetfulness. I am in motion |
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Margherita Member Seraphic
since 2003-02-08
Posts 22236Eternity |
Thank you Sue for sharing this compassionate poem, very beautiful, yet sad. At this Lady's age it's certainly true that some friends have gone ahead on the Heavenly Path that we shall all walk! Time for memories .... Love, Margherita |
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miscellanea Member Elite
since 2004-06-24
Posts 4060OH |
Sue, This is a most touching poem. My mother's mind is very good at 82, so good that she can count how many have gone and how many of her school mates are left. The other day we were looking at her class picture from about the 5th grade. She knew of all the details and had memories of each. It was extremely sad to listen to her count them down. Obviously, I can relate to your poem! Thank you for posting it. It's good to know others who are concerned about aging. Take care. miscellanea |
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Magnus
since 2001-10-10
Posts 14135South Carolina, USA |
Sue, I know of your feelings. I watched my grandmother decline over a period of about two years, eventually reaching a stage of life where she no longer knew who I was. It was a heartbreaking feeling....and she watched all her friends, her husband and both of her children go to God before she finally went there herself...It is sad, a part of life we must endure. Thank you for giving us a part of you that is so priceless and should be cherished for all time. Barry |
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JamesMichael Member Empyrean
since 1999-11-16
Posts 33336Kapolei, Hawaii, USA |
Soft tender words you have shared...time to make some new friends...James |
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iliana Member Patricius
since 2003-12-05
Posts 13434USA |
How well I know this feeling, Sue. My grandmother and my mother both owned nursing/retirement homes when I was young. And now, as my own mother ages and most of her friends are already gone, I am reminded of just how short life really is. Nice poem. You have such a giving, lovely heart, Sue.  ....jo |
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Suetang Member Ascendant
since 2001-03-07
Posts 5187Melbourne, Australia |
Thank you all for your heartfelt comments which mean a great deal to me. Take care........Sue I am in motion |
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Susan Member Ascendant
since 2004-03-27
Posts 5104walking the surreal |
Sue, this really speaks to my heart, which holds most tender for the elderly. Would that we once again lived in a world where years were revered and the wisdom of those who have seen so much was sought.  SusanHappiness isn't something that happens to you, it's created from within you. Joy is a state of mind. |
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Martie
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Member Empyrean
since 1999-09-21
Posts 28049California |
Sue This poem speaks of your compassionate heart, as well as the life of your friend. I think it must be the kind of friendship that is good for you both. |
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Startime55 Member Elite
since 2003-04-05
Posts 2148Alberta, Canada |
This poem touches the heart and soul...I am glad this lady has someone with such a loving heart to care for her...Your compassion and love shines through your words...**hugs** |
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passing shadows Member Empyrean
since 1999-08-26
Posts 45577displaced |
how touching...you are all heart |
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Suetang Member Ascendant
since 2001-03-07
Posts 5187Melbourne, Australia |
Your words brought tears to my eyes. This lady is very special to me and I often sit and read poetry to her and she really seems to enjoy that. It is so very true that it is the simple things that make all the difference. Take care........Sue I am in motion |
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Marsha
since 2000-07-10
Posts 7423Maidstone Kent England |
Sue dearest heart sister, oh my word how special this poem is darling one. Everything you write is amazing, this is a true gift, but then I believe your kind heart is a gift to those around you. I’m so rarely here, but when I do slip in I always seek out a poem by you, for your writing is truly inspirational and uplifting. I love it utterly. The poem is truly wonderful as are you, exceptional writing from one of PiP’s most talented writers. as always Mushy    Tomorrow is another day I don't know what it holds |
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Toerag Member Ascendant
since 1999-07-29
Posts 5622Ala bam a |
Sue....what a wonderful write...so well said.....I rarely reply to anything without being a smart assed toerag...but this time I do.... |
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Earth Angel Member Empyrean
since 2002-08-27
Posts 40215Realms of Light |
Not only is your poetry caring ~ you walk your talk and live your life in a loving manner. The elderly are so often ignored and not heard. Even tho' her mind may be slowly deteriorating, there is still beauty and poetry in her soul ~ and you listen.  God bless you both! Linda  |
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Sunshine
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Member Empyrean
since 1999-06-25
Posts 63354Listening to every heart |
Such a compassionate write, Sue... I know several who remark on your very apt title... |
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Ericc Member Elite
since 2003-01-31
Posts 4178 |
A very moving and touching write. Thank you. Eric |
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GG Member Elite
since 2002-12-03
Posts 3532Lost in thought |
You have such compassion, Sue. There are 7 elderly folks I used to look after. All were in my family, and I was young, but still learned to give them their shots, hook up oxygen tanks, ride my bike to the nursing home and help change their bedpans. All 7 are gone now. I remember after watching her last two siblings and her husband die within two yearsof eachother, my great aunt just cried, and cried, and within a couple months, she died too. They were really my best friends (I was always a strange kid) and I always wanted to spend the rest of my life being a friend to those who'd lost everyone they knew. Still plan on working in a nursing home to this day. Sorry, I had to share... and I'm so glad that you did. This is beautiful and tender... Always, Alyssa Poems are made by fools like me, |
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Suetang Member Ascendant
since 2001-03-07
Posts 5187Melbourne, Australia |
Once again I am totally overwhelmed by your marvellous responses. This was so very close to my heart and something that I felt the need to write about. GG - you would be such a valuable addition to any nursing home and you have the kindest of hearts. Thank you all from the bottom of my heart. Take care.........Sue I am in motion |
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suthern
since 1999-07-29
Posts 20723Louisiana |
A good friend told me this was one I couldn't miss... I'm so glad I listened!! This is so beautiful, so compassionate... It's one that will reside in my heart as well as my library. *S* |
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Titia Geertman Member Ascendant
since 2001-05-07
Posts 5182Netherlands |
WOW, these words went straight to my heart, what a warmhearted poem you've written about a subject almost everyone will meet one way or other in his/her life. Titia Like scattered leaves...my words will flow |
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SmartChick Member Rara Avis
since 2001-09-23
Posts 7081On A Journey To The Unknown |
This is a sad, but beautiful poem, Sue. I work with the dementia and alzhiemers. Thank you for posting this. |
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Toerag Member Ascendant
since 1999-07-29
Posts 5622Ala bam a |
Susie...can I copy this and give to my Pastor?...Long before he was a minister, he was almost as Toeraggish as me....we did alot of wild schtuff together...he went on to become a great preacher....I turned out a prime subject to be preached too...but, his mother has dementia....and I'd love to give this to him.... |
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CastleGuard Senior Member
since 2003-04-30
Posts 760Alberta, Canada |
Very touching, heartfelt picture you have painted, Sue. Beautifuly done, with sensitivity, and care. CG |
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Suetang Member Ascendant
since 2001-03-07
Posts 5187Melbourne, Australia |
I am totally overwhelmed but the response to this and so very grateful for all the wonderful comments. Toerag - I'd be honoured if you were to share this with your Pastor. Take care........Sue I am in motion |
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dinky Member
since 2002-10-19
Posts 258 |
this was sad, but very touching "UH de nah nah nah..." |
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ethome Member Patricius
since 2000-05-14
Posts 11858New Brunswick Canada |
Sue This is so very touching....I'm glad I had the chance to read it. Eric |
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