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VAS
Member Rara Avis
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0 posted 2003-07-11 12:51 PM



Alzheimers’  Victim

one day
her thoughts are keen
her wit is sharp

the next...

she faces me with a blank stare;
asks, “How do I get home?”

one day she finds her clothes and they go on
easily
the next
she only has “the clothes on her back”
there are no more to be found

she looks at her pants
“Do I put these on?”
One leg goes in,
the other seems to disagree,
or maybe it’s that she can’t recall
whether she is dressing or undressing

simple tasks
are mountains
washing her hands, mind-boggling

finding her way into her bed
a challenge of Olympic proportion

we lower it
making it more accessible
I ask, “How did your bed sleep last night, now that we lowered it?”

It’s a good day! She replies, “I don’t know how  my bed  slept!”
Laughter spills from both of our lips and our hearts.
Good days are good.

©July 10, 2003

Whether on the shoal or on the shore,
I'll seek the lighthouse evermore.

© Copyright 2003 Virginia Salter - All Rights Reserved
Midnitesun
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1 posted 2003-07-11 12:58 PM


Yes, they sure are. I do understand this, having worked with someone with Alzheimers who used to sing to me almost every time I visited him, but never remembered my name, even after four years.
And the good days for him became good for everyone.  

ecrivan
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2 posted 2003-07-11 01:03 AM


had an aunt who found her way to St Joseph's Oratory in Montreal and had no clue how she got there...but we have to enjoy our loved ones through the good and the bad..good to read you again


Bonnie j
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3 posted 2003-07-11 08:21 AM


My mom had Alzheimers'and Parkinsons'. Yes she had good days and bad days. So hard to watch. One day we were sitting at the table and I was crying not knowing which way to turn and just for a little while her mind cleared. She said, "Oh honey please don't cry." Then she looked at me and said. "Please don't hate me for the things I do cuase I love you with all my heart." Then her mind was gone once again.

Paul Wilson
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4 posted 2003-07-11 09:37 AM


VAS~~~ A very touching poem. This disease that robs our memory is so terrible. Thanks for sharing. I wrote one on this topic and would like to share it with you, as you have shared your's with us...Paul

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