In your dreams
With much thought I came up with an conclusion. Truth is a fact It is either right or wrong, occasionly gray. When the truth is said whether or not its right or wrong it's up to you or I to decide. Words are only words, but the truth no matter how painful is right, only if it carries the message conveyed. You see the human mind can chose whats right or wrong. Sometimes the mind makes mistakes, then a lie occurs. Lies start other lies and end up hurting more poeple then the truth ever did. No matter what you did saying or changig throuh words what really didn't happens hurts you and others and forms a mistrust. The truth can hurt to ose who have been lying to them selves, hearing it can make them insecure.
You see it doesn't matter what poeple say, you shpould look at it in a pausitive matter and build your character. Some times poeple can say things to hurt poeple that are the truth, bt they are really lying to thm selves.
ex.-this is not a real senario
"J, your so fat you could sink the ss ann" said H
"No I am not My mom says I am "Healthy"" Said J
Now H is an athletic A student and J is and average letter grade student that is forty pounds over weight. (which is actually she is a little taller.not that badly over weight ) Both are lying to them selves. H wants to prove she is in better shape and 'cooler' by teasing her. She wants to know she is thin or good enuff. J is lying to her self because she is over weight. But not enugh over weight where she should of cared. Her mistake was litting the other girl belittle her. If you work on you charecter from what other poeple say it helps you from believing what they say because" the truth lets you free" If J where to start exercizing at a healthy rate, extravert, do volinteer work and try to be the best person she can there would be no doubt her mind or reason to lie to her self.
Lieing destroys who you are as a person and the inside is the most important part of you.
Trying to be the best person yopu can be is the third most important thing in your life and the only way to do that is to build on your self by listening to what everyone has to say; at the same time remembering who you really are. Trying to hurting others destroys your self-image. I assume many "Ironic" out comes may result from this.
lots of loive
P.s. It nstill could be built on.