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She Hurts When Others Hurt
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She Hurts When Others Hurt |
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garysgirl  
since 2002-09-29
Posts 19237Florida, USA 
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 "Peace" from Webshots *~~*~~* She finds herself hurting and sad when someone else has trouble Always wants to be there for them tries to be there on the double But of late she seems to be letting others problems get her down Some people seem so hard to help or this is what she has found Each time this happens to her she says again she will not get involved Then when next time they seek her help she tries to help their problems to solve She can not solve the worlds problems many times she has been told But all someone has to do is to ask her and their hand she will be there to hold Many times she has found that when some people to her talk All they want is a good listener so they can decide which path they will walk They do not really want her opinions about the circumstances of life they tell Oft times she has no idea what to say so to listen suits her well So no matter how she worries about the others problem When they ask she will be there to help find their own way to solve them *~~*~~* [This message has been edited by garysgirl (05-30-2003 01:31 PM).] |
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Patricia Member Elite
since 2003-04-06
Posts 2160Missouri |
You are very right about this Ethel. I think that is what most people want...just an ear. I have this friend...you can read a little bit about him in the poem, "Dear Reader, Please Advise." He tries to help, but of late he just wants to control my whole life...thinking he can make everything better. All I want is a little support and empathy, but he has these plans for me. One of which includes giving up my poetry. Well, I let him know that I need to do what is best for me. And giving up that part of me is an impossibility. So, yes, my friend, continue to lend your ear...but do not allow the world's problems to consume you. It is very nice you that you care...but you must also care for yourself, as well. If their problems are wearing at you, you need to step back for awhile. Patricia |
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Decaflame Senior Member
since 2001-05-11
Posts 1635 |
Where would we be, Ethel, if this type of person did not exist? We need people just as she, sometimes a he, who know when to reach out, and touch someone... Thank you Ethel...for the touch. |
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QjQ Member Elite
since 2003-04-18
Posts 3756U.S.A. |
yes it's always nice to have someone to listen to our lifes events. and sometimes comment and sometimes not. gMt |
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Marge Tindal
since 1999-11-06
Posts 42384Florida's Foreverly Shores |
OhEthel~ You could have named this one 'Reflections In The Mirror Of ME' ... for I see myself so clearly herein~ It's all about reaching out and touching~ You do so admirably~ *Huglets* for a wonderful write~ ~*Marge*~ ~*The pen of the poet never runs out of ink, as long as we breathe.*~ |
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Nightshade
since 2001-08-31
Posts 13962just out of reach |
Ethel, you are so right here. We all need someone to lean on at times. But, we shouldn't lean too hard, nor should we become "over involved"...I sometimes tend to do this. I worry too much about friends and family.....lost pets....fledling birds....baby squirrels...lol...I think you know what I mean. Great write. Chris  "Hope" is the thing with feathers- |
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passing shadows Member Empyrean
since 1999-08-26
Posts 45577displaced |
beautiful and true |
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the_loner_23 Member Ascendant
since 2002-06-08
Posts 5479Jacksonville, Florida, USA |
This poem sounds a lot like me. My friend Marci calls me just to talk about her problems and I sit there and listen and give advice where I can give it. Very thruthful poem here. Cold hands means a warm heart |
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Enchantress Member Empyrean
since 2001-08-14
Posts 35113Canada eh. |
I know exactly what you mean Ethel... Well said...Bravo! ~Smiles & Hugs, Nancy~ ~Somewhere in my heart I'm always |
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ThisDiamond Member Rara Avis
since 2002-02-22
Posts 9353Michigan, USA |
The picture was stunning, the picture you conveyed even more brilliant. Hugs, TD |
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JamesMichael Member Empyrean
since 1999-11-16
Posts 33336Kapolei, Hawaii, USA |
Very nice...and I hope she also has someone that will listen to her when she needs some support...James |
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Ericc Member Elite
since 2003-01-31
Posts 4178 |
Poignantly beautiful. Eric |
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Mistletoe Angel
since 2000-12-17
Posts 32816Portland, Oregon |
 (big hugggssssssss) God Bless You, sweet friend, I truly believe we should always listen, and at the same time when one doesn't want to be helped and wants to get through the situation on his or her own, it is best we respect that persons decision and let them handle it, unless of course it was suicide or harm! (sigh) God Bless You, sweet friend, your heart beats with pure compassion, we all love you so much! You have such a beautiful heart, sweet Ethel, thank you for sharing!  May love and light always shine upon you! Love, Noah Eaton Underneath your clothes, there's an endless story |
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nakdthoughts Member Laureate
since 2000-10-29
Posts 19200Between the Lines |
beautiful picture, truthful words... hugss M |
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garysgirl
since 2002-09-29
Posts 19237Florida, USA |
Patricia, thank you for your loving reply. It was full of wisdom. Sometimes people do step in and say thinkgs that they shouldn't. I try very hard not to do that, because I know how sometimes all I need is a listener, not an advisor or counselor. Even though I'm sure that your friend was wanting to help you, I think he may have stepped over the line somewhat, with he started making plans for your life. Thank you for your reply.  Heart Hugs  Ethel [This message has been edited by garysgirl (05-31-2003 06:35 AM).] |
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garysgirl
since 2002-09-29
Posts 19237Florida, USA |
I agree, Decaflame, we do need this type person in the world. Everyone needs help sometimes, even if it's just a caring and listening ear. Thanks for your reply. . . Yes Glenn, it's just hard sometimes to tell if the person wants our opinions or just our caring ear. Thank you for replying. . . Yes, Marge, I can tell by your poetry and replies that you are one who people rely on to listen to them and offer advice when needed. Thank you, sweet Lady, for your reply. . . Yes Chris, I know exactly what you mean. It seems as though I worry about everybody and everything. I worry about the ones here on Passions that leave or are off for a while. I appreciate someone like you, Chris. Thank you for being you. . . I appreciate all of you so very, very much. You are all very nice people to know. Heart hugs to you all, Ethel [This message has been edited by garysgirl (05-31-2003 06:09 AM).] |
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garysgirl
since 2002-09-29
Posts 19237Florida, USA |
Dixie, I'm so glad that you liked it. Thanks for your reply. . . Julie, it's good that you are that kind of person. I know that your friend really appreciates it, too. Thank you for replying to my poem. . . Nancy, yes, I can tell that you know exactly what I mean. I just wish that we could really help everyone who seeks our advice. Don't you? Thank you, Lady. . . Kathleen, thank you so very much. I really do appreciate your sweet words. . . I appreciate you all so very much. Thank you all. Heart Hugs to each of you Ethel [This message has been edited by garysgirl (05-31-2003 06:36 AM).] |
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garysgirl
since 2002-09-29
Posts 19237Florida, USA |
James, oh yes, I do. And one of my best listeners is my best friend...my Honey-Love, my Gary. We talk about everything. We know each other so well that we don't even have to tell the other when something is bothering us. We just know. Thanks for replying. . . Eric, thank you very much. I'm so glad that you liked it. . . Noah, yes, I agree. When someone wants to confide in us we should always listen. It's just hard for me to keep my mouth shut when they seem to be going to make similar mistakes as I have made in the past. I want to persuade them not to make them. But, it is their life, so I just try to listen and not offer advice, unless I'm asked. Thank you for replying. . . Maureen, thank you so much for your sweet reply. I really do appreciate it. . . I appreciate all of you so very much. Thank you every one. Heart hugs Ethel |
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Rick Member Elite
since 2001-06-21
Posts 2903Victoria, Australia |
Ethel, I enjoyed this, aren't we lucky to have such people in the world, the givers of compation, brought to earth to bear the and share the hurts of all man, to always give to only recieve maybe a thank you or another problem. Thank you for sharing this Ethel, see you again soon. Liked the picture as well. Sincerely Rick |
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vandana
since 1999-10-22
Posts 10463USA |
liked this much |
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