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Midnitesun
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0 posted 2002-12-13 11:47 AM



I'm glad I'm not a woman
in Pakistan.
I'm glad I'm not dead
because a man raped me.
I'm glad I'm not a woman
held accountable
for the crimes of my brother.
I'm glad I'm not a woman
tortured for speaking out
against torture and abuse.
I'm glad I'm not a woman
who has to be afraid
of being one.

[This message has been edited by Midnitesun (12-13-2002 11:55 AM).]

© Copyright 2002 Kathleen Kacy Stafford - All Rights Reserved
inkedgoddess
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1 posted 2002-12-13 12:06 PM


Woman is the nigger of the world, yes she is
If you don't believe me, take a look at the one you're with
Woman is the slave of the slaves, yes she is
If you don't believe me, you better scream about it

We make her paint her face and dance

We make her bear and raise our children
And then we leave her flat for being a fat old mother hen
We tell her home is the only place she should be
Then we complain that she's too unworldly to be our friend............john lennon

sums it all up, for me.......your poem just made me go look for this again

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2 posted 2002-12-13 12:06 PM


yes much to be glad for..and much to grieve..

nicely done...we tend to take for granted the freedoms and protections we have.

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3 posted 2002-12-13 12:13 PM


Inked, thank you for diggin and bringing John's lyrics back. Thank you.

Ron, I am constantly grateful. I could have been killed many times over, literally and physically. Our sisters are constantly in danger.

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4 posted 2002-12-13 12:19 PM


AMEN, Kacy...

ME, TOO......



I  LOVE  being WOMAN    

"Love makes the world go around"
~~with love and hugs from Ethel~~  
                  

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5 posted 2002-12-13 12:20 PM



Thank you Kacy.  I do enjoy it
that you are our political spokeswoman.

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6 posted 2002-12-13 12:26 PM


Ethel, thanks, for always being a strong woman.

Sybil, I don't know about that title, for there are so many strong women here who speak out, maybe not always in the same way. Thank you.
My Christmas and New Year's wish? that all women could walk and talk and Love freely. For once women can do this, mankind will be set free of the burden of controlling everyone, and be able to love unconditionally.

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7 posted 2002-12-13 12:55 PM


Absolutely !!!!.....Loved this.


WE need to remember the things we most always take for granted.  

NIce write


~Salty

In the Midst of movement and chaos, keep stillness inside of you.
--Deepak Chop

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8 posted 2002-12-13 01:10 PM


Several years ago I watched a news documentary on the plight of young women in Pakistan...they were being burned with heating oil by members of their husbands' family...the reason being  that their dowery was not large enough...their mothers-in-law carried out most of the attacks...this is just one example of the terrible crimes being committed against women throughout the world...silence is consent...we must never stop speaking out against such things...

believe in what your heart feels...

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9 posted 2002-12-13 01:14 PM


Salty and scorpio, thank you both.
The recent estimate? over 461 women murdered this year alone in Pakistan.
They call them family "honor killings."

If this be honor, please dishonor me and leave me alone.

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10 posted 2002-12-13 01:17 PM


Midnitesun
Freedom is not for free, enjoyed.

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11 posted 2002-12-13 01:24 PM


Thanks for being here, Sy.
Nothing is free, except the opportunity to give respect and freedom and love equally.
It's God's gift to us, to be free.

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12 posted 2002-12-13 03:51 PM


Midnite as I read it those John lyrics came to mind but inked beat me to them (figures).
Unfortunately I know two women who haven't been so lucky in life and i know how deep the scars run. I hope they and you know that while the world can be terribly brutal and hostile not all men would have it this way. I feel there pain too and as a child of a single mother I know the burdens you all can bear. Take care and thank you for sharing poignant words


raph

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13 posted 2002-12-13 03:53 PM


Raphael, your heart is much too loving and kind to be hostile to another living creature. Thank you, dear friend, for being so gentle and human.
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14 posted 2002-12-13 04:32 PM


Like many places on this earth, a dreadfully wretched place for women. I pray for them every day.

Hugs, Marti

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15 posted 2002-12-13 09:45 PM




(big hugggssssssss) You know, one of my absolute favorite poems of all time is all about celebration of being a woman: Maya Angelou's "Phenominal Woman" (sigh) Though I am not a woman, and may not be able even to understand all that makes a woman special yet, I too admire all women who follow their hearts and be phenominal! (sigh) I only wish this same freedom could fill the hearts of those in less fortunate parts of the world, God Bless You, we all love you so much! You have such a beautiful heart, sweet Kacy, thank you for sharing!



May love and light always shine upon you!

Love,
Noah Eaton

"Underneath your clothes there's an endless story..."

Shakira

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16 posted 2002-12-13 09:55 PM


quote:
My Christmas and New Year's wish? that all women could walk and talk and Love freely. For once women can do this, mankind will be set free of the burden of controlling everyone, and be able to love unconditionally.

And that's
the truth.
Thank you, my dear.

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17 posted 2002-12-13 10:54 PM


Wow, very good. I like it a lot
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18 posted 2002-12-13 11:03 PM




Kacy,

On behalf of all women, thank you for bringing this issue to light. Very sad and there are even more atrosities not mentioned.

Hugs and warm regards, Pat

and, yes we indeed are blessed...

..without surrender, be on good terms with all persons..
        "Desiderata"

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19 posted 2002-12-13 11:52 PM


Kacy,
You have a wonderful woman's voice! And btw, sin sucks!

If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again.

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20 posted 2002-12-13 11:57 PM


I find it unfathomable and nauseating and  my cynical side is buttressed with justification of feeling ashamed to be part of this human race.  I wonder which DNA strand it is in humans that holds such diabolical, degenerative regression...

-MVS

"AS ABOVE SO BELOW"

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21 posted 2002-12-14 12:34 PM


I want to thank each of you for your replies. This is a bitter nasty world in so many ways, and the deaths of these women is an abomination, a curse on mankind.

Mark? If only we could identify and isolate such a strand. I too bow my head in shame and disgust at humanity's inhumanity.

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22 posted 2002-12-14 02:05 AM


Me too........stone truth.
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23 posted 2002-12-14 11:54 AM


Thanks for your words.  It is so sad the flight of these women.  What is sad is it is women all over the globe, even here.
Women should be honored, for women give life.
Too often history shows the woman as the second class person, when in truth many problems men solved because of the love and gentle guidiance of the woman they allow to stand beside them.
Hugs,
Coway

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24 posted 2002-12-14 12:00 PM


RS, thank you, always.

Diane, thanks for your reply. And welcome to Passions, where all hearts are equal and valued for their uniqueness.

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25 posted 2002-12-14 12:44 PM


wonderful words.....concisely put, but packing a punch~! good girl~!

*S*

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26 posted 2002-12-14 09:44 PM


Tone, nice to meet you. Thank you for reading replying.  Hope to see a post from you soon.
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