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Bittersweet Father's Day
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Bittersweet Father's Day |
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Larry C
since 2001-09-10
Posts 10286United States 
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I'm spending the day with the lad, Who, over thirty years ago, made me a dad. We are having so much incredible fun, He makes me so proud that he is my son. It is time to celebrate the living, To him I get to continue with giving. It is a bitterweet thing to say, I love my son, but still miss my girl today. And I know how to keep my priorities straight, Just a few stories of Ginger in memory we relate. Sharing wonderful time with my son is the best. We will maximize whatever time it is we have left. June 17, 2002 |
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serenity blaze Member Empyrean
since 2000-02-02
Posts 27738 |
I've been waiting for you... I knew you would be here. This is my first father's day without my dad. and? I need to thank you, because? it never ocurred to me, that he might miss me too... hands-over-heart-hugs, Larry... love you love |
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ethome Member Patricius
since 2000-05-14
Posts 11858New Brunswick Canada |
Larry This write is indeed bittersweet and I not only read your words but I feel them go through me. I'm so happy for you as you spend time with your son.......My heart is with you as you spend some memory time with Ginger. This is such a sensible write laced with a strength that is motivating to others. Wish you the best my friend! Eric |
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Sunshine
Administrator
Member Empyrean
since 1999-06-25
Posts 63354Listening to every heart |
I knew I would see a strong heart this morning...please know, in a way, I do understand, and feel this along with you... She is watching over you, Larry...please know that...and go hug your son.... |
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Muys Member
since 2002-04-06
Posts 389The Netherlands |
Dear Larry Noboddy can be missing There is a home sickness in our heart to the time before Your son suffert too Now he must fill alone the hole in your heart Be care off him. Love Muys  |
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JamesMichael Member Empyrean
since 1999-11-16
Posts 33336Kapolei, Hawaii, USA |
Excellent writing Larry..James |
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Kit McCallum
Administrator
Member Laureate
since 2000-04-30
Posts 14774Ontario, Canada |
I wish you a loving day of celebration with your son Larry ... and may your heart be full with warm memories for your daughter as well.  Best wishes and hugs on this special day, /Kit |
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Enchantress Member Empyrean
since 2001-08-14
Posts 35113Canada eh. |
Larry, have a good Father's Day... albeit bitter sweet...hug your son.. and remember Ginger Michelle. Love you sweetie~Nancy Lee ~Somewhere in my heart I'm always |
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Janet Marie Member Laureate
since 2000-01-22
Posts 18554 |
You always set the example of class and dignity...grace under pressure... heart-hugs to you dear poet.  jm  You ... |
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Seymour Tabin Member Empyrean
since 1999-07-07
Posts 31720Tamarac Fla |
Larry C, Happy fathers day my friend. Beautiful write. |
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Goodknight Member Elite
since 2002-06-15
Posts 2386Ohio, USA |
Larry - you celebrate with powerful words the wonderful yet bittesweet ambiguity of life. thanks for that. Paul |
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Marge Tindal
since 1999-11-06
Posts 42384Florida's Foreverly Shores |
Larry~ Happy Father's Day~ Sometimes you've just gotta give an extra BIG HUG to those around you, who surround you with love ... and caught in the memory-hug will be your thoughts of Ginger ... *Hugs* ~*Marge*~ ~*The pen of the poet never runs out of ink, as long as we breathe.*~ |
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Martie
Moderator
Member Empyrean
since 1999-09-21
Posts 28049California |
Larry The father in you is strong, yet tender, bless you for the words you render all around see counting smiles in sweet recall and grown up boy |
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RSWells Member Elite
since 2001-06-17
Posts 2533 |
God bless you on the day of mixed emotions. I envy your strength. "Happy people have no history" - French Proverb |
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SmartChick Member Rara Avis
since 2001-09-23
Posts 7081On A Journey To The Unknown |
HAPPY FATHERS DAY |
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Marsha
since 2000-07-10
Posts 7423Maidstone Kent England |
Larry darling boy this is outstanding writing, as always you excel at whatever you write. Fabulous writing and this is full of celebration and love, I know Ginger Michelle is feeling the love too. I love the writing of you on this special day. Inside you is an endless river of wise. Yet again you fill me with awe at your strength of spirit and your determination I know all of you will feel her with you today. This has a charm and a magic that contains so much truth and love. As always darling boy you excel as only you can As always Mushy   Breathe through the heat of our desire |
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Saunni Senior Member
since 2000-07-11
Posts 1777West Virginia |
Larry, exceptional write here! Is true, hold on to the ones that are still here. The ones who can't be are imbedded in us. Have a great day  Sauni:)The Only Time I See The Sun Is When I'm Within That Vanilla Breeze.The Only Time I'm One With The Sun Is When He Shelters Me From The Rain. L.S |
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Mistletoe Angel
since 2000-12-17
Posts 32816Portland, Oregon |
 (tears fall down my cheeks) God Bless You, sweet friend, I know how you feel and I know how hard it must feel but I know deep down Ginger will always be with your heart and will never be forgotten as your son and you will spend many more happy moments together! (big huggssssssss) My thoughts are with you, sweet friend, I have missed you so so much, we all love you so much! You have such a beautiful heart, sweet Larry, thank you for sharing! May love and light always shine upon you! Love, Noah Eaton "Underneath your clothes there's an endless story..." |
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Magnus
since 2001-10-10
Posts 14135South Carolina, USA |
Larry... I have shed too many tears today over feelings, over memories...over those I no longer have. Yet...again I shed a tear...one for you.. And...even as a tear wells, I smile... Knowing that you have Ginger's memories and your son to share and love... |
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Larry C
since 2001-09-10
Posts 10286United States |
To all: Let me tell you about my boy. He has a Harley Buell that is his pride and joy. He borrowed a bike and made an exception for dad yesterday. We made a two hour ride into the Cascades outside Portland and had breakfast at Detroit Lakes. And I drove the Harley...woohoo! Today he is taking me to the GI Joe CART Indy race. These memories are over the top and at a perfect time. I have the best kids... And for all of your responses I'll wait until I get home for individual replies. But know I needed this and am ever so grateful. Happy Father's Day to everyone, no matter what. |
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Madame Chipmunk Member Rara Avis
since 2001-12-05
Posts 8296Michigan |
Happy Father's Day to you, Larry.... I know that it really is bittersweet this year, but you are so smart to spend it with your son and talk of the memories of Ginger. You are doing everything right. I remember my first Mother's Day without Eric, but unfortunately, I didn't get to spend it with Victor because he lives so far away....But we did spend a lot of time on the phone reminiscing about Eric. Always remember though...that life is for the living and not one of us is ever promised a tomorrow, and so we must all make the best of whatever time we have here with each other....and you are doing such a wonderful job of that. ~ Father's Day hugs to a great DadLyra |
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Tracey Member Elite
since 2001-08-29
Posts 2808where insanity meets breeding |
No doubt this isn’t the best fathers day you’ve ever had Larry, but I admire the strength you have to put it into perspective like this. Every day is precious isn’t it? Something we all need to remember. Okay, I’m jealous…I just scrolled down to read the replies before posting….YOU’RE GOING TO THE CART RACE???? YOU DROVE THE HARLEY???? Do you know how jealous I am??? Lol. You lucky dog you…tell me all about it, I only got to watch the race on TV…and missed the first half hour cause I was napping!!!  Everything is possible in the game of life |
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Suetang Member Ascendant
since 2001-03-07
Posts 5187Melbourne, Australia |
Hello Larry This was such a beautiful, heartfelt piece of writing from your very kind soul. I didn't realise until now that it was Father's Day for you over there. We don't celebrate Father's Day in Australia until September. We're a little backward here down under!! (only joking) Take care.....Sue Suetang |
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Balladeer
Administrator
Member Empyrean
since 1999-06-05
Posts 25505Ft. Lauderdale, Fl USA |
Larry, you are a giant in my eyes... |
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Duncan Member Ascendant
since 2001-08-07
Posts 5455 |
I've not had the best relationship with my father, Larry. Honestly, you've caused me to consider making another effort. And ya got to DRIVE the Harley...damn!!! Forgetting all I'm lacking |
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Midnitesun
since 2001-05-18
Posts 28647Gaia |
The sweet really can soften the bite of the bitter. Is it possible to eat chocolates while riding a Harley? No? You could always go for a camel ride with my harem sisters.   |
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Sven
since 1999-11-23
Posts 14937East Lansing, MI USA |
thoughts going out to you today Larry. . . peace my friend. . . ---------------------------------------------------------- To the world, you may only be one person. But to one person, you may be the world. |
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Kellie_Cantrell Senior Member
since 2002-05-22
Posts 1667New York |
Hi! Well you know what I am going to say right!! a whole lot of mushy stuff so there I said it "A whole lot of mushy stuff"... Good I got that over with lol. I really think you are a great Dad. Your keeping her alive. Each and everyday! There is never a day when I don't think about you and her and how much you all are an amazing family. I got 2 pet mice today one is really happy hyper and excited. She is also the color of Ginger hence thats her name... and the shoe fits so i'm letting her wear it. I hope you don't mind what I named her. Also I just want to take a quick moment to say happy fathers day! Your not my Dad but you deserve it and I guess its not really me saying it. I think God is sending a message down from heaven and this is how it reads.. Daddy, Hi daddy come dance with me upon heavens pearly white floor. The music is playing the angels are swaying Daddy I love you evermore. Someday we'll meet again and until then remember I'll always love you. Happy Fathers Day |
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Greeneyes
since 2000-09-09
Posts 9903In Your Poetic Mind |
love you my friend.... Lauren~ Its been a long road |
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Daylily Junior Member
since 2002-06-10
Posts 22USA |
I thought about you this last weekend knowing that it would be hard--and wondering if you would put it all into words. You did it well! |
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rwood Member Elite
since 2000-02-29
Posts 3793Tennessee |
You know..not every man..has what it takes to be a Daddy man..but you do.. Hope you smile hugs. Sincerely, Reg |
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Larry C
since 2001-09-10
Posts 10286United States |
Karen, I like that you are so reliable. You help to heal my heart. I'll never forget that. Eric, How kind of you, thanks. A lot... Karilea, Yup...I did. I am strengthened by your understanding. Thanks. Muys, Sigh, you do understand don't you... Thanks. JM, Thank you kind sir. Kit, Thank you and that is exactly what it was. Nancy Lee, It was an honor and thank you. JM, From one who was my example...thank you, always. Thank you Sy, tons. Paul, Thank you and a pleasure to meet you. Marge, You know...I take and give all the hugs I can. Thank you. Martie, Indeed I saw that and more...thank you. RSW, Strength comes from experience. It is not always to be envied. Sorry, I had to do that, I couldn't help myself. And thanks. SC, She'll always be in my heart. Thank you. Marsha, I'll never fully rid myself of pride as long as we're friends. LOL Thank you and a special hug to your girls from me. Saunni, Thank you kind friend. And a hug for you. Noah, Thank you always for your friendship. Barry, Much like my day...a tear and a smile. Thanks. Lyra, All so true...so much to be thankful for even yet. Tracey, And the back seat was empty...  . Can't say I didn't save you a place. If you were wondering...it was AWESOME.Sue, At least the time zones aren't THAT far apart. And thanks. 'deer, You must wear really thick glasses! LOL Thanks. Duncan, I hope your effort is rewarded. Yup...the Harley. Well it is a Buell, but really fast! Thanks. |
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Larry C
since 2001-09-10
Posts 10286United States |
Kacy, That is an offer hard to refuse. Chocolates...sure you can! Thanks friend. Sven, Much appreciated...thank you. Kellie, You are a wonderful daughter. I don't have to be your dad to figure that out! You find the soft spot in my heart every time. Thank you dear girl, thank you. Lauren, Thank you, always. Daylily, It is so nice to meet you. Wow...thanks. Reg, You're the best...everytime. Thanks. *smiles* and (((hugs))) |
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