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Madame Chipmunk
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0 posted 2002-06-07 12:43 PM


Women's Magazines



Those glossy women's magazines
show models built like skinny teens
wearing clothes we want to buy
but haven't go the nerve to try

and inside these publications
circulated through the nation
we read that we should have some curves
thats what cause men's heads to swerve

its healthy now, to have some weight
from diets, it will liberate
they say its sick to be too thin
or too fat...we just can't win

curvey is the current rage
yet skinny models grace their page
those glossy women's magazines
still think we all should look sixteen





Lyra

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1 posted 2002-06-07 02:45 AM


wow...and yes, I know...sigh...

and more than the magazines, let's talk about all media, television, and  designers who design clothes for MEN who want to wear women's clothing...(I don't object to that, but resent the size ranges limited to skinny teen-aged boys)--ever notice the lack of "darts" in petite dresses? sigh sigh sigh

but truly, through the years, I have been many sizes--and I would like to say, that I have never had a problem with dates...we are not "bodies" containing souls...we are souls, that happen to inhabit the physical.

and to quote a wise young writer, I simply say, "Be yourself..." (thanks, "C"!)

AND?

Thank you MC--YOUR beauty shines in this!

Larry C
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2 posted 2002-06-07 03:13 AM


Lyra,
They're so transparent for what they do,
And have not fooled either me or you.
It's not about whether we are well,
But rather it's about what will sell.

Midnitesun
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3 posted 2002-06-07 04:05 AM


LOL, I loved this look at the American beauty imagery. You'd think by now we could rise above size? I think most of the women's mags belittle women in general, and yet, it seems to be women who write and buy these rags. Poor self-image? I like the POV, a sense of humor in the irony of the split woman...a too thin/too fat dichotomy.
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4 posted 2002-06-07 04:06 AM


Lyra:

It's the same in the music business, especially women singers.
You don't see very many great big rotund female country singers do you.
I happen to know for a fact that there are many of them out there that never
make it just because of that. Many many of them extremely talented!
So it's all a BUSINESS! In our quest to enjoy the benefits of freedom the ultimate lifestyle has become a prerequisite for happiness.
According to "Business Week" magazine, the typical American is exposed to about 3000 commercial messages each day.
The power of advertising goes beyond the the selling of goods. It promotes a consumer lifestyle, a global culture that centers on material things with a certain look.
Many people claim that advertising makes people restless and dissatisfied with what they have, nuturing and creating endless desires.
Researcher Alan Durning writes: "Advertisemants, like our age, are mercuricial, hedonistic, image-laden  and fashion driven; they glorify the individual, idealize consumption as the route to personal fulfillment, and afirm technological progress as the motive force of destiny."

You're so right in this poem......this is what we get for our buck!!

SmartChick
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5 posted 2002-06-07 09:19 AM


Well Lyra, I I was small for about 20 years. Then about 3 or 4 years ago, I started gaining. Uaually, I would gain a little and then lose. But, not that time. This time, when I gained, it stayed. If it wasn't for the fact, that I finally was able to by me some Levi jeans, I wouldn't care. Now, I can't wear my Levi jeans. Boo-Hoo!
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6 posted 2002-06-07 09:40 AM




(smiles) Oh Lyra, I know just how you feel, it is absurd indeed, I too don't like that at all, it makes me sick to see how we treat each other in society and how our differing views seem to contradict each other and keep each other from feeling special! (big hugggsssss) I really don't like womens magazines at all, sweet friend, this is a powerful social view, we all love you so much! You have such a beautiful heart, sweet Lyra, thank you for sharing!



May love and light always shine upon you!

Love,
Noah Eaton

"Underneath your clothes there's an endless story..."

Shakira

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7 posted 2002-06-07 10:21 AM


This is great stuff! LOL. I'm printing this to share with my wife.
Madame Chipmunk
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8 posted 2002-06-07 08:32 PM


Thanks Karen...
This was inspired by a shopping trip to Nieman Marcus in Chicago.  I was looking for some jeans and I noticed that the size 0, 2, 4 and 6 were the easiest to find....the others were hidden behind those.

I wear a 6 and that made me feel really fat.
Then we walked around the Mall and I noticed that everyone was much skinnier than me...

I'm sure glad that I live here in Michigan where ther is so much less pressure to be pencil thin than there is in Chicago, NY or any of the big cities.

And the women's magazines are so 2 faced about everything...they say its okay to have some curves now...thats supposed to be the look thats "in" and yet if you look at their models....they probably wear size 0 or size 1.  I never realized that men who wore women's clothing had a similar problem....thanks for enlightening me.

~ size 0 hugs

Lyra

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Madame Chipmunk
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9 posted 2002-06-07 08:34 PM


Thanks Larry...I enjoyed your cute verse....and I do believe that "transparant" is the correct word here.

~ hugs of the real stuff

Lyra

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Madame Chipmunk
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10 posted 2002-06-07 08:36 PM


Thanks so much, Kacy...I agree...its amazing that women actually are the ones who unknowingly or maybe even knowingly, belittle themselves and all other women.

~ hugs from one woman to another

Lyra

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Madame Chipmunk
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11 posted 2002-06-07 08:38 PM


Thanks for your reply, Eric...I am sure you are right, but those woman should try opera singing....I think there is lots of room for larger women in that arena.
~ singing hugs

Lyra

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Madame Chipmunk
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12 posted 2002-06-07 08:40 PM


Thanks Sue...I think that happens to us all as we get older.  Sometimes I feel like inventing a clothes stretcher...sort of like a shoe stretcher....where you could put your clothes on it and turn the handle to get them to stretch to whatever size you want.
The only problem with that is that if you got it too big, it might burst the seams.

~ older and larger hugs

Lyra

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Madame Chipmunk
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13 posted 2002-06-07 08:42 PM


Noah...I am so glad that you don't like women's magazines....I would worry about you if you did...LOL
Thanks for your reply.

~ smiling hugs to you

Lyra

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Madame Chipmunk
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14 posted 2002-06-07 08:43 PM


Thanks Bags, I'm glad you enjoyed it and I hope that your wife will too...


~ women's magazine hugs

Lyra

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"poetry is life distilled"  Gwendolyn Brooks

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