Listening to every heart
Yes, serenity-gal...I know.
He still comes to me in dreams, though...and I listen!
and Susan, I've been back in touch and am keeping in better touch with my ex-husband's sister-in-law and vicariously, the rest of that part of the family as well. And it's nice, because there were a lot of good memories of them and now I'm getting to see and hear about my "shoulda-been" great-nieces and nephews and it makes me glad that we all shared space at one time or another.
Not "all families" should end up as "ex's" if at all possible...there's just too much history.