Greenville, South Carolina
Wow, you must like replying. Well, I’ll try to reply to your four posts in one long one, lol. You made some interesting statements and I’ll try to cover them all. I hope you have enough time to read it, I wrote quite a bit. Thanks
“I think it should be women's choice whether to have the baby or not.THey are the ones who have to have it.”
So should they also have the right to kill their children whenever they want? What you’re saying is, the mother birthed the kid so she can do whatever she wants with it. So if her five-year-old won’t behave in a restaurant, can the mother kill the child? I think not. No person relentless of their title (mother, father, general, soldier, leader, no one) has the right to take another’s life.
“If it is not a good enviroment for the child to grow up in or they are a child when they get pregnant they really should abort.“
That’s an awful thing to think. If that was the case, then hardly any babies would get to live. That is a complete lack of respect for human life. “Oh, I have a car payment and the mortgage is really getting on top of me, I might as well abort my baby, and maybe leave my toddler in a dumpster and sell my teenager to a pimp.” Does that sound right?
“Why have the child when the child might grow up only knowing drugs and gangs when in a couple years when they are old enought to be legal adults they will be in a safer place and be able to care for a child as the child deserves. If they are a teen why save that one life then when in the end the child will grow up with a mother who is barely not a child herself and in the end the mother may lose her life too,after all she will be up at midnight taking care of a baby when she should be sleeping to go to highschool.”
Ok, I’m trying to decipher this. The first part about the drugs: If the parent is negligent and exposes their child to drugs then there you have it. So the key is to raise them correctly. The second part: I guess you mean the mother should wait to grow up. Maybe this says that teenagers shouldn’t be having sex. I can’t get in trouble saying this because I’m a teenager myself: Teenagers are irresponsible and dense. They think they should have the right to do certain things but they don’t and they can’t seem to understand that.
“Also if women are raped I think they should have the option not to have a nother mans baby.”
The sentence I agree with in a different way. If a women is raped she should have the decision whether or not to RAISE the child. She has no right to kill him/her.
““Is that really fair to punish them and the child because the father commited a crime ?”
Is it fair to kill the child for something the father did? I’ve said this again and again. Adoption agencies are not myths. Leaving a child with a hospital or fire station or church is not an awful thing, it’s better then killing.
“Think about it, most kids get adopted young and if kids have been involved in drugs or gangs because they didn't know any better who will adopt them”
There are government programs to help those kids. There are people to take them in.
“she worked to get them out and she decides to put the kid up for adoption so they could go to school and turn out good, but the kid at 8 , they arent so cute anymore, they aren't tiny, they aren't overly bright. Without that most people wouldn't look twice at the kid.”
You need to realize that you are thinking in an extremely cynical way. Children are not puppies. People don’t just adopt because the kids are all cute and cuddly. They adopt because they know another human being needs them. They adopt so that the child can grow up knowing a family.
“Had she waited and not had the kid maybe she would be living in a good area, have a steady income , have friends and family ,support and she could take care of the kid.”
Correct, “had she waited.” That is on the money. People should not be having children is they aren’t able to support them, it’s downright irresponsible.
“Was God's act of taking life based on righteous judgment during the holoacaust, siearra leone civil war,darfur, stalins killings, wars,gang wars, Columbine such like that. What was right about taking those live?”
Do you honestly think that killing was from God!? How can you think that? Did God invade Poland and send Jews to the Auschwitz? No it was Hitler. Is God responsible for Stalin’s killings? No you said it yourself, Stalin is. Did God hold up the Columbine school? No, some messed up kids did.
“When did the innocent children during the holocaust commit a crime worthy of death, worthy of being deprived the right to grow up have children, be someone?”
I absolutely love that you said this. This is my point exactly. What crime did a child commit to deserve to be aborted, to be ‘deprived the right to grow up have children, be someone?’
“How can God justify mutilating and killing all those children during the Diamond wars? Making those children die in diamond mines and in battle before they were even out of middle school?”
Like I said, God didn’t do that. I don’t know how you can think such a thing. Did God send the kids to mine for diamonds? NO!!! And if you ask: “ Well, why didn’t He do anything about it?” Because He gave us free will and said He wouldn’t interfere with our lives.
“Are car accident deaths right, why should a baby and a working mother die because a drunk driver decides to have a night of fun with alchol and still drive the next day?”
Are you kidding? There is a reason it’s called an accident. Some people don’t drive well and some horrid people drink and drive. It’s not about fairness.
“Dying is a part of life. Dying is fair only in that it doesn't take lives because of race,religion,age, intelligence, background,hopes, or dreams.”
So is it fair to abort children? You said it’s not right to die under those conditions so how can it possibly be right to kill a child? Dying is a part of life, a part that God has nothing to do with. He has a part with you after you die. Contrary to what you said, God is not going around with a shotgun killing people. God doesn’t kill people, people kill people.
“Wrong, if she isn't aborted she has the chance to grow up in a bad situation to die of O.D to live in the slums, to not become anything solely because she doesn't know there is anything else to be.”
Then “she” shouldn’t have been kept there. Her parents should have had enough brains to take her away from that through adoption or any means necessary.
And I said to the devil, "You better leave my spleen alone."