British Columbia, Canada
I have to agree with Christopher here I am afraid but darn his head swells when that happens but, being older now, and once in your shoes, I too got annoyed back then. Things change over time, you will see. Just you wait until you get older and a person says, "Ma'am would you like my seat?" Brother, that makes me want to kick and scream, but I know the time will come all too soon, I will be glad for their seat. Trust me, you will wish that you were back in that nightclub being admired instead. As you get older you realize it is easier to take any attention as a compliment, and do it graciously too. When they "bother" you, maybe try telling them that you are are not interested, with a smile, then thank them. Try that, it works way better for both of you. Hey, and let us know how you do next time okay?