Listening to every heart
Here y'go, Raph...
so this is where you're hiding your poetry?
Second hubby was dating a woman prior to meeting me - but it came to her, after looking at her hands, that she was at LEAST his age, perhaps older. He asked, and she admitted her age. He went stage right.
I think men going for younger women has a lot to do with the idea of "control". Although that is not always the case, it does come to mind that they also may feel the wife will become the "caretaker" in later years...
of course, I could be way off base, too.