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JustSomeoneNotSoSpecial
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since 2003-02-10
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0 posted 2003-02-10 03:23 PM


ok so i'm not so new here i just got a new name because no one can find out who i really am. No offense to anyone or anything k?

so anyways, I don't know if i'm really mad or what. I just don't really know right now,
I'm shocked, just really shocked.
I mean after 25 years of marriage how can someone just up and say ... oh hey honey, I want a divorce? I'm not the one getting a divorce or anything it's someone i'm really close to and it isn't my parents.
opinion's please ...
I just don't get it at all ..
hmm .. I mean he has a "girlfriend" I guess, so he says but you never know right? It's just the fact that his daughter met her and knew about her before his "wife" knew about her .. and her own daughter did not even say anything to her for awhile? I MEAN HELLO? Are you stupid, if that was YOUR mom wouldn't you go straight to her and tell her? I know I would.
Thats all I have to say

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Miah
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since 2002-08-26
Posts 1062
Pennsylvania
1 posted 2003-02-10 07:35 PM


I too don't understand why things like happen, but I see it more often than not.

I think that her daughter felt she would betray her father and probably did not know what to do.  He may have said to her that he wanted to be the one to tell her mother.  

My best friends father left her mother after 13 years of marriage for a younger woman, and after 10 years with her he left that woman for a younger person.  Needless to say my friends mom sort of snickered at that.

Who knows the reasons why your friend's husband left her.  Mid-life crisis?  maybe he felt like this for years but stayed with her for the kids type thing.  Whatever the reason is it's never easy and very hard to understand.  I hope everything works out for your friend.

poohbear19
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since 2003-02-02
Posts 94
Colorado, USA
2 posted 2003-02-10 07:46 PM


No one has the answers at the right time, but if you think about it long enough you get the answer. Maybe they want a divorce because they grew apart, it happens. Well I hope everything works out for them.

Andrea

Nan
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Member Seraphic
since 1999-05-20
Posts 21191
Cape Cod Massachusetts USA
3 posted 2003-02-10 08:50 PM


Since you mention it, we DO know when any registered member joins with a new username...
JustSomeoneNotSoSpecial
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since 2003-02-10
Posts 2

4 posted 2003-02-11 02:15 PM


Yeah I know but I changed EVERYTHING ... my email, my name EVERYTHING! lol

And she isnt just a friend, she's my aunt! I feel so bad for her, she doesn't deserve what she is getting.


Dopey Dope
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Member Patricius
since 2000-08-30
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San Juan, Puerto Rico
5 posted 2003-02-23 06:27 PM


hmmmm....it definitely sounds like a dose of the not-good-at-all.

hope it gets better

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