loner--perhaps you read my broken nail post? That was a actually a bit of tongue in cheek teasing, which, I may add, you took in good humor. Since it is understanding that you seek--perhaps YOU now can understand that there are people who post on this site with various problems--many battling bravely serious illness. So certainly you can see why some may be annoyed by apparent triviality--one or two is understandable, we all have bad days. But a constant barrage DOES annoy, especially since some of the more recent ones seem to insult the generosity of the owner of this site who so graciously PAYS for us to play, and those who also graciously volunteer their time to moderate as well as make themselves available for courtesies such as private critique, and moral support for others who seem genuinely troubled. Understanding is a two way street. This is in no way a personal attack on YOU. I have been told the same thing during one of my MANY pity parties.
One particular moderator took telling me a simple one word bit of advice: COPE.
Thanks C...sometimes we all need to keep perspective!