Maybe give her a little time to digest it all, thats alot to put into place dude. Then,let her know you don't want to lose her, that can mean the world.
If my best guy friend told me he was IN love with me, I'd flake till I had time to weigh all the pros/cons that come with it.
LOL, not that I have to worry bout that, we love each other in a way only martians and old Greek Gods can dig.
Best wishes, and , in all fairness,,,I guess it's a good thing you told her,,,,a real friend will help work thru what ever outcome arises, and wouldn't have wanted you to keep it all bottled up.
If home is where the heart is,,,,,I guess the corner bar is where the mind wanders off to