Sitting in Michael's Lap
The problem with visiting a site upon which so many relationships have been forged is that you become suspect if you so much as extend a hand in friendship ...
Yes, there ARE married people who flirt on these boards ... I would go so far as to say that they "search" on these boards (I won't mention names -- you know who you are). You, my dear, are NOT one of them (you are married, are you not? Sometimes the old noggin leaks -- LOL). Unfortunately, however, sometimes we must pay the price for others' misdeeds ... *g*
My view on this is: as long as you and your significant other know there is nothing of substance going on, who CARES what the tabloid masses think? *wink*
... what if the Hokey Pokey really IS what it's all about ...?