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Mark Bohannan
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0 posted 2000-11-12 01:42 PM


As of late, there have been some very sensual pieces
put up in the open forums and I must admit to guilt in this as well.  There are some poems that push the borders of sensuality and eroticism that really don't deserve to be put in the adult forum but being that it is the only place to put them as of now, do you think that we need a new forum for just this type of poetry.  One where the eroticism and sensuality could be expressed as long as it does not delve into the graphic nature of sex.  I know that we have quite a few forums already but should we include a sort of "R" rated one without having to go straight to the "XXX" forum for all those poems that fall in between the family guidelines and the hardcore?  Would be interested in all of your comments.  I think it is worth consideration only in the fact that maybe it would make the decisions of the moderators more helpful and also lose the risk of offending some visitors to the open forums and still leave the free expression of the poets at it's purest level.  Thank you in advance for any and all comments either way.

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Skyfyre
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1 posted 2000-11-12 03:02 PM


Mark:

The problem with creating this type of forum is that someone will be called upon to make the hairline decisions between it and Open, or between it and Adult.  A poem may be judged "not suitable for children" for many reasons, and those reasons will vary from person to person.  What I allow my children to watch on TV may be different than what you find permissible for yours -- this is sort of the same situation.  So tell me ... who's right?  Should my kids follow your rules or should yours follow mine?

The Adult forum at Passions is well-established, and thanks to Ron and Sharon, well-run.  The age-limit there is 18: only one year higher than the unsupervised age-limit for an "R" rated movie.  I think it would be unrealistic for us to assume that most of the underage persons who visit our site are actually "supervised" while surfing.  As such, in my opinion at least, there is no reason to create another forum specifically for our 17-year-old members and future members.  Admittedly, they see enough of "rated R" on TV -- why should we risk our credibility as a responsible web site by further reinforcing that genre?

Sorry, Mark.  I appreciate a good sensual/erotic poem as much as the next poet, but I don't think they need their own forum.  Seventeeners: learn some patience!  

Respectfully,

--Linda


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2 posted 2000-11-12 04:40 PM


Well I'm one of those seventeeners you're talking about and all I have to say is that it wouldn't make much of a difference to me.



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3 posted 2000-11-12 06:34 PM


I must agree with both Linda and Dopey Dope (especially Dopey, him being the sexiest man alive, and all...) why not let's just utilize what we have? That is eroticism, after all...I promise herewith to behave, and send me yearnings to Adult---where it belongs...and I apologize here for my previous indiscretions.  Hugs.
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4 posted 2000-11-12 10:48 PM


Well, I'll jump on here.  I think this is a good idea, but even still any new forum for erotic and sensual poems (without such graphic wording or descriptions) should still require a password and permission for use pertaining to age.  That way, the hairline decisions wouldn't have to be made, because no children would see it anyway.  I'll grumble here a bit to say that a lot of more soft sensual poems in adult have been passed up and ignored on occasion for the more graphic and hardcore poems.  Yes..yes..Adult is sometimes slower, but still this happens whether it is slow or not.  I wouldn't think it would be difficult to determine which poetry was suitable for which private forum at all.

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5 posted 2000-11-12 11:32 PM


I'll let y'all hash this out together (you might be surprised to know the subject's come up before...) But I did want to clear up what seems to be a fairly common misconception about the Adult forum.

quote:
(Adults Only) This forum is set aside for more mature topics.


Nowhere does it say that the Adult forum is a place strictly for "XXX," as you worded it so eloquently Mark, poetry. The Adult forum is for topics (such as sexual innuendo) which are more mature in nature. Mature is not limited to "smut" poetry. It can be about virtually anything viewed from a mature perspective. A point of fact, is that you would be hard put to find many things in that forum which are on that extreme end of things. (This of course depends on your point of view.) It has restrictions much as the other forums do. The ones it does not have, conversely, are those on subject matter... to a degree. Even there, we have had people "cross the line."

There is some incredible work in the Adult forum, and there is much that you would have a hard time convincing me deserved a "XXX" rating.

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6 posted 2000-11-13 01:40 PM


I agree with serenity.....I am the sexiest man alive!



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7 posted 2000-11-13 02:39 PM


Woah Dopey, control yourself!

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8 posted 2000-11-13 03:15 PM


I've been one of those mavericks - who has a very difficult time understanding the prudery of the American audience in general.

I'll explain that below but first let me say I agree with Temptress and Mark.  I wholeheartedly endors the idea.

How many of those who want to shield our "children" from explicit sex (or any sex) are keeping their children from reading the bible - in particular - the songs of solomon?

How many were and are incensed by the quantity of violence and killing in graphic detail - that is presented in regular television and movies without sex - specifically places like the History channel, the discovery channel, and the learning channel, schwartzenegger movies, friday the 13th movies etc. -- and didn't get their dander 'up' until sex reared its head? Frankly I'm FAR MORE INCENSED  by voilence than Sex - Expressions of love do not result in ugly death.

doreen peri
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9 posted 2000-11-13 05:38 PM


i think it's a great idea.

i often write pieces with a sensual overtone and phrasing that could be considered "adult" in nature, but frankly, rarely post in the adult forum because, whether it was the original intent or not, most often the works posted in the adult forum are quite explicit and i feel like my poetry doesnt' belong there... there are pieces i've never posted at passions because they are too sensual for open, and i don't want to place them in the adult forum because i don't think they fit well there

there's a middle road and hollywood calls it "R"... and sometimes here at passions i don't know where certain pieces i write "R" welcome.

and i agree with jenn-temptress that this new proposed forum could be password protected by age, just as the adult forum is so there wouldn't be any problem there with making hairline decisions

well, i R done - and you all R fine with me, so just carry on and Rticulate your Rguments without an becoming disRmed... hehe  

(hey, but there's also the other side to this issue which is how large this site is and the difficult job the moderators and ron already undertake so i R no big influence here, i think, but thanks for letting me speak... HUH? what do you MEAN you didn't let me!!??   ok, so i admit it, i R outspoken and i R just me so R all of you so X me out if y'wanna, but i'll just keep on writing and rambling and DRIVING ALL OF YOU CRAZY!! hehe *grin)< !signature-->

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10 posted 2000-11-13 07:27 PM


Hey Wil... For what it's worth.. Violence is definitely not condoned here.  If a post is graphically violent and/or glorifies harm to others or to the poet themself, it's subject to edit.... Thankfully, it's a very rare happenstance around here..
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11 posted 2000-11-13 11:47 PM


Let's "edit" Nan's response... LOL

It's subject to editing or deletion.  

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12 posted 2000-11-14 01:00 PM


Hey Nan - I hope you didn't think I was suggesting that graphice violence should be condoned or is condoned here or anywhere else - I just felt that - unlike the popular media in other countries - i.e. Italy & France, this nation (not this forum) displays a level of hypocrisy not seen since Christ decried the Scribes & Pharisees.
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13 posted 2000-11-14 01:48 PM



I waited to reply to this post to see if there was a clear consensus on the idea for a new forum. But now, I feel I should put in my 34 cents (the price of a stamp beginning in January).

There wasn’t always an Adult Forum. It was created when the poetry in Open got a bit on the ‘adult’ side (ok, I admit it – it was me!!!). It was Ron’s idea to have a place to post poetry that would not be suitable for the younger readers and to maintain the family oriented spirit that makes Passions such a wonderful home. He asked me to moderate it, and I agreed. Then came the problem of what was acceptable in Adult. I felt I could not impose my views of what is acceptable on anyone but I felt that we should not shun those with views that were different, therefore, I took the guidelines for Passions and tailored them for the forum.

Violence in and of itself is not allowed and especially violence against someone else (be it a sexual or physical attack).

There is a lot I would say about some of the acceptable posts, but feel uncomfortable discussing them in this forum where younger readers could see them. (If you wish to know please email me and I’ll explain my position.) Sexuality is in the eye of the beholder. What I find to be good erotic poetry, someone may find tame. What others think is good, I may find too explicit. But this forum does not belong to me. It belongs to the members of PiP. Therefore, THEY set the tone. If no one posts the beautiful, sensual poetry that Mark and Ron K. Fox wrote, then we are deprived of reading such lovely words. If all that is posted is of a specific hard core genre, then that’s all we’ll have to read.

We’ve had many different ‘cycles’ in Adult. We’ve enjoyed the humor and camaraderie of some very funny poems. We’ve had poems that challenge our tolerance and compassion. Recently, we had an influx of new poets who do write with a more sensual tone. But also, we’ve had a few poets who posted and didn’t reply at all! I call them the ‘post and run’ poets. As with any forum, replying to someone’s work is essential to keep the forum alive. I could reply to each poem, but that defeats the purpose of the forum.

I do not feel the Adult Forum is XXX rated. I’m not even sure what that means. Who determines what is X and what is XXX? Not I. My mother’s opinion differs from mine in what we consider pornographic and that’s a good thing! We are different and have different views. But here at Passions, we must adhere to the guidelines that were created to keep the Open Forum family oriented.

I feel if we create another forum and not put a password on it, we will be faced with a multitude of nightmares and would not solve the problem. Younger readers still would have access to the poetry there. If we put a password on it, aren’t we in effect recreating what is already available?

If you want to make the Adult Forum a place for the poetry with “sensual overtones and phrasing” “where the eroticism and sensuality could be expressed as long as it does not delve into the graphic nature of sex” then I urge you to join us there. It will become the place you seek. But unless you are willing to help create it and dedicated to maintaining it, the tone will revert to what you’ve described as hard core and XXX rated. Complaints from the members determine what is acceptable or not in Adult. Therefore, what’s in Adult now is there because no one complained.

Passions in Poetry Forums – all of them – are yours. YOU make them what they are! I challenge you (and fully support you) to come to Adult and make it what you want!

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14 posted 2000-11-14 06:55 PM


sharon? you are just the most eloquent lady.
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15 posted 2000-11-14 08:10 PM


Sharon I couldn't agree more!
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16 posted 2000-11-15 10:16 PM


Ok time for me to go to bed but here's my take on the subject...

I think there's nothing nicer that the warm feeling a seductive poem can give but if it's over-stretches the boundaries and becomes embarrasing then you're more likely to turn the page, just as you would with a book...but we all read different books don't we?

So, what each finds embarrasing could become something of a misnomer...i.e. when I watch something containing blood and gore I cover my eyes and peek through them but someone else may merely laugh and say "tomato sauce"...likewise if some guy presents himself to me with no clothes on, what's there to find?

If you lay it all on the line what is there to uncover?  

Give me seduction, warm me up and send me to sleep with something on my mind but please don't show me that there is nothing left to unwrap cause it spoils all the fun and leaves nothing for my imagination to run riot with...*g*

Maybe I'm just a treasure hunter...LOL


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17 posted 2000-11-15 11:58 PM


I hate 'beating a dead horse' but with all due respect - I must speak again - While everything Sharon says is true. (She speaks so eloquently.) I feel there is justification for a 'R' forum - with the same PW restruction as Adult now enjoys.
My reasoning is this: Balladeer is firmly suggesting that the guidelines for Open will be more rigidly enforced. AND Experience has taught many of us that those who would read our "borderline" pieces in Open WILL NOT go to Adult. They MIGHT go to a 'R' forum. (One like the holiday forum) - Perhaps a experimental 'R' forum trial run might be in order.

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18 posted 2000-11-16 12:21 PM


Bill, you said:

"Experience has taught many of us that those who would read our "borderline" pieces in Open WILL NOT go to Adult. They MIGHT go to a 'R' forum. (One like the holiday forum)"

We have many 'lurkers' in Adult. You'd be surprised how many ask for access that never post! And why wouldn't they go read it if they are the right age? What's wrong with Adult?

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19 posted 2000-11-16 11:15 AM


What connotates X? or XXX? hmmm... that's a good question.

I think there are subjects & topics & a way of presenting wording which i graphically  exceed "sensuality" and that could connotate an X or XXX - those subjects, topics, and presentation techniques include: sado-masochism, overt descriptive phrases & terms referring to specific body parts, descriptive wording of acts of sexuality described in a manner that includes graphic details and a blow-by-blow account of intimate relations.

On the other hand, in my opinion, poems which instead imply, suggest, metaphorically refer to, or use imagery or double-entendres which can be considered sensual -- are not X or XXX -- but could be considered R.

There is definitely a difference between Hustler Magzine and Playboy, for instance, and I'm certain nobody would disagree with that.

As you said, Sharon, these are subjective opinions... what is X to one person, may be XXX to another, what is G to one person, may be R to another.

Sharon, you said:
"If we put a password on it, aren’t we in effect recreating what is already available?"

And I would answer with a NO, and this is why --

When i write a piece with sexual innuendos, metaphors, or allusions using terminology not as graphic as my definition of X above but instead of an R nature (and of course, i realize these are MY definitions), there is nowhere to post it at Passions, except in Adult. But posting it in Adult can sometimes  place it next to other poems which are considerably more graphic in nature and fall within my definition of X or even XXX. This makes me uncomfortable, and I know that's just me, but it's me... so... that's how i feel.

Recently I posted a poem called "We Deliver 2" in Adult because it was clearly unsuitable for Open. But, I didn't feel it belonged sitting next to a poem about torture, which made me feel quite uncomfortable.  

Yes, I am one of your "hit-&-run" occasional Adult posters because I do not particularly enjoy reading explicit language written by strangers and therefore I don't reply.... It's just not my thing. So? That's just me. When I go to post in Adult because my poem doesn't fit in Open, I always skim through the posted poems, and if I see something I feel comfortable with reading and responding, I do. If i don't, I don't.

So, all of this is my opinion, but I guess it would have to be, huh, because I'm the one typing this!! LOL  

Therefore, I believe there is a place for a password protected forum for 'sensual-erotic' poetry here at Passions and I don't believe it is recreating something which is already available.

(But... hey... I don't HAVE to post everything I write here, either.... I could just share those poems with my Muse... LOL... )

Thanks for letting me share my thoughts    

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20 posted 2000-11-16 12:05 PM


See Doreen - I always KNEW you were trouble...
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21 posted 2000-11-16 12:53 PM


Christopher...

i'm shocked!


        

admit it... you've taught me everything i know~! (well almost)  


[This message has been edited by doreen peri (edited 11-16-2000).]

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22 posted 2000-11-16 06:51 PM


I still disagree. The Adult Forum us what WE make it. If no one complains about the poetry posted there, it will remain. I am not the judge..nor do I want to be.

I invision a continual squabble about what is and isn't sensuous and taxing the patience of members whose work is dragged from one forum to another because the Moderators, who have to keep track of the content, feel that post is inappropriate for that specific forum.

And that said, I think it's ultimately up to Ron to decide.  

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23 posted 2000-11-16 09:25 PM


i cannot judge.

i cannot complain.

i have no judgement over ANYTHING that anybody writes. It's fine with me.

seriously.

as a matter of fact, i applaud the fact that there is a place for people to write whatever they want.

That's the glory of it all.

i am not about to go into a forum and complain about the writings of others.

i said all the rest i had to say above which included that there are already a lot of forums and the moderators are alreay busy and i'm not pressed for this at all....


[This message has been edited by doreen peri (edited 11-16-2000).]

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24 posted 2000-11-17 11:20 PM


OK, I have a lot to say about all of this but I'll TRY and
keep it as short as I can!  


First off, I have mixed feelings about this comment:
quote:
There are some poems that push the borders of sensuality and eroticism that really don't deserve to be put in the adult forum

Ok, I would like to know just who should be the judge of that.
I have read a few pieces in adult that have offended me, but I just discontinued reading and moved on.
I just don't think this was a fair comment to make.


And, to what Sharon has said, agreed %100 on the "post & Run" poets.
I do agree, for the most part,....BUT....
I fear that if more poets start to come into adult wanting to post sensual only and begin to "complain" about what's being posted, where does that leave the rest of the poets who prefer to post more graphic pieces?
I walk a fine line because I post many levels of adult pieces....from loving to graphic.
Though I do understand both sides of this,
I guess my feelings are mixed.


Isn't there some way this can be done with out opening another forum?
Is there some way each piece can be labeled somehow along with the title to warn readers of it's content?
Just a thought.......

And last....
Doreen....I have read your pieces the few times that you've posted in adult and I LOVED them. I'm sorry you feel that they don't "fit" or belong there.
I for one am not one to frown on a piece just because it's not graphic enough!
Let me just say this......if I could write like that, I would!  

JMO on this matter.......
You all have a good night now, ya' hear!


~PanDol


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25 posted 2000-11-18 12:14 PM


We could try an experiment in Adult. Next to your title put a rating - you choose what to give it - an R - an X - a XX - XXX - this why we can test to see what's being read and what isn't.

Is that fair?


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26 posted 2000-11-18 02:46 AM


I just posted in adult too. If I'd read this first I would have rated it....
I think it's a great idea Sharon....

Oh, I guess I can always go back and edit my tittle.
Heck, it's worth a shot.....I'll go back and rate mine....maybe we can see how this will fly huh?
So how should we do this? What should the rating be?

R, X, XX, and XXX?
Well, I'll rate it what I think, you can check it out I guess and tell me.
Ok, nighty for now!  


~PanDol


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27 posted 2000-11-18 05:33 AM


PanDol, an R rating was good!  
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28 posted 2000-11-18 03:26 PM


hehe... lol@ PanDol - did you edit your "tittle" yet? rofl

is that short for "titilate"?  

i like the self-rating idea, too - that could work -
'course sometimes i rate, sometimes, i don't..  ... but i try never to get irate anyway

(((hugs))) to all (G-rated hugs! *g... meetchya over in Adult for some R-rated ones, maybe *g)

oh and thanks panDol for the compliment.. truly

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29 posted 2000-11-18 08:13 PM


I actually do think that there is a place for another forum, not that the forums we have aren't sufficient, they are. However this is a growing community, and like all growing things, it needs to evolve. The Adult Forum is fine, but I wouldn't think my poems belong in there. Lately some of my poems have been very sensual, and it's only on reading them after others have that I've realised that maybe they have been a little warm. Sharon is very eloquent and her arguments are all valid, but there is a part of me that sees the need for a crossover section. If it were password protected, or by invitation only, there wouldn't be the need  for any embarrassment on behalf of Ron and the Moderators.

My veiw of what is or isn't acceptable isn't the issue, I am most definitely a product of the sixties. So my attitudes are reflected in that, but it's not personal oppinions that you are after. The subject is would a new forum be a good idea, and I most definitely say yes. There are several reasons but the main one is that this is a forum, and open forums are just that. I truly believe that there is nothing disgusting or wrong within a loving relationship. Still what I would consider normal behaviour is unlikely to be viewed with the same savoir faire by someone else. So if it came to a vote, I would opt for another forum.

This is of course only my opinion, and I'm sure there will be others who can argue far more eloquently for no new forums.
Take care
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[This message has been edited by Marsha (edited 11-19-2000).]

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30 posted 2000-11-18 11:48 PM


Okay. . . now it's my turn to address this. . .

Bottom line. . . there is no need for another forum. . . period. . .

Why?  Because that is what the Adult Forum is for.  It's for topics of a "Mature Nature".  Now, what does that include?  It includes poetry of a "sensual" or "erotic" nature.  Poetry that challenges your mindset, that makes you think.  If you'll go the the Adult forum, you'll see that I've moved some topics up to illustrate.  

Now then, what should we rate the poems there?  I for one, think that it's not necessary to "rate" poems, and I will not do it.  

My Adult posts run the gamut, from sweet and seductive to down and dirty. . . because that's what I write. . . and I have no problem having my work next to anyone else's. . .in fact. . . I'm honored to be included with the poets that write in that forum.  It's very difficult to write good erotica and Adult poetry, and they do it with style, with grace, and with a very mature attitude.  They are people that are comfortable with expressing that side of themselves, and sharing themselves with others.

I would say that if you don't want to have your work in the Adult forum, don't post it there. . . if you're embarassed to be seen with the other work that is there. . . then don't put it there. . . but, don't expect that we don't want you. . . we want you. . . we have a good time in Adult. . . we laugh, we cry, we flirt like crazy. . . and it's all in fun. . . we know it. . . and we enjoy it. . .  

If you're offended with what you read there. . . then don't go, or let one of the Moderators know. . . or, there's a little thing called a "Back" button on your browser. . . if you don't like what you're reading. . . don't read it. . .

Now then, there are guidelines. . .they are enforced. . . and they will be enforced more strictly as has been shown. . . so, don't be offended if something of yours gets moved to Adult and you think that you're going to get fewer responses that way. . . on the contrary, we have more "lurkers" in Adult than you think. . . you might be surprised. . .

Adult exists for you. . . for us. . . it's worked so far. . . and as Mom said. . . "If it ain't broke. . . don't fix it. . . "

There you go. . . my 34 cents. . . which probably isn't a lot. . . but, it's mine. . .  

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31 posted 2000-11-19 02:54 PM


OK doreen.... ROLFMBO! Looks like I need to edit more than
just my "Tittle"   Hehehe
OK, so the joke is on me....what's new!

Anyway, that's all I have to say for today!
You all take care now, ya hear!




~PanDol


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32 posted 2000-11-23 08:36 AM


Ok ok.  I think everyone has valid points but I have a question.  What about those 16 or 17 year olds who wish to write this kind of poetry.  Personally I feel that they have a right to write poetry of this material, maybe no read but definitely write it.  Anyway I just thought if everyone is being so technical that I would just bring this question up where it belongs.


The White Wolf

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33 posted 2000-11-23 12:31 PM


In the past, if an underage member has written something that is considered adult, it is moved to the Adult forum. They usually don't post it in Adult in the first place, as even if they write it, they are not given access until they are legally of age.
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Liverpool UK
34 posted 2000-11-24 04:32 PM


Loads of good opinions and good thoughts here,  so here is my 27 pennies worth (the price of a stamp here in england)

I think there is a case here for another forum, for the more sensual writing, which concentrates on the physical side of love.

Over here in the UK there are the following film classifications...

U-  Unlimited-  suitable for all
PG-  parental guidance
12-  Self explanatory
15-  see the theme?
18-  no prizes.

I think having a halfway house where the more mature poets can feel comfortable posting their risque poems where it is not alongside torture and the like.  I would defy anyone to find me a typical 16 year old who is not actively thinking about sex.  In fact after puberty hits thats pretty much ALL they think about.  Letting them read about fetish however is not good.

maybe a section which is members only like adult, but where an adult has to approve a minor having permission to look, but without an age limit as such?

I dont know if that would be too much of a beurocratic burden though.  It would mean however that the Adult would be for the serious adult stuff, and people who do get offended dont have to risk running into torture when they want to post some of their more steamy works.  I think it would be a pretty active forum.

Kevin.

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