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Lone Wolf
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Lansing, MI USA

0 posted 2001-08-06 07:03 PM


I sit quietly among my dad’s family
Listening to the stories of days past
Tales of my grandfather and his siblings
Surround and bathe me in remembrance

After soaking it all in for a while
I talk to a second cousin of mine
He has now lived 83 years time
Having seen much come and disappear

I am captivated by the thread he weaves
Which tells me more than I had ever known
About my grandfather who died all those years
Before I was even a thought in my parents mind

From what I have heard he was a good man
Who loved his family more than life itself
This doesn’t surprise me since that is my father’s legacy
Giving his children all he never had as a child

Dad is loyal to his family to a fault at times
I never understood why until a few years ago
I learned about a cousin I never knew about
He was given up by my aunt as an infant

She was only a teenager and in those days
Getting pregnant before you married was bad
My grandmother would not help her with him
So she did what she thought was best . . . adoption

He found her a few years before she died
They reunited and talked about the past
It’s always strikes me how things
Seem to come around full circle at times

My dad sacrificed his education
To get a job to help support the family
During the great depression
I admire him for his sense of responsibility

He worked long hours in a thankless job
To give me a chance at a life he never had
I can never repay all he has done for me
He continues to teach me about life to this day

I know I was blessed to have a good childhood
Full of wonderful memories with my parents
They always encouraged me in anything
I decided I wanted to pursue along the way

There were countless concerts, competitions,
Plays, tennis matches, and banquets
They attended all willingly cheering me on
Rain or shine, smiling proudly at me

I knew then I was fortunate to have them
For there were many other children
Whose parents were unable to attend
Or just plain didn’t care about the activities

I remember way back in elementary school
Father daughter crafts or dances
Mother daughter events for this or that
No matter what, they always made time for me

I grew up feeling loved and wanted
In spite of what my siblings said
They were much older and loved to tease
As the baby of the family I was their target

That would probably be the main reason
To this day, we are not very close to each other
Years of teasing and torment tend to cause
A bit of resentment to build up in a young mind

Oh, they are my brother and sister
And yes, I do love them regardless
But in my eyes they were strangers
In many ways throughout the years

They had already married when I was born
Moving on with their own lives
Starting families of their own
While I grew up in their shadow

Throughout school teachers who had them
Would be amazed at how different we were
Then again, my parents always encouraged me
To be an individual and pursue my own interests

I spent much of my life being called by my sister’s name
I really hated that because I was me not her
My grandmother would call me a string of names
Before she would finally get it right

I guess that was a casualty of having been born
After so many others already had
She never could keep us all straight as far as names
A problem common to many families I’m sure

My mother was my best friend in life
She stood by me lending support
Encouraging me to reach my full potential
I miss her much since she died nine years ago

Life without her is just not the same
Although her death did serve to bring
My father and I even closer together
He is my rock and without him I’d be lost

It’s funny how reunions will bring memories
Flooding back into your mind and heart
Just waiting to be shared with another
Who someday will bear your name

Children are our legacy in life
Taking our triumphs as well as sorrows
Into the future where one day they will capture
Generations who will carry their knowledge on



All writing comes
by the grace of God.
-Ralph Waldo Emerson

[This message has been edited by Lone Wolf (edited 08-06-2001).]

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Sven
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1 posted 2001-08-06 07:04 PM


I really like this LW. . . a story well told, and now, a story that will continue to be told. . .

great job. . .  

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To the world, you may only be one person. But to one person, you may be the world.

walker
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since 2001-02-11
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Florida
2 posted 2001-08-06 07:40 PM


LW- Parents raise children differently because they(parents) also change as life goes on. Love this poem.
Irish Rose
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since 2000-04-06
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3 posted 2001-08-06 07:44 PM


How wonderful and yes, YOU are you and stand out in the crowd....this is a great remembrance of the time you shared with your family.

" I walked beside the evening sea And dreamed a dream that could not be" George William Curtis"

Kay

Seymour Tabin
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since 1999-07-07
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Tamarac Fla
4 posted 2001-08-06 07:49 PM


Lone Wolf,
I have experienced similar meetings. Good job

Lone Wolf
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since 2000-03-16
Posts 5842
Lansing, MI USA
5 posted 2001-08-07 05:59 PM


Sven: Thank you, and yes it shall be told again.  

walker: Very true, very true.  It's too bad my siblings never seemed to realize that.

Kathleen: I'm just me, sweetheart.  It was a great time and I always cherish it.  

Seymour: Wonderful memories for all.  Thank you!

All writing comes
by the grace of God.
-Ralph Waldo Emerson

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