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hoot_owl_rn
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0 posted 2000-12-04 09:26 AM



it wasn’t my business

she was three years old
with blonde hair that hung in ringlets
around her small face
and i couldn’t help but notice
how she rarely wore shoes
and how ragged her tiny ill-fitting clothes were
how she never smiled
and how the bruises in different stages of fading
she wore like battle scars on her body
i noticed it all
but it wasn’t my business

her mother was only 20
petite quiet and pretty
she worked days at a local restaurant
making tips to pay the rent
and i couldn’t help but wonder
how sometimes even on cloudy days
she donned dark glasses
or how even on the summers hottest days
she wore long sleeves and a turtle neck
i wondered about it all
but it wasn’t my business

her dad was in his 30’s
and i was told he once served time
for armed robbery on a local grocery store
he sported a mass of tattoos as black as can be
and a temper to match
jobless, he stayed home all day
drowning his life in the bottom of a bottle
and at night through the thin plaster walls
i could hear his shouts of anger
cursing and fists hitting the wall
as he showed his disapproval at his family
i could hear it all
but it just wasn’t my business

and today sitting here i stare at a newspaper
laying on my cluttered dinning room table
and the front page story in stark black and white
gives the account of how last night
a mother and her 3 year old child
were murdered at the hands of husband and father
and i can’t help but think
about how last night out of my pleasant dreams
i was awoken by screams
and i fittfully struggled to go back to sleep
slightly disturbed by what i finally realized
and i thought perhaps today i’d call social services
but it really wasn’t my business
or was it?




What lies behind us and lies before us are small matters compaired to what lies within us.
~Ralph Waldo Emerson

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SEA
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1 posted 2000-12-04 09:39 AM


Hoot~ Ugh......this hurts to read and sends me back......this is why I divorced my ex.....I didn't want to be a story in the newspaper.......no, my neighbors didn't do anything.....until the very end, then one helped me......I was in Japan too. Very sad.....we all need to be involved.....it effects each and every one of us. Thank you for  reposting this.   -SEA
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2 posted 2000-12-04 10:13 AM


its always a dilemma to make a decision if it is not my business or it is my business......

but on the other side to know that you have neighbours who are showing their care, it might be help a bit.

but we will never know the answers if we don't try to reach out our hands.

wonderful poem with an important message.

((hugs))
Charisma

hoot_owl_rn
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3 posted 2000-12-04 06:54 PM


Sea...I've been there, done that too and luckily I faired better than those in the poem, but only by the grace of God. It is our business and everyone's business to report known abuse...the results of such abuse be it physical or mental are never a good thing. God bless you dear that you are one of the survivors  

Charisma...if we don't reach out, who will? Thank you. Hugs  

ethome
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4 posted 2000-12-05 07:30 PM


Good point Hoot if we don't reach out, who will? I really get all emotional when I read something like this...I visualize that tiny beautiful girl (have a daughter of my own) so unhappy in the brief life that she didn't really enjoy...this is the the greatest sadness that there is....it just makes me yearn for capital punishment sometimes...I thank you for reposting this message.. ethome
Wilfred Yeats
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5 posted 2000-12-05 07:54 PM


you must work in pediatrics - I never see these cases  - but I assure you - after reading this - I'll remember - and call - my business or not if I ever get in sight.
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6 posted 2000-12-05 10:26 PM


A *BUMP* so more can read  
hoot_owl_rn
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7 posted 2000-12-06 08:56 AM


Thank you all....not a pretty poem, but sometimes our world just isn't a pretty place.
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