Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Love takes a long time to get over.... I know, I've been trying to do it for so long. And last night I was talking to a friend and he asked me why I still wanted my ex after everything and all the time that had passed. My answer to him was because I am still in love with him. His response to me was you can't be in love unless both people feel the same way, and that when you have memories, good memories with a person, and when you have loved a person, that never leaves you. And that you may always love them but the kind of love changes.
You still love your ex, that is understandable, however, it's probably less of the romantic kind of love, and more of loving what you had and the person they were to you. It does get easier, and the pain does go away, it just takes time. Trying to forget is impossible, trying to move on however, is quite achievable...